Marriage & Divorce - 31 December 2007

I am a twenty six year old Vietnamese female who has fallen in deep love with a Lithuanian 18 year old guy who used to go to college in New York but now has launched his singing career because of me so now were making our own album together we hope to model together now also the problem is things seem to perfect a little to perfect he has been sleeping over at my house now down in LA and he loves it we watch movies together party together and cuddle together no matter what me and him are always together and we never fight i love him to death he is the cutest funniest sweetest thing ever and tonight i think he may pop the question at tila tequila new years eve. bash i am scared though will things last forever like this PLEASE HELP?

2007-12-31 08:42:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my mom and dad got married and had me ten they got a divorce and my mom married my stepdad then my mom died and my dad got custody of me then we moved in with my stepdad and his friend and now my stepdad is going to get married and his new family is going to move in and i still live here and call him my stepdad and i would consider his new wife and stepson my stepfamily. is that screwed up? is that wrong?? help!!!

2007-12-31 08:37:22 · 12 answers · asked by drama queen 2

I am engaged and I was talking to my dad the other day and he suggested that my fiance and i take time away from eachother ... like a week or 2... not talking or anything to see how we feel afterwards and to see is we still want to be together. Should I or shouldnt i do it?

I know i love him and i know i want to be with him and my dad said he did it with his current wife and they have been able to work things out SOO much better than he was able to with my mom (then again my mom is reallly stubborn). I know he is looking out for me and not trying to break us up, if he was he would flat out say we should break up..hes tried to break up an ex and me before and flat out said it...so he is just looking out for me.

so what should we do? should we take the break or should we just keep talking because we both have said we dont need to figure it out because we know?

2007-12-31 08:29:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Wife of 4 years is driving me up the wall. I want to leave bad to be on my own and not because i met someone I just want to be free of her. I am only 26 I care for her but I have put her through hell and I don't think there is any going back or making it work. I have cheated and lied, wait she has too. We have split up and got back togeather to many times to count and now when we fight she has started hitting me. Now by no means is she hurting me I am well trained and in the army so she really isn't hurting me it just scares me. I take the blame for the way she acts but I have had enough and I am not afraid of moving on anymore. The fighting is starting to affect my Two young girls too. We are both good parents this only seems to be bad when we are together. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-12-31 08:22:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please serious answers!

2007-12-31 08:11:48 · 18 answers · asked by THEMrsMinLa&Momof2 6

2007-12-31 08:10:05 · 23 answers · asked by GOODE OR GOOD AT IT!!! 1

For quite sometimes now I've seen this guy who I now care about. We dated for a brief period of time 6yrs ago. But things didn't work out because I was too young so I broke it off with him. We went our separate ways. Thereafter I got married to now my husband. During our marriage, my husband had done so many unfaithful things. To make the story short, I met him again during my rough marriage time. I start to care for him and I want to end my marriage. I told my husband what happened but the thing is that my husband seems okay with it. I meant he wouldn't get mad if I go to see this guy. He still treat me like a wife. This isn't what I'd in mind when I told him the story. Some other husbands would've already shown the wives the doors, but not my husband. Why? He even let me go to see the new guy if I want then pretend that everything is okay and still says he loves me and continue on ourlives. I'm shocked!

2007-12-31 08:08:49 · 26 answers · asked by Confused 1

he stops tallking to me whenever for weeks and months ... it bothers me and i am ready to d anything for him but he doesnt want to say anything and singles him out even from kids

2007-12-31 08:01:05 · 13 answers · asked by idijo 1

If I have any tax penalties will he suffer the consequences?

2007-12-31 07:59:08 · 10 answers · asked by Confused2007 1

This is probably the fifth time he has gone to jail in the last 4-5 years. We have three small children and we do not own any property. He treats me nice sometimes, buying me jewelery and handbags. But he is constantly yelling and criticizing me. He keeps me stressed and depressed. I'm tired of the whole thing. In the past there has been physical abuse. He has stopped that, because I have told people about it, but he still threatens the abuse if I don't shut up. I need to get away from him. He has gone to jail and we do not have enough money to cover all the expenses. I am giving up our apartment and will put his things in storage. The guilt comes in when he is released he will not have any home to go to. Should I feel guilty? Should I try to get him someplace to live? Or is it his problem. Also, I will be paying his truck note and car ins while he is away.

2007-12-31 07:55:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-31 07:52:40 · 26 answers · asked by shorda 1

Going through a break up of 7 years we shared everything, and I am leavig with nothing? What do I do. Can I take legal action?

2007-12-31 07:47:33 · 4 answers · asked by erinsamruiz 1

Where have I gone wrong?

2007-12-31 07:41:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, only trying to understand something here. We have been married for 10 yrs and have 3 beautiful children. I'm a Soldier and she's an RN. I help a lot around the house. I cook, clean, dishes and laundry, you name it. She has never been much of a house keeper. Even when we were dating. She stacks and plies stuff, and never throws anything away. I was deployed for 16 months, and since my return, I have returned to my normal house hold duites, which I have no probblem doing. During the months of October thru 5th of December I was away from my family to attend school and my wife let the house go to hell. I am currently doing the last load of dirty laundry in the house. Yesterday, she left a pair of dirty pants and underwear at the foot of the bed and asked me if I was too lazy to take them into the laundry room, to which my reply was, no I'm not the lazy one who left them in the middle of the floor. So my question to you ladies is..Was I wrong to say that or is she wrong ?

2007-12-31 07:31:49 · 56 answers · asked by ssgdevon 3

would you rather her stay home and care for the kids,clean,cook ect.......or go to work and have the kids in daycare?

2007-12-31 07:27:36 · 9 answers · asked by Sunshine 2

2007-12-31 07:14:16 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

At What Age do you Consider a Male To Be Old And Why ?

2007-12-31 07:10:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Currently I'm married but before that I had 4 serious relationships....and a bunch of others that weren't so serious but interesting to say the least.

2007-12-31 07:10:27 · 18 answers · asked by Rachel 7

where
age
when (day or night)

2007-12-31 07:06:41 · 20 answers · asked by ... 2

ok, i had an argument with my girlfriend this weekend about cursing in front of children. She has three boys 13, 11, 8. I have a 4 year old. My complaint was that sometimes she curses at her children, An example would be telling her 13 year old to shut the f*** up. I understand that the 13 year old has the 13 year old mouth on him, but am I wrong for bringing this topic up. We have been in a relationship for almost 2 years and it is something that really bothers me.

2007-12-31 07:05:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you have a wife that dossent put out if so why ?

2007-12-31 07:03:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a wonderful husband and all but when it comes to romance
it's DULL !! We have three wonderful children !! All our time revolves around working,cleaning and them !!any advice for us ?

2007-12-31 07:01:23 · 36 answers · asked by Sarah Sugar butt 4

My fiance & I have been living together for about 5 months now. I moved into his home. I do pay part of the rent & provide all of the groceries for the household. However, I feel like he treats me like a child, & that my vote doesn't count. Our home is heated by propane & he is constantly riding me about what the temperature is set at in the house. He likes to keep it at about 62 degrees, but I sometimes get cold, so I will turn it up a couple of degrees (maybe to about 65 or 67 or something). It's getting to the point where I have to sleep with three blankets, flannel pajamas, & two pairs of socks on...but I still sometimes freeze. I mean last night my toes were numb. He also throws a fit if a light is left on for more than 5 minutes, & whines about the cat being in the house. Even if I'm sitting & petting the cat, he'll grab the cat & toss him out without saying a word to me.

I need some opinions here. Is he a control freak? Should I try to work this out or not? I'm fed up!!

2007-12-31 07:00:01 · 8 answers · asked by dmh1973 1

I watched some myself for a short period of time, but I wasn't really into it like that. Then I make an attempt for us to watch it together and he didn't care for it. Now, I found out he's been watching it & did NOT tell me... So, why do I NOT like it? How should I feel? Is that okay? Should we try watching it together (since he's been doing it)? He said he'll stop if I'm uncomfortable, but it's more that he kept it from me!

2007-12-31 06:58:29 · 13 answers · asked by 2012 will be a great year 2

I had a question about my parenting plan. Does the cevaluator come up with a parenting plan that she reccomends to the court? or does she create a document about us as parents and that is presented to the court and a parenting plan is developed from that by the judge, us and our lawyers.
My daughter's father was abusive toward me in our marriage. After reviewing all of my evidence, I feel confident that the evaluation will come out favorably toward me.
But I am afraid of my x. I am afraid for my current husband and his children too because they live in our household. While married to him he did threaten to kill me on more than one occasion. I have reason to believe that there could be a real danger if his custody or visitation is changed.
Can I ask the custody evaluator to request a PO for me and my family? There was never one granted. My lawyer is conservative and feared that if we asked for one and it was denied that the initial request for one could look like I am vindictive.

2007-12-31 06:50:45 · 14 answers · asked by superchick2314 2

i reguarly use this chat room where i have made many nice friends, its a clean chat room, and any s e x talk is banned (maybe not in private) though i hardly talk in private unless a friend has a problem or query.
my husband doesnt like me doing so, especially cus i never chat online in front of him becus i think thats a bit rude. (manner way). i go chat wen i come from work 8pmcus hes still at work til 1030pm so i hav nothin to do!
once when i did chat in front of him a person i knew was in private chat and he was askin me where i work and though i told him im married and not to flirt with me he said 'bet u look sexy in ur uniform' my husband went mad, thinkin all sorts. i told this person and he was really sorry by then it was too late. i ALWAYS make sure everyone knows im married so its not like i pretend to be available. i dont like to go on in front of him cus if i enter + a male says hi and 'xxx' then he thinks there 'is somethin goin on' please help, any views r appreciated.xx

2007-12-31 06:46:34 · 41 answers · asked by [вαвÿ løṿε] 6

2007-12-31 06:44:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is seperated from his wife that moved back to N.C.
He is living in Al. and she said that he can not get his son and take him out of state? he has been sending Child suport every week. Can she do this?

2007-12-31 06:39:54 · 16 answers · asked by brenda t 1

One in which, although husband and wife works. The wife makes much more money than the husband and pays the bulk of the bills, ie mortgage, utility bills, car payments, while the husband just helps out where he can ie food expenses, not able to provide too much because he is still is paying back student loans.

2007-12-31 06:37:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Was it your choice to quit your job to be a fulltime housewife after you have gotten married or your husband's suggestion?

Any thoughts of going back to work?
(For those who've yet to have any children of their own)

2007-12-31 06:35:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous