Where have I gone wrong?
2007-12-31 07:41:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She is just exploring sexuality. Very normal.
2007-12-31 13:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Duncan 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
So do i ? And nobody has told me " You are sick, what did your parents do to you" ?? Well, At least not yet.
Regards.
Edit: Happy 2; I love your answer but why you stopped.
I finish for you :
If looking at porn is wrong...
I don't want to be right
If being right means living without porn
I'd rather live wrong than right
My Mama and Daddy say "It's a shame..."
Porn is downright disgrace"
But as long as I've got porn DVDs
I don't care what my people say
My friends tell me porn's no future
for a lovin' single man
If I can't see porn when I want...
I'll see it when I can
Regards.
2007-12-31 11:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by iceman 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
As long as she is over 18 mate, not a problem. No worries whatsoever. She will have sex and she may try out new moves she has learned and come on, let's fuc*king face it, you would have to be emotionally dead not to get turned on by watching heterosexual pornography. Watching a woman enjoying getting her asss hammered and then a wad of spunk shot in her mouth would make a dead man have a w*nk.
2007-12-31 11:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by Open your eyes 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Probably for the same reason we all like to look at it. But look at the bright side- better to have her watching it than starring in it.
2007-12-31 10:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Namtrac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've left out an important qualifier here--her age.
If she's 12, there's a problem. Porn will not only lead her to have unrealistic expectations. It will undermine the idea that sex is mostly about friendship, and ideally, love.
If she's 30, she just needs to get out more.
2007-12-31 08:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter is completely normal. She's probably at an age where her sexual curiosity is at it's peak. The only thing I would do as a mother (and i am) is tell her that porn is an unrealistic view of what sex is really about.
P.S Just be thankful she isn't making porn!
2007-12-31 08:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by Adee 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
don't worry about it. its all a normal proses witch most girls go through they are just curious about things. you haven't gone wrong anywhere!! at least she is not discovering things out by actually doing that stuff!! just relax soon you will see it was all just a phase and nothing more
2007-12-31 07:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by mo 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
she is curious...thats all
2007-12-31 07:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by God Bless America!~ 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I have to disagree with the people saying it's "normal."
Curiosity is normal, for sure. But I don't approve of porn, it's disgusting. Do you really want your daughter getting her impressions of sex from PORN?
You can see plenty of T & A in any art museum in any city, and no one is being DEGRADED.
2007-12-31 07:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
The one question I have is how old is she? You didn't specify her age and that could make a lot of difference. If she is very young, below 16 then I'd worry if she is looking a lot. It is NOT normal at that age. Yes curiousity is there but to be looking at it a lot is beyond being curious.
You may not have gone wrong, as parents we cannot and probably should not control all of the actions of our kids. Making mistakes is part of life and if they never have the chance to make a mistake because we (parents) control all of their moves then they will never grow and develop. We can guide, suggest and talk to our kids, but we can't live their life for them.
If she is under 16 then perhaps you need to have a serious heart to heart with her and explain that what she is doing is not good, don't say wrong, and help her find other outlets for her energy.
2007-12-31 07:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by Cliff R 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You didn't say how old she is but if she is old enough to be curious, then she has at least started puberty I bet. Its just curiosity and I wouldn't worry about a few isolated incidences here and there....just watch that it doesn't become a weird habit. Wanting to see stuff is pretty normal I think.
2007-12-31 07:52:06 · answer #11 · answered by Stacies Mom 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋