he stops tallking to me whenever for weeks and months ... it bothers me and i am ready to d anything for him but he doesnt want to say anything and singles him out even from kids
2007-12-31 08:01:05 · 13 answers · asked by idijo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he talks very happily with his family (brother and sister), his family hates me and my family.
2007-12-31 08:52:48 · update #1
Form of emotional abuse, alienation of affection. You must decide if you and the kids are better off with or without him and move on accordingly. Your choice but you dont have to put up with this crap. Good luck and Happy New Year
2007-12-31 08:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tolerate a man treating me and my kids like that. I'd kick his *** out and he'd find out I have nothing more to say to him.
2007-12-31 16:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel, my husband will get mad, most of the time somebody at work, or if someone cut him off on the freeway...- I get blamed for it and I get punished and he'll tell everyone I pissed him off! It can be in a split second and I am like what the hell! He can go for weeks without saying a word to me and communicates through the kids, then one day he'll come home and out of the blue wants me to sleep with him! HELLO! I think my husband is bipolar or schizophrenia, I have just learned to live my life around him and carry on without him!
2007-12-31 16:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by gurlynmgurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh he's punishing you girlfriend and look at you ready to do anything because he is punishing you-watch out for that control stuff -its quite subtle and it really sneaks up on you before you know it he'll be blaming you for his affair!
2007-12-31 16:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't want to put anything in your head but did you ever think he could be living anthor life with someone else. I hear about it all the time. U should do something and find out where he goes during the time he's not talking to you or what he's doing. Even better would be to just let him go and move on with your life and never let him back in your life. He's going to always be that way he'll never change. Do you always want to live that way?
2007-12-31 16:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by EKat! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not normal behaviour, if he is angry with you sometimes they can withdraw back into their little cave but not for weeks and months....how do you live like this? Perhaps your husband needs some professional help because this really is not what I would call normal behaviour. This relationship is not healthy for you and kids, I would ask your husband to get some help and talk to someone or even ask him to tell you why he does this? It is possible he could have undiagnosed depression or something because people with depression withdraw themselves from people, especially those close to them, and they have no joy in life......
2007-12-31 16:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by kimbathewhitelion02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he decide to talk again, don't talk back. You have to give him a taste of his own medicine. He knows that bothers you so he does it. Once he realizes that that doesn't bother you he will stop doing that.
2007-12-31 16:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by KSR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs help or he is a complete ba$tard. if it is the later of the two, then i wouldn't do his laundry or feed him for weeks or months. there are two of you in the relationship and it is NOT season or based on his mood what his participation level should be.
2007-12-31 16:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by speedy ski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have mental health issues? if so, is he taking his meds? And when you say you would do anything for him, is that when he talks to you? I really think it would be good for you to think about how this is affecting your children also.
2007-12-31 16:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by Christine H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f he alternates from being talkative and easy going to being unpredictably moody and imposes isolation on you, then he may have a treatable disorder. You should suggest a medical checkup to make sure he isn't suffering from depression or something else. If he isn't you need to seek counseling to determine why he does this.
2007-12-31 16:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋