2007-12-31 07:52:40 · 26 answers · asked by shorda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't make anyone love you, it's either there or it isn't. Try being happy for him.
2007-12-31 07:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
u and i are going thru the same exact thing..my story, he married her and yet still calling me. I'm learning that I need to let him go. I've been praying and leaning heavily on my friends. my advice, to u and to myself is LET GO AND LET GOD...REJECTION CAN B A SIGN OF PROTECTION..there is a reason behind everything, so as hard as it is and easy for ppl to say u have to learn to let go. There is a beautiful blessing coming towards our way and if you stop and dwell on him and his future wife, u will block your blessings. I am daily working on this, so u are not alone. peace and blessings!
2007-12-31 08:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by ladytina30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont. Should have thought of that question before.
2007-12-31 08:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by csiders30 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Expect to be an occasional Booty call', If you re gonna allow to dwell on him , especially if he's an EX then your'e going backwards... are you that desperate to ask us our opinion on this situation?....RESPECT YOUR SELF...
2007-12-31 08:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by john w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get him drunk or in a drunk environment then take advantage of him. the damsel in distress routine works pretty good too. do you really want someone that would do that though?
2007-12-31 08:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is not going to marry you, then move on
2007-12-31 08:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by God Bless America!~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want someone that doesn't want you, and has their eye on someone in particular that they want to be with enough to marry? You're spinning your wheels and will wind up more hurt than you already are. Move on... there is someone out there that will love you and love you completely.
2007-12-31 08:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by sunflowergal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people are in the same boat, wanting someone they can't have. I am no exception, wishing for a guy who I was involved with years ago and who recently came back. He didn't really care enough for me to stay the first time, and wasn't willing to try to find those feelings again anyway. But it is hard to accept that he can't make himself care, because I love him so much.
I tried to convince him he didn't mean it when he said he had nothing left for me. I tried to be there for him, be fun and available, but it didn't work and I made myself miserable. Believe me there is no way. You just beat yourself up over what to do, and how to be the one they want. It has to come from them, and chasing after a guy and trying to convince him only drives him away. That is what happened to me.
2007-12-31 08:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is so hard u can't u need to let him go we can't change how a person thinks about us I'm so sorry u need to get over him and get on with your life i feel for u been there and failed and that hurts even worse u need to find a person that love u as much as u love them this person has made a choice now u must move on
2007-12-31 08:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by furface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have experienced a very similar situation, and i just want to tell you to let it go and move on. If they want to be with someone else then it appears that you are no longer the focus and nor should you have to be. You are divorced and these things do happen. I suggest that you can continue being associated and friends, but it is time to think about you. are you comfortable in your own company. Do you like yourself. If the answer is no then you need to really look at yourself and find what you need to do to be the person you want to be. If you are then you should have little trouble finding your way back into the world and into a real relationship that is healthy for you.
2007-12-31 07:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by Kenny J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My heart feels for you! But honey.. you need to move on. He has found someone else. You can too! There are so many great men out there for you! I know this is easier said than done. It may take some time, but believe that everything happens for a reason.
2007-12-31 07:57:43 · answer #11 · answered by MsSoccerBunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋