I told him I trusted him, but I really don't trust him when he is drunk... He is now mad at me because he thinks I just don't trust him at all... what should I do? just let him go and be all cool with it, or make a big deal about it?
2007-12-31 05:04:55 · 21 answers · asked by fasawax 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is nothing wrong with your stand! He has no need to be there except for mischief!
2007-12-31 05:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by The Voice of Reason 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
WOW take this chance top do something with him, that you've both thought about, talked about, and now have the chance to enjoy!! GO
2007-12-31 07:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is his excuse to cheat and have sex with other women, but by also getting your approval. No it's not ok. Unless you don't mind him being with other women.
Just the fact that he wants to go says alot about who he really is.
2007-12-31 05:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by muffineye 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I lived in Vegas and I can tell you nothing happens at those conventions. The adult conventions have porn stars signing autographs, DVDs for sale and adult 'toys' for sale. There is no sex happening there. Yes, it is "Sin City" but prostitution is only legal outside the county and undercover cops are all over those conventions to make sure they don't get out of line.
I say let him go. If you don't and make a big deal about it he's going to resent you. And if you can't trust him should you really be married?
2007-12-31 05:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Denying him will just make him want it more. The less forbidden it is the less he will care about it. I could care less when my husband goes to a party with strippers. He's always hot for me and that's all that matters. Make yourself more forbidden with sexy lingerie and do something kinky with him. He won't want to waste his time with strippers when he can get something more naughty with you.
2007-12-31 05:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Nobody Girl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
GO WITH HIM.
2007-12-31 05:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go with him. If he doesn't want you to go, he is looking for trouble.
2007-12-31 05:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by rhiannon0913 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't pretend you have feelings you don't have. If you aren't happy with him going, it's you're right to say so. Just be respectful of his right to go if he wants, in spite of your wishes.
2007-12-31 05:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by banana6464 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not go with him???
2007-12-31 05:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't let him go. He's acting really immature about this...and if he actually thought you'd LET him go, then he really is immature.
Sheesh....men are so dumb sometimes!
2007-12-31 05:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If he gets drunk at the convention, they'll probably just have him bounced out. Nothing's going to happen there anyway. It's not like they will be selling a$$ or giving it away to anybody there. I'd say let him go. Let him know that you're trusting him to go. If he violates that trust, let him know what will happen.
2007-12-31 05:12:16 · answer #11 · answered by BG 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋