Marriage & Divorce - 25 December 2007

Is this normal. Should guys have to do all of the work or should She participate to make it more intresting. What should i do about it?

2007-12-25 11:39:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is it? Does the court need my signature? Is it a determined divorce without my signature? How long does it take? How will I know if I am divorced?

2007-12-25 11:37:37 · 5 answers · asked by LiLmamma 2

still has desire to rebuild?

2007-12-25 11:35:28 · 13 answers · asked by HD 2

Why did you get married, and how is your relationship now? I'm simply curious to see the reasoning behind your decision.

2007-12-25 10:56:06 · 16 answers · asked by Nik 3

he loves her and she loves him but she's older than .. i mean 1 year is between them .. and now she's getting married vecause of her parents and they won't accept of her marrieng someone who's younger than her but she's in love with him and they don't know what to do!! they don't know if they have the chance to be together and the guy didn't finished college yet so he can go and talk to her parents and she asks them to take the wedding off but they rejected that!! what shall they doo please tell me what shall i tell him to do??

2007-12-25 10:45:45 · 16 answers · asked by blair 1

I do not want to be with my husband anymore. I am not in love with him and I am convinced that it is the right decision. My problem is I have a sick baby girl that will require a lifetime of medical care. He keeps telling me not to leave b/c he wants to take care of us and it would be too hard on her (she's 12 months old). I feel that since I am not happy with him, she will be better off if we are not together. Need some advice, sorry if I've been too vague. Is is possible to fall out of love & absolutely not want to be married anymore? I've talked to a counselor & he thinks it's b/c of the situation with my child. I know better though, I've felt this way for a long time. Thanks for any advice. My personal feeling on this is that life's too short to be unhappy & worry about someone elses feelings as opposed to my happiness. (Ex. staying with him b/c I feel bad leaving)

2007-12-25 10:42:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have given my son everything there is no reason to steal i dont understand anymore. He is 16 years old and its killing me . He doesnt get it he is wearing me out!!!!!!! And i know your going to say im soft but, i real havent been i have been tough when i needed too.

2007-12-25 10:28:39 · 30 answers · asked by slipsip30 1

I am 23 and my fiance is 28. He is a wonderful man and is so good to me. He has a 7 year old daughter. He loves her very much and so do I. Before I met him, 1 1/2 years ago there was this woman and they had a short good time together and now she's told him that she's had his daughter. So, now he has two girls from two different mothers.

He is a great man and hates the fact that he has a daughter like this out of wedlock. I tell him that I love him very much but it's hard for me to think how we are going to tell other people about his two daughter from two different mothers especially my parents.

He tells me that I should stop worrying about what others think. That what matters is us and I shouldn't worry about saying it and hiding the facts is just wrong.

Would you feel embarassed by letting friends and family know about your spouses two kids from two different mothers or not? Any advice will be appreciated, thank you~

SEASONS GREETINGS~

2007-12-25 10:25:27 · 20 answers · asked by HotJewels 3

my wife died 7 months ago. do u think it is to early to look for a new relationship, i havent got a clue how to go about it, we were together so long, 40 years.even tho i miss her so much i feel i need a partner, do u think i am wrong. ( drop the phone, it could happen 2 u one day, plus on the spelling have u never use short cuts. every one els thanks 4 ur advice.

2007-12-25 10:14:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

At what moment did you decide you wanted to get married to your wife? What made you choose her over all your other past relationships? Do you regret your decision to marry her?

Please ladies do not respond. All women say the same thing and it is usually something cheesy and romantic. I want a mans perspective.

2007-12-25 10:14:26 · 11 answers · asked by Junoon 2

Hey... thought i may need a lil advice if you could please.
I'm a depressed person on tablets every day with hardly any friends and i am bi-sexual...
...but i have vowed to change for the New Year for the first time but it is going to be really hard, i want to be a more confident, friendly, happy person with a date!
I know it is going to be extremely hard.... i have already seen a psychiatrist but that hasn't really changed things.
I was just wondering if any of you had any useful advice for me.
This would be incredibly helpful everyone.
ThankYou so much for your answers x

2007-12-25 10:14:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 17yr old, i want to get married but im single i live in philly and i go to a spanish congregacion i love jehovah and would never think about breaking my relationship with him. im pretty and sweet i am very shy but i dont think that should get in the way of a nice brother coming to me and ask me out. any advice?

2007-12-25 10:12:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm messing with a married man. He saw this movie and he flip out. How can I undo the damage?

2007-12-25 10:11:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys, when you were thinking about proposing, did the idea of being in her family, ( which you hate for this question) bother you?did it stop you?

Girls and guys, did your partners family change your decision to get married? do their family drive your nuts? If a yes to this, then why did you guys marry? doesnt it effect your love?

2007-12-25 10:08:26 · 8 answers · asked by Just_Call_Me_Shady 4

Being married for 3 1/2 years and ironically my wife has spend half of that overseas staying with her mother at times we were 7 months apart and two weeks ago she has left again for 2 months. Now I am thinking with what of a marriage it has really been with even a suspect of infidility on her behalf while I remained loyal and trustful for her, I forgave her for such grounds of infidility though she never confessed. I look back her respect to me and well perhaps that says something. She has her own account which is fine, she does not work though. I can't use he laundry powder, when my 3 children from previous marriage marriage she complains about the food they eat. But what really got me, she not into cleaning the house much and left it mostly for me. I thought well I will see how long it takes to clean the bed sheets (two seperate mattrasses)and the weeks before she left it never got changed though I hated it. When she went I changed them and discovered hers were just been washed.

2007-12-25 09:54:01 · 7 answers · asked by maleinaus 1

my wife died 7 months ago. do u think it is to early to look for a new relationship, i havent got a clue how to go about it, we were together so long, 40 years.even tho i miss her so much i feel i need a partner, do u think i am wrong.

2007-12-25 09:35:49 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is 54. Both of her boys are grown up and married. She says she wants to keep the name because of her kids. She is not a professional so that reason is null.

2007-12-25 09:32:19 · 8 answers · asked by fpondg 2

I known my boyfriend for 2 years. We were friends for 2 years and this year we started became a couple. We talk about marriage . He doesn't want to get married anytime soon but jokes about proposing to me someday. Why is he joking with me about if he isn't ready for it?

2007-12-25 08:29:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting to know a lady who is in the middle of her divorce with her X-husband. We are trying to know each other, and we wanna get maaried after her divorce. We are residing in Illinois, USA. i wanna know " is my relationship with her legally OK or I have to wait until she finalize her divorce?"
I am asking because her X bothers to ask about our relationship sometimes.
Thank you.

2007-12-25 08:20:18 · 9 answers · asked by farshicago 2

Still having spontaneous sex when time permits, but occasionlly setting aside a specific time of day or night to get it on?

2007-12-25 08:16:33 · 11 answers · asked by jeff b 4

While he was unpacking I seen pictures of his ex that he has had tucked away.. I was upset because I feel as if he has not completely gotten over her... I know there is nothing between them nor do they talk and if they do its a few sentences that they may send online to one another. I have gotten rid of all my old memories cause I didn't feel a need to bring them into my new house with my new marriage...Should I have him get rid of the pictures or would you say its OK for him to keep them. Personally, I think he has not gotten over this chick...

2007-12-25 08:13:07 · 7 answers · asked by The'Truth 2

2007-12-25 08:05:10 · 16 answers · asked by April 5

if a man cheats on his girlfren/wife 9 times out of 10 the woman would forgive him & try 2 work it out, but if a woman cheats on a man then its asta la vista *****.... why is this? it seems like 1 rule apply for the mens & another apply 4 the woman.... why is this?

2007-12-25 07:55:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-12-25 07:47:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think she enjoyed her marriage life?

2007-12-25 07:37:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

...get married? I realize it depends on when each person is ready but what would you say is too early? I ask because I have 3 friends that all recently just got engaged. They are all right out of high school and I know for a fact that two of them were only dating the guys they plan to marry for 4-6 months (max.). I personally feel they are making big mistakes taking such a big step so soon in a relationship but realize it is their choice to do so. Any way, I am just wondering what do you think is the earliest a couple should consider getting married? :)

2007-12-25 07:27:04 · 15 answers · asked by . 5

undies, and stockings?

2007-12-25 07:19:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

About 3 weeks ago we started going to marriage counseling and is on our 5th session. So far the counseling has been useful, but I do want her to return back home. She said that she is only going to therapy to help me but she still wants a divorce, but she has not file or mention anything about the divorce since our 3rd MC session. The MC thinks that she is calling out divorce as a defense mechanism. We have been together for 8yrs and married for 1 year. No infidelity ,physical abuse, or drug use. Just BAD communication between us.

My wife was the one that wants the divorce because she was "fed up". Even though she thinks that divorce is the best out, she starting to see that going to MC might not be too bad. Again nothing is guaranteed, it seems like she is giving a shot to work on our marriage. How do I get her to come back home? Or should I just give up?

8 yrs is a long time to throw away just because we have bad communications.

2007-12-25 07:10:58 · 11 answers · asked by DMa 1

I just turned 21, years old/ ive been married to my husband for a year now as of dec 23 2007, we are having a child in just a couple of weeks, however im always afraid my husband is going to hurt me, or ceat on me, even though he hasnt , but i just have this anxiety all the time tht i have to watch him and make sure where he is at all the time, and with who, it drives me insane, especially cause ive done pagents, and am considered so pretty, and im considered to be out of his league, and he is not very good looking but he has a peronality tht attracts women to him, and i get very jealous and envious, and im always telling him he is hurting me, i want him to chase after me, i want him to worry about what im doing like i do of him what should i do to make him chase after me? please help me, i really need advise?

2007-12-25 06:55:02 · 17 answers · asked by sarasham1220 1

and announced that she was your fiance's lawful wife?
And she was, indeed, his wife, and proved it to you with the papers, and he confessed that it was so? And all your guests stared and listened, and you had paid for a grand reception as well?

2007-12-25 06:46:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous