Marriage & Divorce - 25 December 2007

I dated my favorite girl in the world for 3 and a half years. A few years ago after we broke up, she told me she got married to a girl. We had a lot of traumatizing stuff happen years back, I will leave the details out, it was nobodys fault. A few months ago she said she broke up with the lesbian, and that she wanted to be with me. Then she vanished. I want to be with her, truthfully I love her, and know she loves me. I called her recently and she said she was maried?( her lesbian wife was present in the room, as we were on the phone) She said to leave her alone. If she was married to man, I never would have considered anything a few months ago when she came back. But since I know she is not really gay, and it is not a legal marriage, I want to try and get her back, and marry her, and love her. Am I wrong?

2007-12-25 15:05:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together 3 years, married 1 year and the last 8 months have been just hell. He is very demanding, yet none of my needs are met. He don't work, I work fulltime, but hey all the house work is my responsibility, sex is just something that NEVER happens anymore, cuz he don't need it. I worked my *** off buying his kids great christmas presents, making a huge dinner, then he gets pissed off at me becuase I will not watch a movie filled with sex scenes with his 13 year old kid. Call me old fashion but I don't think kids should see rated R movies.
I am exhausted marriage counceling isn't working.......I just want to give up and get out.
I have never left someone that I loved before I just don't know how to do it.........but I am not in love with him the life has been sucked out of me.....

2007-12-25 14:54:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I have a wonderful relationship and never have arguements. We have really close and talk like best friends. The things is, whenever we talk and I say something that bothers me or makes me sad then he feels sad as well. Then, he gets really quiet. I am the kind of person that wants to talk in those moments and when I ask him 'what's wrong' he is quiet. That makes me more hurt that he doesn't speak and then he says sorry and talks and hugs me after 30 minutes.

Do you get in these situations?

I need to learn to not say anything and let him have his time and then talk about it when he is ready.

Advice or stories greatly appreciated~

SEASONS GREETINGS!

2007-12-25 14:36:37 · 9 answers · asked by HotJewels 3

2007-12-25 14:35:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sorry to bring out this kind of question guys, but not only am I unhappily married, but Iam extremely confused in my relationship and lots of uncertainity about my future out come. It does not look to bright at all. I am just merely curious about this. Thanks guys!

2007-12-25 14:29:32 · 7 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3

I've been married for close to 3 years now. It has always been up and down. Most of the time my wife and I enjoy our lives together. But on occasion we have really bad fights. I try many different things to keep these arguments from happening or getting out of control. We've both left home before... but mostly her. But we always make up, no matter how bad the fight. Today is Christmas. And I'm home alone. I let her plan everything this xmas so that she would be happy, because she gets crazy (in my opinion) around the holidays. She dosn't work and we have no kids. I spent near 5 grand on presents and decorations. Up until today everything went pretty smooth. Then all hell broke loose. Basically she ripped me a new one. She told me she "didn't want me to go to her moms with her", "that I should die", "Piece of sh*t", "I hope this is the last xmas we spend together" etc. This is what always happens... and I eventually loose my cool. What can I do? How can I go on like this?

2007-12-25 14:20:49 · 21 answers · asked by passin_time77 2

My girlfriend and I decided to not have sex before marriage, a commitment we've made to God. I am 43, my girlfriend 33. We have both been married before and each have children. Is this practical by today's standards?

2007-12-25 14:18:58 · 38 answers · asked by John M 2

Do you feel that it would be a sin to view pornography with your spouse if it causes no lust and only feelings for one another?

2007-12-25 14:18:39 · 15 answers · asked by GodsGrl4Real 3

pls answer this to your best abiliy! no criticisms please! thanks!

A) How do I get a stripper? How much? WHAT CAN I DO SO SHE'LL LET ME TOUCH? (im 18, pretty good lookin too lol ;)

B) Where are my chances HIGHEST for getting a girl to take back to my room?...(not paying a girl for that and am only 18 so no club)

2007-12-25 14:18:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

There has to be a better solution.Neither one will listen or follow my rules.I am more than fed up.There has to be a better way as she will either end up pregnant or not finishing high school and messing up her life.T
hey are thick and could care less.I have talked myself silly on deaf ears.they lie and sneak every chance they can get and I have had enough.I need good advice fast.I am meeting with them both to discuss this once again and I need something they will listen to.Or an answer to resolve this.It has to stop before I lose my sanity over it.They are not married and obviously too young and everything I've taught has gone out the window..disreguarded.i regret ever letting them date.It has turned into a nightmare.She has ripped my heart out throwing her life away on this unspeakable kid.I need more advice quick...I wish I could throttle them both but they would care less.They are thickheaded and foolish.Please help asap.

2007-12-25 14:14:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

to be inlove with your ex husband???

2007-12-25 14:13:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am ingaged and i have 2 kids named annasophia and Sal.They are so cute!!!My almost husband does not like my kids because there not his (i got a divorse) What should i do because i am only 17!!!!!

2007-12-25 14:08:48 · 12 answers · asked by Carlene P 1

ok here is the deal i've been married for 3 1/2 years i'm 23 years old and my husband for the entire time we've been married treats me and my sons like crap, always yelling in our faces and constantly telling me what i can and cant do where i can and cant go who i can and cant have as friends and so on, i care about him still but i feel like i'm done.....i met a guy 3 months ago who is the most awesome guy i've ever known he is sweet thoughtful and genuinly cares about ppl, he is reeally good with my sons and my sons like him also. i really care about him and feel like i'm in love with him and he says the same about me........what do i do?? please help me i'm so stressed out i feel like i dont know which way is up anymore thankyou so much for any of your help!!

2007-12-25 14:07:11 · 18 answers · asked by crystalbbl143 2

My husband ben was married before and has a 7 yr old son with his exwife.The problem is his exwife hates me and is very jealous of me. So his exwife is allways getting gifts for my husband that makes "diggs" at me and reminds him how inportant she is for giving him a child.For example for x-mas she gave him a very nice frame with a 8x10 pic of her,my husband and thier son that said "our family" or for my husbands b-day she gave him a nice dish that had poem about thier son and how he was made in love. If she just wanted to have thier son give a gift why not have him make one? Why does she do this and what should i do?

2007-12-25 14:00:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

How easy/difficult has it been for you thus far?

2007-12-25 14:00:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wife does not love me anymore, but cares about me

2007-12-25 13:56:21 · 13 answers · asked by kaliab 1

trying to save a marraige? If it honestly feels like the other person has some serious issues. Either from childhood or mental issues. He is absolutely the worst at holding grudges and bringing up the past. Granted I'm not perfect myself. I've made my fair share of mistakes. How do you try to save a marraige when you're dealing with a mentally sick person that refuses medication, will only goto couseling if its couples. However we can't do to pervious history or domestic abuse. We've been together for 9 years married for 6. Been having these issues for over 6 years.

2007-12-25 13:48:11 · 8 answers · asked by kdlamb24 4

I have a online male friend that I talking to everyday. We talk about everything personal. We are both married to other people. I tell my husband all the details of the stuff I talk to my friend about, but my friend doesnt tell his wife. My husband knows that it is just harmless fun, but I am not sure if my friend thinks so. What should I do?

2007-12-25 13:45:32 · 13 answers · asked by lumpy_6 2

Would you be in trouble, etc.?

2007-12-25 13:34:55 · 16 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

i was adopted 21 years ago by a wonderful family...as a child my cousin and i grew up together. we both knew that what we wanted we couldnt have because the fact that our family would never understand. we hid our relationship from our family for years now. two years ago she and i had a child together. my question is that is it wrong for me to have a child with my adopetd cousin? again i was adopted and my cousin and i are not blood cousin....

2007-12-25 13:30:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was looking at all the posts of cheating men and i was thinking about putting my ex-hubby on that page.. on thers words and lists on this guy and i want every female on the internet to know what a back-stabbing,self-absorbed asshole that he is... well anybody have any stories they want to share, because this xmas has been poor and bad and i want someone to talk to about this whole thing.. so let me know ladies.

2007-12-25 13:27:46 · 4 answers · asked by Sunshyne 4

My husband can not last longer than 1- 10 seconds (I am not in anyway over exggeragting) As soon as he's in, he's done. Our counselor has suggested he say a doctor cause he might have depression. Zoloft can help with depression and (PE) Premature ejaculation. I don't really care if I have an orgasm everytime, but it's been months since I've had an orgasm. . He refuses to see a doctor. I hate doing this but I'm not having sex w/ him anymore, I'm tired of having sex without any orgasms, it's been months since I even enjoyed have sex. He might think I'm being mean, but I'm so tired of getting excited to only get let down. This problem is causeing a huge problem. He gets mad when I masturbate, but it's the only way I can achieve any pleasure. How can I convince him to get help? I think he's being selfish by not at least trying to get on zoloft. Any advice or anything is GREATLY apprecaited.

2007-12-25 13:26:23 · 20 answers · asked by msulli2366 1

2007-12-25 13:23:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime me, my husband, and mother-in-law are driving in the car either her or my husband brings up his ex-girlfried. I just get very quiet and don't say anything. Why do you think this always happens?

2007-12-25 13:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by Katie 3

hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious

2007-12-25 13:17:10 · 12 answers · asked by Georgia F 1

I called my husband to see his daughter today for visitations because we are not divorced so we verbally agree. He was at his families when i called he said call me back to my brothers cell i will have it all day. I'm eating now call me in half an hour. So i call him he never answers it is christmas and he doesn't act to interested in seeing his daughter. Well my plans got all messed up and i was late getting home,so he didn't get to see her today should i call him now and say cabn you see her tommorrow or let it go?

2007-12-25 13:15:35 · 11 answers · asked by poo~poo 1

we have been paying this house for 5 years and both of their names were on it up until a year ago to get a better rate he recently passed away without a will what happens now?

2007-12-25 13:06:36 · 3 answers · asked by trackmaster23us 1

2007-12-25 13:06:20 · 6 answers · asked by cipan 1

for cheating would it make you more likely to cheat if the opportunity arose?

2007-12-25 13:03:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did your new spouse take your child/children in as their own or do they let the ex act as the parent only?

2007-12-25 13:02:01 · 14 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1