Marriage & Divorce - 25 December 2007

i am tired&sick of him...
im a working mom,we have 2work in order to survive especially we now have a 2years old daughter.
i was assigned in our place so i lived w/ my parents. my daughter is w/ me because my sisters & my mom r the 1 who takes care of her...no one will take care in my husbands place so my daughter is w/ me...
anyway, back to my husband... he gets jealous w/ no reason, whenever i eat lunch or merienda he keeps on asking who is with me during those later&that is everyday...! he will find reason to get mad at me always... and i keep on texting him as long as i am not busy in the office, unfortunately, he get mad whenever i didnt reply, w/out thinking i have no time or i am busy.
every weekend i stay in our house,i do all d household chores&spend time w/ him as mush as possible.he is not appreciating my effort although i am very2x tired.I dont hve time 2 rest for that day. all i want is for me to feel that he love&cares 4 me but he kips on nagging!it really upsets me!

2007-12-25 16:42:10 · 9 answers · asked by luna 2

I love her so much, but yet, I can't stop talking to woman online for the purposes of sex....I love my wife more than anything in the world. She hasn't caught me, but I want to stop before something bad happens. Please help me... I don't want her hurt.

2007-12-25 16:37:17 · 29 answers · asked by Echowave 2

Not to long ago... i was helping my mom get the groceries out of the car and i saw a box of condoms! i just went along while my mind was racing, and acted like i didnt see anything. then i was putting them on the counter when my mom's bf walks in and takes the bag with the box in it and takes it into the bed room. he then comes back a few seconds later and i asked him what he was doing. he played stupid ofcourse. i let it go. then the next morning i found a condom wrapper on the couch. so i went in my moms room where she was and confronted her. shes like 'do you know what that is?' and i started crying because just the thought of my mom...ugh..the worst part is, it was oviously with her boyfriend-(mom and dad split up 2 yrs ago) and he JUST moved in. then we both calmed down and i helped her put her bed sheets on and i glanced over, and in the nightstand drawer, and a rainbow of condoms. so im basicaly scarred. Please, PLEASE dont make fun of me. help or dont help.. thanks everyone

2007-12-25 16:33:42 · 8 answers · asked by ineedhelp 1

Just wondering how that works, not for me, but just trying to find out information on how that works.

2007-12-25 16:33:08 · 4 answers · asked by baby_girl_clover 1

Where you pleasantly surprised, or terribly dissapointed??

2007-12-25 16:33:00 · 9 answers · asked by Miz Peaches 5

Not to long ago... i was helping my mom get the groceries out of the car and i saw a box of condoms! i just went along while my mind was racing, and acted like i didnt see anything. then i was putting them on the counter when my mom's bf walks in and takes the bag with the box in it and takes it into the bed room. he then comes back a few seconds later and i asked him what he was doing. he played stupid ofcourse. i let it go. then the next morning i found a condom wrapper on the couch. so i went in my moms room where she was and confronted her. shes like 'do you know what that is?' and i started crying because just the thought of my mom...ugh..the worst part is, it was oviously with her boyfriend-(mom and dad split up 2 yrs ago) and he JUST moved in. then we both calmed down and i helped her put her bed sheets on and i glanced over, and in the nightstand drawer, and a rainbow of condoms. so im basicaly scarred. Please, PLEASE dont make fun of me. help or dont help.. thanks everyone

2007-12-25 16:30:44 · 10 answers · asked by ineedhelp 1

I currently live in Georgia for 3 years.
My husband had decided to divorce me while hes deployed in Iraq. he found someone else. I cant prove adultery. i dont care.
he doesnt want to be with me..Ill leave.

We have a child.

NOw, this is where I need help.
In Georgia - to file for divorce youneed to be resident. or request divorce from someone hos resident for 6 years.

I want to move to Texas, who has their own 6 month resident requirement

He gets back in 3 months.
I will only be California resident for 2-3 months when he gets back.

Does that mean he has to wait 3-4 months before he files for divorce against me in Los Angeles?
Or does he just file for divorce against me in Georgia (which I will no longer be a legal resident)

AND

He receives BAH for us in Georgia.
If I live with our child .. does he still require to pay for our rent
until we are divorced finalized?
Or since we move from Georgia,
I am on my own like he says I will be?

He says he will change allotment
Can he

2007-12-25 16:21:53 · 5 answers · asked by Back on the market 1

I wanted to know if me, my wife, my two kids (and one on the way) are going to make it through life okay?? With my pay at my job considering I have 3 kids.

2007-12-25 16:20:19 · 1 answers · asked by larry D 1

What do you think of these? Do you agree or disagree? What ones to you believe to be true?

2007-12-25 16:13:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I separated and he moved out and into the home of another woman. He does not want me to date because I'm still in the home that we purchased together. He says I shouldn't bring another man in our married home and in front of our kids. I'm not taking about somebody sleeping over because I would never do that in front of my kids. I'm talking about somebody picking me up from the home or coming over to watch a game or movie.

2007-12-25 16:08:49 · 18 answers · asked by gbrown0404 2

2007-12-25 16:01:36 · 14 answers · asked by Loosin_my_mind 1

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 1/2 yrs together. He's 32 and im 23, hes a great guy allot of fun. He loves the outdoors and always takes me with him everywhere, even out with his friends. When people see us together they think we just barely met since were always laughing, touching (not perverted) and kissing. He has his own home, no kids, and never been married. About 4 mths ago I moved in with him and our relationship has gotten even better due to living about 40 minuntes away.
When I told my friends that I will be getting married next year they told me that it would be a big mistake. Said that its going to mess things up and whats the point of getting married anyway. Now im thinking about it and i'm worried. Would it really make a difference just signing a piece of paper saying were husband and wife??

2007-12-25 15:58:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just asked my gf of 2.5 years to marry me. She said yes, and we are so happy!!
Her unsaved father has never supported our relationship, and is not giving his blessing.
We have tried to honor him and respect him all this time, but he is just divorced and hates marriage.
We are strong Christians, and have asked our pastors for advice, I just fig'd I'd come on here and see others perspectives.
My ?? is, how do i address this? What is the most Godly way to answer him?


If you are not ging to give advice in the spirit of sincerity, please don't leave any answers at all.
Thank you.
Jesus Loves you all.

2007-12-25 15:58:21 · 16 answers · asked by spokenwordz03 2

The latest will was written before the marriage. It gave everything to the ex. Will it deprive the current spouse of inheritance? Couple live in Oregon but will was written in California.

2007-12-25 15:53:30 · 5 answers · asked by treesei 1

I have been marriaed for 15 years together for 17.... I just found nude pix of him in a file on cpmputer WTF?? ...eveything til today was fine but now I am so freaked...I want to get out of here...this is not our only problem but ...I think i may hate him now...yuk....

2007-12-25 15:52:56 · 11 answers · asked by Stacies Mom 5

My wife, 2 year old daughter, and I drove to NC to spend some time with her family and we were supposed to come back to Northern VA on Christmas Eve day. Well, my wife and I were having some disagreements which led to my coming back to VA alone. The reason I left is because my wife wouldn't let me back into her sisters house after we had an argument.

So I spent Christmas Eve and Christmas alone up here in VA. And now my wife is saying that I have to pack up and leave before she gets back to VA on the 26th. She is bringing her sister to watch my daughter up here. (I personally can't stand her sister who in my eyes is a deadbeat)

I am currently not working and was watching our daughter while my wife was working (we recently lost our day care provider).

Can she legally make me leave the house? And is there anyway that I can block her sister from being the day care provider for my daughter?

2007-12-25 15:51:57 · 7 answers · asked by DC United Fan 2

She called to tell him she was planning to come pick it up tommorow! i havent even had a chance to get my van yet to accomadate for our growing family. i am so angry i want to scream and am having serious doubts about whether i realy want to give my car to my mother in law......regaurdless of whether i get my van or not! what if i dont get a van for a while how will i get to my doctor appointments to check on our unborn son? am just being selfish or do i have a right to be upset?

2007-12-25 15:49:54 · 11 answers · asked by Thumbs down me now 6

secretly screaming inside that they "have no idea" how they are really like?

2007-12-25 15:45:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of mine has fallen in love with a woman who is not in love with her husband anymore after 18 years of marriage and they have children.

He told me that it was not his intent to fall for her but they have a lot in common he is 38 and she is 40. She never brings him up in conversations only talk about her kids.

She told him that he never tells her he loves her, buy her things and just come home from work and watch television. I told him that it seems that she is lonely inside and wants out of the marriage but it hard because of the children and it seems like they are more of friends that husband and wife.

She does see him and have feelings for him but I think she does not want to get hurt or caught in doing the wrong thing.

It seems they married young which is not an excuse but it seems time of not giving to each other made the relationship stale.

The marriage I believe will be over soon it depends on who will leave first. I think they are good for each other.

2007-12-25 15:44:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-25 15:43:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-25 15:41:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

we both have moved on with our lives am i still married if we have been separated for this long with no contact

2007-12-25 15:38:53 · 14 answers · asked by PURPLE D 1

Besides hide in the closet?

2007-12-25 15:35:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm hurt so bad and i don't know what to do...I found out that my husband had a mistress and they made love at my back....what should i do? i don't want to be affected but i cant help it...

2007-12-25 15:34:32 · 17 answers · asked by jenn 1

Four years ago I had got divorced and their was in the decree that my wife restore her last name back to her maiden name. She has not done so yet . Is there any legal action that should be taken?

2007-12-25 15:33:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dateing the greatest girl in the world since 11 grade. For years now. She is the kindest person in the world. She is in school right now to be a journalist and I am in my 3rd year for a ba in science. I want to propose but i feel like i am holding her back. She wouldint even addmit 2 this. I want 2 go 2 med school next year and would have 2 move away.

2007-12-25 15:32:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this normal for married couples? Not sleeping together also contributes to why we don't make love. We average about one quickie every 2 months and that is the truth.

We have two boys, ages 4 & 7 and she lets them sleep with her in our bed, which means, I usually sleep in one of the boys beds. She feels I'm getting the best sleep, as I can sleep alone, where she has two kids stretching out in her bed. I've asked her several times, lets's get them out and she continues to make excuses (i.e., not tonight, tomorrow night).

We never meet up in the morning for a cuddle or anything. We never kiss goodnight or good morning.

2007-12-25 15:28:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-25 15:21:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-25 15:09:20 · 17 answers · asked by Love 2

I have this friend he is a good friend but he is married he is having trouble in his arriage and I have just seperated from myhusband.I know that we like each other because we have expressed these feelings.he dosent want to leave his wife because she stood by him thru soo much but he says that he is in love with me.I don;t really believe him but I have strong feelings for him because he was there when I went thru my seperation,however I dont want him to leave his wife on my account.I know I need to leave him alone for them to be happy but I have tried this 3x's before and he tells me he loves me all the time. What should I do?

2007-12-25 15:08:45 · 18 answers · asked by Lynboges 2