2007-12-25 15:21:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You both need joint and single therapy. Good luck
2007-12-25 15:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by DeCaying_Roses 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fix abusive marriage male point view
2016-02-03 05:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It starts out do you wanna fix the marriage? If you want to atleast give it one last chance....read the five love languages by Gary Chapman. I can guess that there is a lot of feeling unloved and unappreciated involved and the first step to fixing the relationship is learning how to exspress love in a way that the other understands...I think it would really help so give it a shot!
2007-12-25 15:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by GodsGrl4Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fixing an abusive marriage doesnt need a male or female point of view....get help and or make it stop or get out..theres the only solution there is....
2007-12-25 15:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will admit something here. I am married, married for 2 yrs, in our relationship for nearly 7 yrs. in the beginning hubby and I use to abuse each other physically. we would get into punch ups neither of us would back down. we have a son together and wanted it to stop for his sake we tried medication (for diff issues) and some couselling I am happy to say we no longer fight like that so it can be done. the main thing i would say is we matured out of it with a strong sense of fighting isn't right for our son to see or hear. But we wanted it to stop badly enough so that helps hugely.
2007-12-25 15:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's a proven fact that if it happens once it will continue to happen. You need to move out. Take counsel separately first so you all can figure why the attacker is doing it and why the other is allowing it to happen. Then come together in counseling to figure out if the marriage can be savaged.
2007-12-25 15:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by livapoo1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who's abusive, you or her?
If you're being abused, call the domestic abuse hotline locally. Or, if you're abusing, call them and ask if there are support groups or how to get help. It takes a lot to break the cycle of abuse: you might have to separate awhile. Counseling is your best bet.
2007-12-25 15:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have known some fellows in this position....and what it comes down to is being willing to get some help.
And if the help you find doesnt help - you get more
Start with your local health department - or call a mental health dept to help find yourself somehelp
And then be willing to do some serious soul searching
If you aren't willing to do those things, then for her sake, get the **** out, and dont get in another relationship
2007-12-25 15:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by freshbliss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only one way to fix the marriage nightmare, get divorced. Then learn your lesson and never get married again!!!
2007-12-26 06:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bruce , just asking this question is a monumental step.
Good for you !
Please talk with someone in your community.
A person of faith , a medical professional or a professional counselor.
Please remember this is a common problem in our country and there is help out there to completely remedy this problem.
Good Luck in the New Year ahead.
2007-12-25 15:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by palma 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start with therapy together for both of you. It's a step in the right direction.
2007-12-25 15:27:38 · answer #11 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋