She is 54. Both of her boys are grown up and married. She says she wants to keep the name because of her kids. She is not a professional so that reason is null.
2007-12-25 09:32:19 · 8 answers · asked by fpondg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
foolish! Why would she want to marry you and keep her previous husband's last name. I could understand her keeping her maiden name, but not her ex-husband's name.
2007-12-25 09:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by mudslide_23511 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is an excuse especially since they are grown and gone. I would think about what you are doing. There is some other reason that she is holding out.
2007-12-25 17:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not. She is connected to her children. Why does it bother you so much? My husbands EX kept his last name. I've never given it any thought until I read this question. Move on.
2007-12-25 17:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by crazyladyandfuntimes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She has the choice; If you cant live with that do not marry her
2007-12-25 17:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by Nora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell no either she take your name or no wedding,she seem to be holding on to more than just the name
2007-12-25 18:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by little rascal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really know where she is coming from.. Its important to her to keep that name becausse of her children, you should respect her feelings on this, because i'm sure its hard on her.. it has nothing to do with her x.....
2007-12-25 18:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by gina67000 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is strange, to say the least.
2007-12-25 17:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's her choice respect it or you might not get married
2007-12-25 17:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋