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Question

Hey... thought i may need a lil advice if you could please.
I'm a depressed person on tablets every day with hardly any friends and i am bi-sexual...
...but i have vowed to change for the New Year for the first time but it is going to be really hard, i want to be a more confident, friendly, happy person with a date!
I know it is going to be extremely hard.... i have already seen a psychiatrist but that hasn't really changed things.
I was just wondering if any of you had any useful advice for me.
This would be incredibly helpful everyone.
ThankYou so much for your answers x

Answer 1

Once you start to meet new people, it will become easier. Only you know who you really are, so you need to share that with other people. Don't be afraid to let them get to know you.

Trusting in your own opinions will help you be more confident. Maybe you could practice this at a book club or something. It would just be a place where everyone is reading the same book, but having different opinions and feelings about it. Sharing your voice about it while taking other people's opinions in as well will help you exercise communication and let down your guard to allow yourself to be happy.

Do you have a job that allows you to be confident and happy? Use breaks and lunch hours to walk with some coworkers or visit. Just sharing a light conversation or that quick walk will add the happiness you may be looking for.

Don't worry about how hard it is to change. Everyone knows that. If they see you changing, they will be happy for you that you were able to take the plunge and just do it!

Good Luck!

Answer 2

My advice to you is to be open to suggestions and make sure you are teachable.

No one person has all the answers you are looking for. But in listening to the opinions of other people, especially the people you do not want to hear from, a glimmer of the truth will be your reward.

Just be teachable!