Being married for 3 1/2 years and ironically my wife has spend half of that overseas staying with her mother at times we were 7 months apart and two weeks ago she has left again for 2 months. Now I am thinking with what of a marriage it has really been with even a suspect of infidility on her behalf while I remained loyal and trustful for her, I forgave her for such grounds of infidility though she never confessed. I look back her respect to me and well perhaps that says something. She has her own account which is fine, she does not work though. I can't use he laundry powder, when my 3 children from previous marriage marriage she complains about the food they eat. But what really got me, she not into cleaning the house much and left it mostly for me. I thought well I will see how long it takes to clean the bed sheets (two seperate mattrasses)and the weeks before she left it never got changed though I hated it. When she went I changed them and discovered hers were just been washed.
2007-12-25 09:54:01 · 7 answers · asked by maleinaus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Adding to it all her mother is planned to immigrate and stay with us for good. I see the future only going downhill!!
2007-12-25 10:17:32 · update #1
Yeah, I think its time to cut your losses. I think you are more so waiting for her to show some loyalty to you and the kids. It seems her loyalties are with her mother and everything else is just a problem to her. She wants the single life...that is obvious. It is also obvious that she couldnt love you very much if she would prefer to spend more time away from you than with you. You may love her, but its one-sided and what kind of a life is that for you? You deserve more. I know its a hard decision but you could be waiting for the next 10 years for her to love and respect you. Are you prepared to wait for the rest of your life for something that will probably never happen? It's time you found someone who loves you properly....who doesnt want to be married to her mother, but to you. You need to find someone who loves you AND your kids. Time to move on my friend.
2007-12-25 10:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The picture is coming up loud and clear!! Send her a message while she's at her mothers. Make it short, simple and incredibly plain! "No need to return. Marriage a sham. Divorce in progress."
2007-12-25 10:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can she clean the house if she's gone for 7 months?
2007-12-25 10:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop having kids.
2007-12-25 09:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by LakerStarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it.....''it's gone on enough
2007-12-25 10:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by mishoney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enough is enough
2007-12-25 09:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by fpondg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm speechless...
2007-12-25 10:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋