Marriage & Divorce - 13 December 2007

my dougter doesnt no how to make friends and to get kids to hang out with her by telling them that "WON A PRIZE" off the local radio station. She saves up her money and buys movie tickets and tells kids...Hey come hang out with me
"I GOT TICKETS" "I GOT TICKETS" will they use her and its NOT RIGHT, I want her to be normal about this. I think they are catching on to, becous she keeps saying this to the same kids but they keep pretending theat that she won a prize :(

Sad mom in AMERICA
Please give us adise on how to do this right??? HOW DO KIDS MAKE FRIENDS THAT ARE GOOD AND DON TAKE TO ADVANGAGE????

2007-12-13 11:35:04 · 22 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

I divorced my husband for many of the same reasons I see popping up with my current fiancee. Lack of communication, lack of regular sex, and parts of him that seem mysterious(which brings tears to my eyes, sometimes). Communication seems to be out, cause when I try to bring things up I get accused of disrespecting him. He does spend time and help out with finances for my son and I, but I need advice about what to do? The reasons for the divorce keep coming back now so maybe I am just seeing problems where none exist. We are both in our 30's. Things were different when this started. Like I found a soul mate. Is sex now once or twice a week lame for us? Is him practically living here except Thurs seem odd to anyone else? (When he goes home on a Thurs and I try to contact him he doesn't answer, then later calls and says he fell asleep.) I don't know..Again I stress bringing it up scares me, I think he has an angry side to him that I haven't seen yet.

2007-12-13 11:35:00 · 7 answers · asked by hljones1169 2

2007-12-13 11:23:03 · 16 answers · asked by shyam m 1

I can't move anywhere else, they are living 75% of the time in the mountains so everything is fine most of the time BUT fiance is still attached I guess and when his dad asks him to come to the mountains for the weekend, it's done. I have no choice in the matter. Now that its the holidays, its worse. On thanksgiving, I went to my dads while he went to his sisters and they felt that I should have went with them even though I promised my dad first. Now it's Xmas and I told fiance I didn't want to go to the mountains but we're going since my family's parties are different days. Does this mean hes not ready for marriage if he doesnt want to spend a holiday alone with me?Also, I'm 20 wks preg. and want my kid to see my family too. How can I get the point across that my family isn't dead and isn't in another country and that seeing them is very important to me? I love him to death but I'm not ditching my whole life for him. What should I say and what should I do?

2007-12-13 11:22:11 · 16 answers · asked by templeowlchick06 2

My bf of four years cheated and got a girl pregnant. I told him I would give him a baby oneday but obviously he wanted one right away. He ask me do I still want to have his baby and it hurts me that he couldn't wait for me. I truly love him though and no other man completes me like he do but I really want to leave. I just don't see where I'm going and it is hard for you to leave a man who has your heart. I keep telling myself I'm ready and I need to go so he can be a better father. I don't know what to do it's so hard to not love someone who was the 1st person you ever loved and the only person you truly love.

2007-12-13 11:18:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

im pregnant with my first and i am not living with the father (i just moved out). we are still dating but my family wants me to ditch him and get sole custody right away because he has 2 other kids with 2 different moms and isnt the most financially stable, plus hes 15years older than me. i want to continue the relationship bcz he promises to get finances fixed. if we end it i want to have a joint custody with an agreement where the child lives with me and visits with his father. what should i do?

2007-12-13 11:18:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Anyone else trust the hubby to shape things up?

2007-12-13 11:16:14 · 11 answers · asked by jeff b 4

When I get married, I will never cheat. No matter what. No matter what. Why? Because I would rather die than break my woman's heart like that. DEATH BEFORE DISHONOR!!!!

Family first!! I don't care about jobs. I don't care about money. I don't care about a nice car and house. I don't even care about sex. Family first!!!!

2007-12-13 11:12:18 · 26 answers · asked by airforcewolf16 3

2007-12-13 11:09:33 · 15 answers · asked by sonyviki 1

Recently divorced and have two children with her. I haven't bond with my 3month old and very close to my 3yr old. I live an hour and a half away from them and I commute to see my eldest every week. I pay child support and she uses the money for her family and very little goes to the kids. In the past I provided for her. She never went to work or recievced a higher education than high school. Her mom has always influenced her life alot. I miss my ex and wish things could be but I realize to much pain and burnt bridges. The trust is gone and I know if we ever got back I would be the one that carries all the weight and it's only a problem since she feels I have to do EVERYTHING! I want to find me a woman soon but I don't know if that would make life easire or worse

2007-12-13 11:08:54 · 10 answers · asked by Leonidas 3

I heard that was true. Is it? If that is the case, then my POOR parents! They have been together for almost 31 years, they must really not be liked by the world! ;-) I'm not trying to brag but what is up with all these people are are committing extramarital sex??! I know the world is now kind of morally on the other side, but really, is marriage really not the thing to do anymore? Geez, and I was looking forward to my wedding day =(.

2007-12-13 11:07:31 · 6 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6

Well here goes: I have been with my wife for 15 yrs since school and I'm 30. I have been married for 2 years to her.
At this moment in time i still know i love her but i dont fancy her anymore.
I dont enjoy having sex with her.
I am bored in her company and we run out of things to do and talk about together.
Things have gone into a routine and sometimes its her not wanting to do other stuff. I have a lot of hobbies which i enjoy but i feel the need to always getting home to keep her company as she doesnt have many friend to go and see when i'm out. I tried getting her to do stuff but she is getting lazy and claiming to be too tired.
I feel like part of an old couple but i'm still so youthful inside. My wife is also not taking care of herself and started putting weight on which doesnt help matters.
I have met someone at work who i get along with v.well, we both fallen for each other but she wont come near me due to my status, is it worth leaving my wife for potential happiness?

2007-12-13 11:00:27 · 19 answers · asked by gadgey 1

A powerful bit of leadership and manly behavior with a good measure of proper religion may be what is needed today!

2007-12-13 11:00:08 · 9 answers · asked by JIM 4

I don't really have any problem with gay people, some of my friends are gay, but I was just wondering what people thought on the subject. I think that they shouldn't get married because in the definition of marriage it says the social institution under which a man and woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife by legal commitments, religious ceremonies, etc. but I still think that they should beable to be united just not from the church. The reason why I'm asking this question is because some of my friends are for gay marriages and others aren't, and I just want to see if one side has more supporters than the other. If you could tell me why you are for or against gay marriages that would be great, so what's your opinion?

2007-12-13 10:58:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my hubby is a beautiful man, and i have been a cow , i am 10 weeks pregnant and have not totally been in the mood for romance ,because of my morning sickness i am also very
cautious,i don't want to throw up on him, which is one of the reasons why i am not as interested in sex, but i want to give it to him.what can i do ?i thought of doing a little strip tease for him but i don't know ....... help

2007-12-13 10:53:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boss is cheating and I want to follow him around and film him, hopefully catching him in the act. Then I will have proof to send to his wife. Is this legal? Please don't tell me don't mind my business. Anyone who says that is a cheater anyway.

2007-12-13 10:47:29 · 21 answers · asked by airforcewolf16 3

Only two for me and it did not include my Husband.

2007-12-13 10:44:40 · 35 answers · asked by D 7

My husband and i have a very good relationship, we are very happy with each other( touch wood) but what bothers me sometime is...he can go wherever he likes to, he is always making friends and talking to them but every time i want to go some where he insist to come along and he always does, he checks my phone, i dont talk to anyone besides my family. if i ever go out without him he will ask me 100 of times when will i be home and if i ask him the same thing ...he doesnt like it... what should i do? how should i make him understand it goes both ways?

2007-12-13 10:42:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was curious to know what others think. Thanks!

2007-12-13 10:40:23 · 19 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

2007-12-13 10:38:12 · 15 answers · asked by thedreammaster1984 2

ok children get stress from almost anything but how do they manage it or what do they do "express" their feelings or the stress they have

2007-12-13 10:33:49 · 12 answers · asked by SARII 1

its unmanly to have to wash and fold silky panties and bras!
Do I really need to enforce the - I'm not modeling it if you don't help wash it -rule or will he come around soon enough?

2007-12-13 10:33:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

the other day i came home early from work and found my wife masturbating to a porn magazine. Is there something wrong with me, how should i confront her???

2007-12-13 10:15:54 · 25 answers · asked by imsoogreek 2

Is marriage a safety net from STDs and HIV?

2007-12-13 10:13:32 · 18 answers · asked by heartsarebad 5

I let her borrow some money because she did not had gas on her car so I let her borrow ( give her money cause I'm never going to see it again) money but she wanted more and I told her that I don't have anymore and she insisted and I told her that I don't have anymore cause I'm the one paying for all the bills in the house and I mean ALL OF IT, so she got upset and threw the money at my face and told me to screw myself, and I never did or said anything that would upset her besides that I don't have more money. I'm the provider and do not ask her for anything on this house her money is just hers.Now does she has a problem, or am I overreacting?

2007-12-13 10:08:23 · 35 answers · asked by Shadow 4

just use the electric meat carving knife we got like I had told her to use?

2007-12-13 10:00:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Almost 11 years ago I had sex with another women and my wife gave me a choice to stay with my family or go. I choose to stay and we had two very rough years but we had started moving on and I thought everything was ok. We had just had our 20 aniv. and was gone for a week together and we had just bought this motorcycle to take trips on and where talking about the stuff we were going to do as the kids left the house,(20, 18) When out of the blue she told me she wanted a divorce and would not talk about it. Of course there is another man in the picture,but she says that she is not in love with me anymore and is madly in love with him. I am still in love with my wife. I have tried everything to get her to stay and work it out,she just refuse's. She wants to be friends after the divorce. Should I be?

2007-12-13 09:59:43 · 14 answers · asked by George A 1

When you give advice in Marriage/Divorce, do you tell them how you feel all of the time? Do you tell them what they want to hear?

2007-12-13 09:58:19 · 8 answers · asked by heartsarebad 5

I seriously don't know what to make of this.......he gives me these strange looks.........I turn away...he turns away....
we work together.......never been in this situation before. He just acts so aloof, but strangely attentive.......the thing is; do I let it go?........or persue it?......yesterday was the first day and night that I didn't send any texts or e-mails.....where to from here?.......please help!

2007-12-13 09:52:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husbands ex wife says if my hubby pays her a lump sum of $1,500 ( which is lower than what is owed ) she will inform the courts she no longer wishes to collect the arrears my ex owes her for child support. My hubbys son is 19 now so it is only the arrears my hubby is paying off. Can she do this? My step son is happy for her to do this as he does not live with her and hasnt for some time.

2007-12-13 09:51:58 · 10 answers · asked by tysbev4ever 1