Marriage & Divorce - 13 December 2007

I'm just asking.

2007-12-13 09:51:51 · 10 answers · asked by kharilli 5

that I hate when he compares me to his ex-wife? Like when we fight and I make a face or a reaction, he says that I do the same thing she did and thats why he divorced her. He also claims that sometimes I behave the way she does. Its very hurtful that he tells me those things bc I am not like her at all, but he doesnt seem to think that it's a big deal.

2007-12-13 09:38:01 · 38 answers · asked by Is that your final answer? 3

celibacy

2007-12-13 09:38:00 · 16 answers · asked by silverglade 1

Would you endure anything to prevent a divorce?

2007-12-13 09:35:26 · 16 answers · asked by JIM 4

My and partner an I are wondering if we should get married beofre the New Year for tax reasons. Will it help us or hurt us when it comes to taxes? No kids yet, we make around the same income. We do own a house. And we live in DC.

We are planning to get married, we are just wondering if it is in our best interesto to move the process along and do it before Jan. 1?

2007-12-13 09:35:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you give your spouse oral because my hubby complains that I don't do it enough. I think he's lucky he gets it at all because I have heard from many wives that they just "don't do that". What do you think?

2007-12-13 09:34:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

it was cute came from a fashion store anyways it was a large she is a lagrge and like s to wear tight clothes anyways she said she thought i gave her a joke gift because it didnt fit her i take my gift giving with thoughts and serious my question is how should i feel and stop caring what she says or thinks shes a negative person as it is it was rude of her and next year shes not getting anything that un greatful *****

2007-12-13 09:26:54 · 10 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

I have been seeing this guy nearly a year and have not met his children. They are a big part of his life and I would like to get to know them too. He says his ex doesn't want them around any other women, and I understand that. But should I take the hint that he is maybe not serious enough about us to take it to that level? I haven't met the parents either. The ex still goes to thier house like everyday.

2007-12-13 09:26:47 · 17 answers · asked by misty b 2

Okay so heres the deal my friends pregnant, lives with her boyfriend an hates him he ignores her, sits on his computer all day, does no housework and is just a lazy person. She lives in his house she gave up her house and all her belongings in that house so has nothing. She has asked him to change but he hasnt and she has just had enough. She needs to get out but has no were to go she could come live with me for a while but when the baby is bor there will be no room so she wants a place of her own. Basically what i am tryin to ask is were does she go for help she needs a house, furniture anyone any ideas? by the way we live in the UK. So only british help thanks no offence anyone else. Thanks

2007-12-13 09:25:05 · 5 answers · asked by lizzie 2

I am working in a position that was left because the last Admin Assistant left because she was getting married. Do married women leave their jobs often? Why is the phrase "She left because she was getting married" suficiant? Just curious. Thanks!

2007-12-13 09:25:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

It all happened last nite my husband is out of town on business so a couple of girls decided to go out on the town after work. We had a few drinks at a local bar, when we ran into my husbands best friend Steve, after quite a few drinks we got goofy and ended up at strip bar, Steve joined us, before I knew it he was rubbing my back and I was rubbing his leg, and talking sexual he asked me if I would ever dance at a strip bar or shave my pubic hair for John my husband, we all had a lot to drink so Steve got a cab to take us home, Steve saw me and my friend Monica home, Monica stayed over night because she lives out of town, when I woke up this morning I found myself naked and shaved. I don't remember anything once I got home. what do I tell my husband? and do I ask Steve or Monica what happened. Here I am 43 years old and should know better than to let this happen to me. I don't know what to tell my husband.

2007-12-13 09:20:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I first married my husband I told him how I felt on this subject and he told me he could never do that when married but he lied... ALOT.. and now I don't know how to take it. I would understand if I didn't put out or try new things but thats not the problem. What do I do? We've two kids and I'm scared I can't deal with this All I ever wanted was a faithful 100 man and to love me as I've him. We tried counceling but he hates it and doesn't want to go

2007-12-13 09:18:19 · 33 answers · asked by Lilith 4

My husband and I have been married for 10 years. we have two children and since the last one I have to force myself to have sex. He is always horney. I am getting to the point I can't force myself anymore. I have gone to the doctor and she has done all the blood work up and so on and she said that there is nothing wrong with me.
Other than the sex part we have a awesome relationship.
I love my husband very much he is my best friend, but I am just not attracted to him anymore. What do I do.

2007-12-13 09:15:34 · 17 answers · asked by hipgrandma0204 1

Hi everyone, be nice please, i have been married for 6 months now,very happy most of the time, yesterday my husband told me he have to go some where and its very important and he wont be back till the evening, i asked him give me an idea when will you be home? he said he doesnt know, he had a lil fight with me because he wanted to take my mercedes,i refused him, he left at 9am, i called him at 12:20 he was in the gym and couldnt talk to me, then he called me and i asked him honey when you coming home, he said he dont know yet and hung up on me, then i called him about 25times on both of his phones and he didnt answer, i gave up on calling him, then he called me and i didnt feel like talking to him, I know he is not cheating, I am positive about that, what else he could be up to besides that?

2007-12-13 09:13:50 · 11 answers · asked by Neha 1

....would you go out shopping for another spouse while you were still married? Or would you try to fix yourself first? And when did we decide that a piece of paper sets the mandate for what a heart feels?

2007-12-13 09:13:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ladies do you mind if your husband makes new/serious friendships with single women that he works with...and gentlemen, do you mind if your wives constantly make new/serious friends with single males...i mean friends that they constantly talk onthe phone with, go out with and work with....is this crossing the line of marriage? does it violate the marriage vows?

what do you think?

2007-12-13 09:11:54 · 13 answers · asked by hot black babe 4

how can I get my husband to want more loving like me!

2007-12-13 09:10:28 · 34 answers · asked by Angel L 3

I feel ashamed. I am a married man with two adorable daughters under the age of 5. Things have never been right with my wife, but we kept our relationship going because of our daughters. Well, that's why I am still in the relationship.
I made the huge mistake of cheating on her, and falling for another woman. I have known her for over 8 months now. And she recently found out that she was pregnant. I feel lost, ashamed and scared. She is worried but completely against abortion, and I am too, in a way, but I feel like this is a critical situation.
If she keeps this child, I will have to leave my family and my daughters will never respect me. I love them, they are the love of my life, and i can't imagine them not being in my life or hating me.
Should she have an abortion? Should she keep the child? What can i say to convince her not to have this child? I feel like this child would be born in a bad situation, but she seems to think it does not matter. What is the best option? Help.

2007-12-13 09:10:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fionce was married to a "money hungry" person for a very short time and now were together and plan to be married soon. We are both very happy but the only thing is that he tells me that we wont get married until he's established again. Ex: he builds a new house, etc. becuase he doesnt want to go through the same hectic drama he went through with his ex wife when they were fighting for their house. He put her on the title of the house and everything before they got married and when they divorced she fought for every single penny since the house was under both their names. I am a true believer of working for your own things and its not so much that he doesnt want to put me in the title of the new house, its just that he is learning from his mistakes he made w/ his first wife and now I have to pay the price. Wouldnt you be offended? Not so much for the money, but the situation. Its not my fault that shes a money hungry person.

2007-12-13 09:08:13 · 17 answers · asked by Is that your final answer? 3

Hope I'm not the only one! (:

Have a nice christmas

2007-12-13 09:07:24 · 13 answers · asked by Lynzy 5

2007-12-13 09:02:34 · 5 answers · asked by payam k 1

How does your marriage seem after you spend time in the Marriage/Divorce area of yahoo answers?

2007-12-13 09:02:29 · 38 answers · asked by heartsarebad 5

I have been in a 6 year marriage and He has cheated on me since the begining.I always forgave even when he threw me in jail for smaking him after I found out.But this last time when I forgave I guess I didn't realize I had to forget.I cry everyday I talk about what happened everyday.It has come to the point where I have wanted to hurt myself because I can't get rid of the pain.He laughs, calls me a drama queen,Calls me crazy! He moved the girl into my house when I went to live with my mother.They laughed at me while I played the fool and lost my corporate job. I am tierd...but this is my first love.The only man I have ever lived with.He lies to me all the time and we never go anywhere.I am in a nightmare!I can't get out because I feel that the other men are worse.I am holding on to a thread emotionally,physically and mentally.All the while he says get over it.....I just found out today that the girl he was cheating with lives 2 miles away from me!Also this whole thing hppend 9mnth ago

2007-12-13 09:00:18 · 25 answers · asked by Pretty dark skin girl 2

I am 36 yrs old. I have been married 13+ yrs. happily. This last year or so I started having dreams about people (girls) I knew when I was a kid. Not old flames mind you but just girls i knew in school and never dated. They are sexual in nature but before anything really happens I sorta blow it in the dream. Then I wake up wondering where the hell did that come from?
Then for the next few days I'm thinking about that person (not sexually) but just where are they, I hope they are doing well, that sorta thing.
Any ideas?

2007-12-13 08:56:03 · 6 answers · asked by cotton3860 3

2007-12-13 08:55:47 · 16 answers · asked by scott 1

I know I keep posting this, but I need to understand this guy in order to just let this go.

He is 25 - three yrs younger than me - still lives w/parents.
We dated for 4-5 mnths and when he lied to me about talking to his ex gf, I broke up with him. The NEXT DAY he got back together with her and told her he was in love with her.

I havent talked to him for 2 months until last night. I told him I knew he ran to her because he knew she would take him back. He told me he was too afraid of his feelings for me because he was so incredibly in love with me, that he took the cowards way out and strung her along. THEN he told me that he ended all contact with her two weeks ago because he could no longer lie to her about wanting her when he really was in love with me.

He knows I wont take him back, so he didnt have to tell me any of this. He said he cant get over this - he is too in love with me now. I saw the look in his eyes. I believe him - but its not that easy with me.

2007-12-13 08:55:29 · 36 answers · asked by L 2

Briefly explain why you are in the Yahoo Answers in the marriage/divorce answering or asking.

2007-12-13 08:53:41 · 16 answers · asked by heartsarebad 5

when i first met my wife I found her georgous..the most beautiful thing I ever saw..she had a few self-esteem problems because of the way (others saw her) so she wasnt a size 5..she's what ppl called "fat" but I didn't care...I thought she was beautiful and I had to have her..after we got together and got married she used to tell me I made her feel like the person she always wanted to feel like..a beautiful person..now after two years I have ran into a delima...all of a sudden she started hating the way she looked...started going on binge diets where she would fast for a long time..2 and 3 days at a time. She wants to lose weight and wear makeup now...but that is not beautiful to me. I want her just the way she is...how can I change her mind? What have i done to make her self esteem drop again..? I want to be the best husband I can...but I dont want her to change anything...please some advice?

2007-12-13 08:52:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

in the email, the person admits their affair, and in another one brags about it. can this be used in court?

2007-12-13 08:50:14 · 9 answers · asked by cd. 1

physically attracted to?
We get along well, we have fun. He just does not rev my engine.

2007-12-13 08:49:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous