How does your marriage seem after you spend time in the Marriage/Divorce area of yahoo answers?
2007-12-13 09:02:29 · 38 answers · asked by heartsarebad 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After spending time in here, I feel blessed.
Blessed that I'm not like the men that some of these women see to complain about.
Blessed that my wife isn' as picky or irrational as some of the women on here.
That's how I feel blessed. We're not without our problems, but after seeing some of the things on here, I know we could have it much worse.
I DO NOT mean that to put anyone down!!!
If I could help you all I would, but there are some things that are beyond me. And I do feel bad for most of you and offer you the best of luck.
2007-12-13 09:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sean C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have mixed feelings! I was married for 23 years to the same woman and felt life was grand and then one day out of the blue (At least to me) she asked for a divorce! No kids because she refused to have them! I love kids! Now I am married again for only 20 months and I am too old to have kids (50s) but I feel I am not able to deal with the differences in male to female personalities and habits and plans! I sometimes wonder if I made a mistake and should have stayed single and just live my life as I feel without compromise anymore! I feel I have compromised myself to the point where I feel I lost me somewhere! In a 23 year marriage, there is way more compromising than I can even mention and I am shorter now with patience and bending as I was before. I don't feel blessed nor short changed because I made the choice. Living with it is the hard part!
2007-12-13 09:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel blessed to be quite honest.After I browse the Marriage/Divorce section I empathize with everyone and try to imagine what they must be going through.No relationship is perfect and not every marriage is a happy one.I know this I accept this and then I sit back and I feel blessed not just because for this moment I am happy but because I know that I'm doing all that I am able as is hubby to keep this vessel moving even through the worst of storms in our relationship...
M.G
2007-12-13 09:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Malia G 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I feel blessed that I have someone who can give me unconditional love. I felt short changed at first because I realized that he made himself seem perfect. After the first couple of years our relationship/marriage progressed into this wondering bond. Don't be discourage about marriage. Just find that person who fits you like a puzzle piece :)
2007-12-13 09:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel Blessed it is sad to read so many horror stories. I have have been married for over 8yrs and know that up's and downs are a fact of life and marriage but if you have someone that is great and can be supportive and walk through those rough times with you then you are blessed to have them in your life.
For me that is my wife my guiding light, my solid rock of support and the most caring and generous person I know.
For if it wasn't for her I would not want to get up in the morning she is my everything.
I'm from Canada as well I guess we just think marriage is more important here because it appears everyone is just screwing each other over in the States. Open Marriages WTF really get to church alot of you.
2007-12-13 09:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel SO blessed. My husband and I do have our little tiffs here and there, but I believe that any good relationship has that, ya know?
I am very sorry, however, for people who don't feel blessed in their marriage, and I hope that things start looking up for them.
For the people who aren't in a good, healthy relationship - get out. Find someone better.
2007-12-13 09:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel blessed and being in the Marriage/Divorce section doesn't change that, I've always felt blessed.
2007-12-13 09:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
the marriage for the wife and myself seem pretty blessed, we hope the other couples in the Marriage/Divorce area make a choice that will help them out in thier issues
2007-12-13 09:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by Drew 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am very blessed, but I don't normally spend time in the Marriage/Divorce section.
2007-12-13 09:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Misty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Blessed
2007-12-13 09:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by dik 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋