the other day i came home early from work and found my wife masturbating to a porn magazine. Is there something wrong with me, how should i confront her???
2007-12-13 10:15:54 · 25 answers · asked by imsoogreek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe she couldn't wait for you to get home and had to release. Its not a bad thing just come out and ask her....You are married so you can't just hold all this in let her know how you feel if you don't like it. Good Luck
2007-12-13 10:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lou Lou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hehe that's funny. I masturbate when I'm aroused and my husband is not home yet. I'll even leave a voicemail on his cellphone to let hin hear/know. I suggest you should've joined her when you came home. She would've loved it. Confront her????You'll make her feel like she needs to hide it from you, like it's something wrong. There's nothing wrong with it, she was probably just in the modd. Do you please her often enough? Probably nothing wrong with you, just need to do it more often.
Side note: Are you two pretty open about masturbation and other sex talk? Take it from a women, we don't watch porn because of hot men or fantasy about other penises, she was just probably in the mood.
2007-12-13 18:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by ladida 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should just ask her if she is not satisfied with you. But either way, I'm sure it's not personal, she just felt like masturbating... it's normal. At least my opinion is that it's normal. Chances are that it has nothing to do with you. Do you not watch/enjoy porn yourself? Have you ever masturbated?
2007-12-13 18:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would of sat down beside her and joined in the fun.What is the problem.It certinaly does not mean there is something wrong with you.{maybe a lack of adventure on y our part}Take a walk on the wild side.
2007-12-13 18:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your bruised ego is what is wrong with you.
Why do you need to confront her?
Quit being a little boy and join in the fun.
2007-12-13 18:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by TheTotalStud_StudTotal 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the only thing wrong with you is your upset about your wife masturbating
2007-12-13 18:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by bee j 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
your wife was randy and you wasnt at home ,you should have striped off and asked her if you could finish her off or just sat and watched(whats your problem do you need to be in control in the bed room)
2007-12-13 18:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by pink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with either of you. Maybe she feels that y'all don't have as much sex as she would like. Why don't you find out?!
Good luck and have a great night.
2007-12-13 18:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront her about what?? You should have been a team player and joined her.
2007-12-13 18:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that so many times My husband asked me to play with myself so he can join me.
He enjoyed it...
2007-12-13 18:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by Paula 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋