When I get married, I will never cheat. No matter what. No matter what. Why? Because I would rather die than break my woman's heart like that. DEATH BEFORE DISHONOR!!!!
Family first!! I don't care about jobs. I don't care about money. I don't care about a nice car and house. I don't even care about sex. Family first!!!!
2007-12-13 11:12:18 · 26 answers · asked by airforcewolf16 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good for you.
People cheat because they are not getting their needs met from their spouse. Those needs can be emotional or physical. Everyone has their own individual reason though, so don't be quick to judge. It happens to even the best of couples unfortunately. So think before you take a walk down that aisle. Know who you are going to be married to, and make sure that they are meeting your needs, as well you are meeting theirs in return. It is the only fair thing to do. God bless!
2007-12-13 11:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Simply explained by a 8 yr married man, Physical and emotional need are not being fullfilled, and the 2nd party in the marrage gets tired of asking for affection or attention like a 5 yr old and the only reason the other can come up with is they just are not into but they still love you. Been there done that and still married. Eventually the spouse may find out and realize that they brought it on themself for an affair or cheating spouse either way. When married you should never every with hold sex or affection to either party in the marrage reguardless how u feel there are times I was never in the mood but i kicked my *** in gear because that is part of my job as a husban otherwise someone else can fill te spot....
2007-12-13 19:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok there are many reasons for a person to cheat... in a rather serious relationship it could be because one partner is not satisfied and in some way found that something in someone else. It can not be justified but it is not wrong either. If its a fault its fault from both sides. Cheating after marriage is a serious no... after that kinda commitment it would only make sense to stay loyal.
PS: Dont be so sure. Circumstances make people do things they dont want to do.
2007-12-13 19:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by nes 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you.
Some reasons people cheat is because they lack communication in their marriage. Sometimes people cheat because the sex drive is low in their marriage or their partner isn't satisfying. Some people cheat because rather then talking things out they just go to the easiest option.
In no way am I justifying cheating, I think it's so wrong to do especially to someone who is devoted and loving to you. I
Also, when I was younger I was in a relationship for 3 years with a verbally abusive man. I loved him so much that I didn't want to leave, I stayed faithful and committed regardless of that pain he put me through and because of him cheating on me I had a lot of trust issues but forgave him. Then he just ended up getting another woman pregnant so I finally found the courage to leave him.
2007-12-13 19:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope that is true, but keep in mind..most everyone who gets married thinks that way to some degree or another. No one goes into a marriage thinking that it will not be full of happiness, but statistics say that half of those couples will divorce.
I think it is would be better to say "I plan to never cheat and will do all I can to keep that promise".
2007-12-13 20:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by I play the game 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure its is to think like that when you care for someone, but think about what you would do if you DO NOT CARE about them.
Cheating isn't just cheating. First there is a problem in your relationship and the two of you become distant from each other.
Think of it this way, when you love your spouse you would let them have the last piece of pizza, but when you don't love your spouse they are as good as a stranger and that last piece become "first come first serve". When you do not love someone it becomes all about you not them.
2007-12-13 19:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No yesterdays and now tomorrows. Enjoy the moment and don't fall in love.
It is like a good dream. When it is over, you may wish it will happen and it may or may not. If it does, enjoy the moment again.
As we get older, we all have responsibilitys like grandchildren that need us and other people that we would not want to disappoint.
It is easy to love more than one if there is an understanding to not "fall in Love".
2007-12-13 20:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by The 5 pound Robin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope you take all those good ideas with you as you grow up, not sure if it is a good idea not to care about sex your wife might kind of object, and as far as money goes and if you intend to put family first, you will need lots of it to support that family you are going to have good luck
2007-12-13 19:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Loretta M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was be nice if there were more people in the world like you, but unfortunately there are very few. I don't know the real reason why some people cheat, I can only give you the excuses they provide. My advice is close one door before opening another.
2007-12-13 19:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by lwomar 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pure stupidity and lack of self-control.
Most people don't think they will ever cheat in their marriage; just as you are stating but it happens. Hope you can live up to these words. Remember them years from now.
2007-12-13 23:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋