2007-12-13 10:38:12 · 15 answers · asked by thedreammaster1984 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Vengeful bit*hes would hope so, but thank goodness, no.
What kind of person does it make you? How fair is that to the children? I bet you are one of those who won't stop talking about how much of a loser this guy is right in front of the children. I do not condone his behavior, but it is no excuse for you to "make him a monster" in the eyes of his children. Your issues are between you and him. Please keep it that way.
2007-12-13 10:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by TheTotalStud_StudTotal 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO..absolutely not! A father has every right to continue a relationship with his children even when the relationship with their mother has fallen apart. I have been through a divorce that involved children...I could only WISH that my ex would have been interested in continuing to see his children. It is sooo very hard on them as they grow up to think (or in my case, realize) that their own father didn't care enough to stay involved in their lives. No matter what your feelings are about the man (trust me, mine were not heartwarming by any means) you OWE it to your children to encourage a relationship with their father. After 18 years, I STILL keep the lines of communication open with my children's father & he STILL has nothing to do with them. But, he is kept up-to-date on their health & well being (not everyday life things though-that he hasn't earned a right to) so that he can never say that I pushed him out of their lives. I have beautiful children who greatly respect me for what I have done & they have a step-father that they love more then anything in this world. HE is their dad, but not because I took away their "real" one.
Good luck with your situation. Go with your head, not your heart on this one.
2007-12-13 11:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not - he is entitled to move on with his life if the two of you are splitting up. The fact he cheated on you, does not make him a bad parent - just a lousy husband. You have no right to keep him from his kids just because you are upset with his choice to move on.
2007-12-13 10:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. you and him may not work out but doens't mean he doesn't care for his children .. just as if you were with another man you don't discard your children.
Of course you may like that to happen as your pissed right now. but he still has the right to see his kids no matter how crappy you feel towards him unless he's harming them in some manner.
2007-12-13 16:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I know it hurts,NO,not only is it wrong,it will only hurt your children,which are the only innocence in the situation,look at it this way,your rid of the scum in your life,but is he a good father?It will only make you the bad one to keep them away!!
2007-12-13 11:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. But you will lose your kids respect if you try to force that to happen.
2007-12-13 11:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by deepseaofblankets 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.. but it does make his chances of getting custody very very slim.. it shows the courts that he committed adultery.. you could have in put in your divorce papers that he is not allowed to have females sleep over at his place when he has the kids for visitation.. that would mean if some one lived with him they would have to leave for the weekend..but here's the catch 22 to that one.. he could ask the same of you .. in a year or two you may want to move in with someone
2007-12-13 10:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No he doesnt but I would make that a point in court that he left you for this woman.
2007-12-13 10:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, sorry. He's still their father. Who he lives with doesn't change that.
2007-12-13 10:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thay still r his kids.... however it would piss me off too. Jerks come in all forms.
2007-12-13 10:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋