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my dougter doesnt no how to make friends and to get kids to hang out with her by telling them that "WON A PRIZE" off the local radio station. She saves up her money and buys movie tickets and tells kids...Hey come hang out with me
"I GOT TICKETS" "I GOT TICKETS" will they use her and its NOT RIGHT, I want her to be normal about this. I think they are catching on to, becous she keeps saying this to the same kids but they keep pretending theat that she won a prize :(

Sad mom in AMERICA
Please give us adise on how to do this right??? HOW DO KIDS MAKE FRIENDS THAT ARE GOOD AND DON TAKE TO ADVANGAGE????

2007-12-13 11:35:04 · 22 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

22 answers

You need to sit down and have a heart to heart with her. Explain to her that "stretching the truth" or "lying" is not healthy and will come back to bite her one day soon.
If we allow others to use us and keep us down in a situation it is our own fault.
Get your daughter involved in either a after school group or some type of club.
She doesn't set out to do things wrong but they always somehow find her. She probably just needs a stronger foundation and more love!!!
Good luck and God Bless!!!!

2007-12-13 20:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't believe you are an adult, because,.. "YOU CAN"T SPELL"..A mother should know how to spell, "daughter", especially "if' you have one, a simple word such as, "because", is taught in the 2nd grade, I read your profile, and you had , AT LEAST..4 misspelled words, an adult would be to embarrassed to ever let anyone realize they can not spell, ESPECIALLY when there is a.. "Check Spelling" ..button on your computer. By the way, having an "orange badge" gives you no power, what so ever, and, an adult would realize that. If you are a young girl looking for some good advise, there was some good answers to your question, such as "be yourself", and let people like you for who you are. If you lie to people, sooner or later they will find out, then actually have a reason not to like you. Sometimes it is hard to make friends, but,.. "you will,".. hang in there, good friends are worth waiting for.

2007-12-13 12:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cami 7 · 0 1

depending on how old she is most kids under 10 will buy candy to lure the rest in that is normal if older then that then you cannot say anything and don't bother with a shrink.
You can help her from this day forward let her know how pretty she is and how special and screw the other girls if they don't want to be her friend!
I raised two daughters one is 21 the other is 13 my 13 year old came home the other day crying cause the usual girl thing you know in middle school one day your all friends and then next day they are picking on you. I told her the hell with them she does not need them and stop crying.
This week she is the one they all want to be friends with.
Teach your daughter she is the princess no matter what.
And she will then stop this behaivor

GOOD LUCK!

2007-12-13 11:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by lisalisa 4 · 1 1

You have to get her to understand that lying is wrong, and that people will only become her friend when she is her true self, and being a small child, it can't be that hard, where she got the idea of making friends under false pretenses need to found out by you, it sounds like the poor thing is overwhelmed by insecurity, and as a parent, it is your responsibility to give her the positive reinforcement she will need to prosper in life.

2007-12-13 11:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 1 1

I'm a teen in highschool
i find that the easiest way to makes friends is to talk to people in my classes and see if they have things in commen with me. if we get along, i sometimes see if they would want to hang out after school, or some other time. i will also exchange phone numbers if the person wants to.

good luck!

2007-12-13 11:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Courtney Lynn 1 · 2 0

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2016-10-11 05:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Young or old it is always the same. When the money runs out so do the so called friends. She my have to learn the hard way unless you can get that idea through her head.

2007-12-13 11:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 1 1

Well first off, you have to be watchhing this girl as her mother. Making sure you know what she does with her money and how she'll us what she bought. Next thing, have a talk with her, tell her she doesn't need to do this to make friends. This might sound cliche but tell her to be herself and in time she'll meet friends that she gets along with well.

2007-12-13 11:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

its hard what i did in hs was collect the unpopular kid and formed my own little crew. 15 yrs late some of us still talk

btw u make me hard would not be a jade answer wo that kinda of thing thrown in

2007-12-13 11:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Straighten your kid out, they probably just have some self confidence issues you don't know about. Tell them to stop lying and make some real friends. Confront the other kid's parents as well and elt them know what's going on.

2007-12-13 11:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

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