Marriage & Divorce - 3 December 2007

And both are trying to get you to side with them simiulaneously ?

2007-12-03 15:31:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm afraid my ex-wife will try to leave the country with our 1 year old son to Colombia 1) Since my son was born in this country will he need a passport 2)Is there any way to find out if she has already applied for one? 3) How do I stop her from proceeding?

2007-12-03 15:25:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

something big please

2007-12-03 15:19:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the past 15 yrs, I have been asking my wife to go out dancing and drinking with me, like on dates of us alone and the kiddos at in laws house. I WANT TO TAKE MY WIFE OUT TO MANY MANY PLACES, but she refuses to go out with me anywhere, so because of this I am extremely bored with her. She is so afraid of trying out new things and new experiences in life, when I am so open minded to just about anything there is in life in general. She does not like me for who I am. Just because I like to drink a little and have fun going out to some dance club.

2007-12-03 15:19:36 · 16 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

My younger sister ( who's 18 ) is getting married and she asked me to explain to her how someone knows when they are truly with the one. I'm married and should be able to tell her this, but I was never really good at explaining things. Any advice??

2007-12-03 15:19:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 15:16:40 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is 13 years old. Her dad lives in New Mexico. She is supposed to go to her dad's over Christmas Break. She is trying out for Volleyball and was worried if she made it she would miss practice over the break. I talked to my ex-husband about this, he said he understood and he decided that she wouldn't come out over xmas and we agreed to work some extra time in over spring break. He even told my daughter this. She was relieved, she didn't want to leave home on Christmas. A couple of weeks ago, when he was half drunk and feeling sorry for himself, he called up and changed his mind. My daughter is very upset. I'm half tempted not to send her, and she is refusing to go. Any thoughts on how to handle this?

2007-12-03 15:02:28 · 11 answers · asked by tami_leigh 1

I am married to a very good man who doesn't hit me, yet I fell in love with another man (now BF) whom i thought loves me deeply but yet abused me since Aug 07. He told me he had been suffering from depression becoz of me, and has been cutting himself whenever he strikes me. I know I must leave this man but my heart is not strong & willing to, He doesn't talk to me with respect when he gets mad, and just 2 days ago, he striked me at my mouth but why am I still holding on ? I need to be freed. dont know how long this man will take to recover from his depression. He told me hes not normal and i should be around taking care of him, but i cant keep getting striked ? He said I dont know how to love someone..maybe yes...i dont know but I just have this fear inside me each time he hit me & I wonder when is the next ? WHen I wanted to end the r/s, he said I love myself more & wanted to end his life. The next moment, he talks to me in such a disrespectful manner...i wish i was dead.. HELP !

2007-12-03 15:00:22 · 15 answers · asked by Arpengenie 1

The judge ruled in my favor and ordered my husband to pay my lawyer fees. My lawyer wrote the order and it was signed by the judge that he reimburse me for her fees. So I am now left with trying to get him to do just that but he refuses.

2007-12-03 14:43:43 · 9 answers · asked by starlightrap 2

Yes, I'm a virgin. Not because of religious reasons, not because I'm waiting for marriage (I'm not even sure I want to get married), mostly because I haven't gotten close to anyone that I would want to share my body with. And yet I still think about sex constantly. I... ehm... am still "in touch" with myself... but it's not enough. I also exercise, read, and do a host of other things to preoccupy myself, but to no avail.

Now, I'm beginning to think some wild meaningless sex will get it off my mind. Maybe I'm just repressed.

What are your thoughts?

2007-12-03 14:42:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 14:42:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some advice about what I could get my wife for Christmas.

She's never really cared about getting jewelry the whole time we have been together. I want to do something really special for her for Christmas and not just a simple gift. I want to do something very special for her that she won't forget.

I'd appriciate any suggestions you may have.

2007-12-03 14:36:48 · 43 answers · asked by Bryan M 6

married for 3.5 years i have a 1 year old. my husband from the starting has issues with me. i never understand why? and now its gotten worse.. he curses at me for no reason, or reasons so small like not putting the laundry away!! he gets mad when he wants to and not talk for dayss.. expects things from me all the time but when i expect says i am too demanding..
when iw as pregnant on our trip to NY i had his laptop in my lap, and i was going to put it on the back seat it sort of slipped but ended up fine on the seat.. he started swearing at me so much (which he knows i hate) also hit me so hard that i started bleeding from my both lips.. never said sorry ..when we got there he got extra rude with me .. then few hours later he acted as if nothing happend!! i tried to talk and get mad..but got scared he might do something again.. i know i have put up with it just cz of my baby.. if i file for divorce will i get my baby's custody or can he get it.. i have no clue so am asking pls help

2007-12-03 14:32:05 · 25 answers · asked by angel 1

how do you stay faithful? i know i will stay faithful, but it's a struggle sometimes. I get attracted to other people easily lately. I think it's a phase and will pass..... and i know i won't do anything about it.... but is this normal? any tips on getting through this phase?? thanks

2007-12-03 14:25:38 · 4 answers · asked by bluecat3636 2

Yes that's right he has just left me our 1month old & our 2yo boy, well he has been gone since Friday, I haven't been able to stop crying, I feel so used :'( 3 YEARS I have done nothing but love him & all he has done is hurt me time & time again, I turned into a drunk for 4months that's how bad I was over this guy. We have 3kids, one past away.. born a sleeping angel at 26weeks. I have gained so much weight with him, have hardly any self respect left. He has another kid to another woman who he visits at her house with her in the house! His ex has called me every name in the book, harassed me for 3years, with the sickest of words, telling me how he hates me & how much he don't love me etc. & how they r still sleeping together. I feel like f*%*n sh*t & wanna scream!!!!!!!!!! I hate him soo much for leaving me like this, he is the one looking after our kids whilst I'm in hospital in two days! i'm having gastric bypass, thats how bad my weight is coz of depression, i have been threw hell=(

2007-12-03 14:00:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

all of you married people.

2007-12-03 13:59:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

In the marriage vows, what does the phrase "till death do us part" or "as long as we both shall live mean"?

2007-12-03 13:25:56 · 17 answers · asked by avidmark4 2

My husband of 8 years is drinking 2-3x a week..I know he is drunk, because he is funny and relaxed. Is this bad for my kids they are 5 and 6? They don't know he is drunk, but will this mess them up in the future. He is not violent or stupid..though I have asked him not to drink, he is hiding it and disrespecting my wishes. I just want to do what is best for the kids..He drinks around 7pm and it is at home..

2007-12-03 13:15:18 · 12 answers · asked by josiejo 3

Should people not be aloud to bring there eastern cultures to a "FREE" world?

Be objective, think, don't rant.

2007-12-03 13:12:21 · 25 answers · asked by erom m 2

Aren't their spouse supposed to be their No. 1 priority?

Pls. read this article from Dr. Laura:

http://www.drlaura.com/blog/2007/04/12/but-i-dont-feel-like-it

I think if women follow her advice, there will be lesser divorce and fewer kids suffering as a result.

Please, if you love your husband and your family, read the article of Dr. Laura .

2007-12-03 12:53:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

True but so sad he does!! She is a hot mess she calls 2 or 3 times a day..She always in our marriage and we just had a new baby she doesn't have a man and she is in her early 50's. We live in La and she stays in AL she left her wash towel and bath cloth at our house when she was visiting and now ever time I go in the bathroom I see this pink towel. She also told my husband that I need to go back to work our his whole family did. He is her baby son what do I do leave him or sit down and talk to her like a women

2007-12-03 12:44:39 · 8 answers · asked by ms women 1

Like myspace myspace, or he gets upset when i try to keep my sons father in my sons life. He says that he might as well be his dad bcuz hes always there for him. He just doesnt understand how important it is to me to try to keep his dad in his life. He'll also get mad @ me if he washes my back in the shower and i dont wash his in return, or i work at night at a bar and i dont get done cleaning until 245 300 am and occasionally i will a have a drink after work, wel last weekend i called him to let him know i was going to stay after for a drink at like 240am and said i would be home around 330-345 well i got home at 4am and he was trippin. Someone please tell me how to fix this!!??

2007-12-03 12:36:23 · 24 answers · asked by nikki 2

Been divorced 10 years. Ex-wife not taking into consideration my thoughts/views of what school she should attend. Public versus Private. According to the marital settlement agreement, this should fall into a "major decision" and we both should agree upon this decision. What should I do? We have joint custody, with shared placement. 60/40 split of placement.

2007-12-03 12:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by Steve T 1

so i was on my bf's myspace and found messages back and fourth from his ex and him. from the messages you can tell she doesnt want him and the conversation was very simple but just the fact that he did this hurt me because he was telling her things he would never tell me. he also told her he would " try to keep in touch if messeges were the only way he could" and he did not add her as a friend. we have been in a relationship for 3 years and i wouldnt even know how to approch him with this. I just need some advice.
thanks

2007-12-03 12:30:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you had the chance to have your own pair of balls between your legs would you take them? why or why not, and what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of having balls?

2007-12-03 12:20:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should I visit mom for Christmas? I am pretty upset with her becuase she has this feud going on with my aunts and uncles and never in her life owns up to anything or takes responibity for anything, including it takes two to argue and she is at least 50 % responible for the feud. She has insisted on bad mouthing them and not seeing her as wrong to any degree in the situation. Her sister has made numerous attempts to mend fences and my mom never answers her calls or letters, but then complains to me that they dropped her. And yes the feud is stupid, its over a grudge she holds "She says they told her what to do all her life and she is sick of it." My opinion has never counted growing up but I think there were lots of times that if she had took their advice all of our lives would have been a lot better. She wants my hubby and I to visit at Christmas, but he is still mad that she no showed at our wedding. "not wrong on her part either" Her health is not the best but still? Doormat?

2007-12-03 12:16:00 · 12 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2

2007-12-03 12:03:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

We both are in love with each other and it was something that just happened. We work with each other and both look out for one another. I caught my husband cheating about 6 years ago and have been alone until I met this one man. I always said I would never date a married man, so I guess that saying never say never is kind of true. Please don't pass judgement just make comments. When we are together we have alot of fun and the sex is also great...... We both think we are soul mates. At times we say no more we are going to end it, but then we both call one another and and the feeling goes away.

2007-12-03 11:40:35 · 53 answers · asked by queenstopaz 1

2007-12-03 11:38:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-12-03 11:15:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous