Marriage & Divorce - 3 December 2007

I am reading a book on how to make your love life sizzle and one of them is to pick a night every month to do the household bills together, naked! If that doesn't make a chore enticing!!
Just curious, how many of you would be willing to try it?

2007-12-03 04:55:32 · 17 answers · asked by lippy 3

we have been dating three months

2007-12-03 04:55:23 · 19 answers · asked by Dan G 3

Hi! im 28 years old and im in a 3 year relationship with a 23 year old,in the bigining there was lots of sex and i wanted some from him,now the last few months i don't want to have sex im not in the mood anymore,he is not happy with me and is wondering why? when he asks me about it the only thing i could tell him is that im not in the mood,and i really don't know why,can someone help me...thank you
miracle

2007-12-03 04:51:05 · 23 answers · asked by (MIRACLE) 2

I called home to see if the wife and kids were okay and she responded that she didn't know where they were and was leaving for work. She has had some bizarre behavior in the past and suffers from MS and depression. The police located her at her employer and verified both kids were safe at school. I have not called her, but we have both contacted divorce attorneys (learned this by checking hime email). I fear for my children's safety and seek full custody. What are my rights? Can I lock her out of the house? Can I leave with the children? Our marriage has been troubled for several years and it is time to move on. The children are afraid to be around her without me present.

2007-12-03 04:46:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for over 14 years. My husband and I have three children. We have had an increadable marriage. We have always been very close, and very much in love. I recently found out that 1.5 years ago over three months he had an affair in another city.This happened over a few seperate visits to that city. The affair consisted of him taking off his wedding ring, asking a women out, taking her to dinner a couple times then it ended up in a hotel.There was no "sex" as he (as confirmed by her) stopped it.He ended the relationship right after that and has had no contact since.( I found this out by his email account which confirms his side of the story).The crazy thing is I NEVER saw this coming.We have always been so close and my hsband so caring with my heart. He is regretful and said that is why he stopped it before it got sexual. And he knows what he did was so wrong. He is doing everything he can to make this better We are seeing a marriage cousiler also. What do u think

2007-12-03 04:30:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, well..
I've been with this guy for over a year. and everything seems to be fine. well I noticed in my boyfriends phone that he has girls numbers in his contact list. I asked him about it and he said it's a girl from work. and i didnt ask anything beyond that.
is this something i should be potentially concerned about? or am I just looking too close into this situation?

2007-12-03 04:29:59 · 37 answers · asked by Gabriella 1

My ex got married 8 months ago to another guy. We have a VERY complicated history, we were together 4 years, but each time we were to get married or plan it, or whatever, I got scared and told her to wait. She broke up with me last Dec. 2006 and told me she was tired of waiting, that she wanted to have a baby IMMEDIATELY, and be married. She reconnected with some guy and got married 4 months later. She told me she couldnt trust my false promises anymore. I have and am still devastated, cursing myself, depressed for not marrying her before, I LOVE HERthe complicated thing is that she lives in Spain,I live in the U.S. (she is Spanish). She has told me many times over the past months that she probably made a mistake and loves me so much,but cant risk getting a divorce for me, as she cant trust me as I am so far away.She said I could move there for a period to show her how I feel, but still there would be NO guarantees that this would work or that she would get divorced. What can I do?

2007-12-03 04:19:45 · 13 answers · asked by mano 1

I asked this question a month ago, but I was just wondering about a few more opinions out there on this topic. If you already saw this question last month, please just disregard it.

Just curious, are there any women today who would enjoy being taken care of by their man?

Assuming they don't have any kids ..And assuming that he's not a control freak or anything like that. ... Are there any women who like it when their live-in-boyfriend/husband takes good care of them financially so that she doesn't have to work? That way she can wake up each day and do things she likes to do with her day, and she's happy to see him when he comes home to her each day. Of course she can go out each day and do whatever she wants.

( Assuming of course that they are in love ), are there any women out there like that today, where she doesn't work because she is generously taken care of by her man?

Thanks in advance for your answers.

2007-12-03 04:18:31 · 25 answers · asked by johnsmith2025 ( Cavs Fan ) 7

I bought her a GPS divice for Christmas. Is this what she meant? I am trying to give her more lattitude in the relationship, but by degrees. I trust her moral compass. We just need to map out a plan.

2007-12-03 04:15:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 04:13:06 · 14 answers · asked by Ann j 1

2007-12-03 04:11:44 · 8 answers · asked by RaseeL 1

I know that money ia always an issue in marriage but now it is getting so much worse. There is a new baby in the family, his nephew and he wants to do everything in the world for this kid since his sister won't get a job because she wont leave the baby w/ a sitter. I dont' feel we should have to pick up the tab just so he can feel like a bigshot. His anger about everything has been escalating. We can't have an adult conversation about ANYthing. It ALWAYS turns into him screaming at me and telling me that I have an atittude and slamming doors. I do love him but in addition to the above issues, I am in very poor health and he shows zero support for me and what I'm going through. I am at a loss. How do you talk to someone that can't seem to have an adult conversation without yelling? I don't want to leave but the stress of never knowing what will set him off next makes the illness much worse. We both work hard and our jobs are stressful but it shouldn't be doing this. please help.

2007-12-03 04:07:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My marriage of seven years is ending. My soon-to-be ex has a girlfriend, who he has at his apartment, and who has become a fixture in my kids' lives there. I pick them up and get to hear all about the woman and her son, and all the fun stuff they do together.

I don't want to hate my soon-to-be ex husband. I'm going to have to deal with him and whatever lifestyle he chooses for the next fourteen years, and more, because we have two kids together, and neither of us want to lose them.

I'm not interested in making him hurt more, and I don't think going out looking for someone else three weeks after he split is that smart.

I know people get over this kind of thing, seeing as a huge percentage of marriages end in divorce, but I just can't see HOW I am going to be able to get over it.

Am I the only one who has this feeling like no one has ever hurt THIS MUCH?

Other than being vindictive, or jumping into a relationship when I still love him, what do I do?

2007-12-03 03:53:19 · 23 answers · asked by CrazyChick 7

Open up to me sexually, i ask her what she likes etc but she will not say anything. She is very shy and get embarrassed about the subject. Just courious ladies do you have sexual fantansies i think most women do my wife says she doesnt but think she is to shy to say. We have been togeather for six years woudl think one day she will open up to me... any help would be appreciated to get her to open up to me.

2007-12-03 03:24:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

what drives her/him crazier?

Is it the ignoring or the arguing or something else?!

2007-12-03 03:14:06 · 20 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6

were gone. i went to the back my bank account was wiped out i was left penliess. i could not track her down or the kids. the next day i got fired form my job as things could not get worse. i was forced to sell the house and move to an apartment. why would she do this to me i am still looking uts been 3 months?

2007-12-03 03:09:44 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife quit her job to go back to her home country (in the far east) for a 4 months this year.
She has lived in UK with me 6 years, we go back to her country regularly because I know she misses the place.
We had her parents over here for six months last year, and I feel I have been supportive. One day may even live in her country.

However when she decided to up and go I was left with all the bills. I am not paid a lot so went overdrawn to pay the bills
while she was away.

She got a verbal job offer, which has now been withdrawn, so while I was hoping she would get back to work
and help me keep the roof over our heads, this is now not happening. She is annoyed at the job being pulled
but even more annoyed at me because I am not being supportive enough.

She gave me no choice but to support her when she went back to her home country and quit her job,
saying at the time 'you can't stop me, you can't tell me what I can an can't do.'

2007-12-03 03:02:05 · 26 answers · asked by jonoxk 3

2007-12-03 02:47:41 · 22 answers · asked by lconquers 1

We were together for almost 5 years, married for almost 3, separated for only 3 days, and I've found out that he's asked someone out on a date today.

I feel so cheap, so used, as though I meant nothing.

Am I being stupid for thinking/feeling like this? Can anyone help me?

2007-12-03 02:39:23 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it because no one person is meant to be together for the rest of their lives...or because people get bored?....Or temptation?....

2007-12-03 02:36:29 · 13 answers · asked by unbroken29 2

I love a girl,she is very kind and lovely.I would like to know about her.I had many funny talks with her.She sometimes smiles with me.i really don't know what to do now? What am I going to do to make her know my love??? I am very shy.please give and show me How to declare my love to her???

2007-12-03 02:32:29 · 4 answers · asked by phuocthanh_you_have_my_word 1

is it right to make a child visit their biological parent even when they dont want to. if they dont want to be a part of the non custodial family. the child is 9 and definately has been influenced. but when visits happen she sometimes is fine and has fun and others acts miserable and calls home like 4 times a day always upset afterword. the biological parent has been pushed out by the other parent, has made some mistakes and should of went to court before this summer but before was trying to work with the other parent and keep things simple and out of court. is it too late expecially with the other parent who has the kid more to make a difference will they adjust what should be done. and should we force the visits. and push the family thing. what is right. thankyou

2007-12-03 02:30:27 · 22 answers · asked by Amie 2

You own a house
Single
Good Job
Three cars.
What Do you do then?

2007-12-03 02:29:39 · 19 answers · asked by Bugz 3

2007-12-03 02:26:01 · 33 answers · asked by blue eye 3

2007-12-03 02:14:52 · 11 answers · asked by mim 3

2007-12-03 02:13:18 · 12 answers · asked by sos 1

Please provide statistical sources.

2007-12-03 02:10:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 02:09:50 · 9 answers · asked by gogoo 1

I have been married for over 20 yrs, and I love him deeply but now
I dont know him any more dealing with sexual posting on line porn,and he knows I don't like it I caught him again and when I confronted him about this I found myself ducking a x-mas decoration flying at my head . I have No where to go my kids are grown.And to top it off all of his family is from here.and I have no friends I don't know what to do or where to go please help.

2007-12-03 02:08:26 · 15 answers · asked by Rose 1

Just recently I was placed in a new department. I must "report" to a girl who has been with the company for just a few months. Although there isn't a considerable difference in level between us- she is the coordinator and she does train me.

Recently she has been giving me a really hard time. She has been so Meticulous when it come to doing my job. She will check on me every 20 minutes, She will send me an email every 20 mins just check on what I am doing. She will always comment on small details being incorrect. Last time she even asked me were I was when I had left the office for 2 mins to go to the toilet!!

Just yesterday- she took all my xmas decorations down and re-did them because she thought they were messsy!

I am going crazy- I feel like an idiot. I do know how to do my job after 2 years. I feel like I can't be trusted. I am going crazy! What do I do?

2007-12-03 02:03:57 · 13 answers · asked by emmi 2