Marriage & Divorce - 3 December 2007

extended family is oblivious;How does one live like this?

2007-12-03 02:00:37 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Suz 1

Me and this guy met at an out of state school (both were in bad relationships back home). Neither one of us was trying to meet anyone~ but ended up finding each other and hit it off in an extraordinary way right off the bat. A couple of months later he called me to tell me he's sorry but he got "caught up" unexpectedly with me and still needs to finish his divorce with his wife (since she was already suspecting something and making his life and the divorce hell). What do you think this meant?

2007-12-03 01:59:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious, when did you and your significant other move in together? Was it after two months, eight months, awww you get the idea.

Also, when did your other propose to you?

2007-12-03 01:52:48 · 9 answers · asked by arielb 1

be honest and not shy

2007-12-03 01:48:43 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 01:46:23 · 7 answers · asked by Pluto 1

2007-12-03 01:30:55 · 16 answers · asked by Osarogie 6

Yet on her own television show, she states repeatedly, that couples that "play house" and do not get legally married are not entitled to the same rights and protections as couples that do legally marry. As a jurist, isn't she condoning prejudice here? I mean what would she say if the government said Jews could not get legally married? Of course I don't watch her anymore, but what do you think of her beliefs as a judge?

2007-12-03 01:28:42 · 16 answers · asked by Mezmarelda 6

Is it right for my boyfriend to be able to go through my phone, email, personal papers? He breaks my things... phones, computer, sewing machine..etc.... He says he was just angry... is it justified then? He thinks I'm up to something, but I AM NOT... All I do is take care of his THREE kids. I do have a couple of guy friends who I talk to on the computer... all of which I was friends with before I even knew him... I don't hang out with ANYONE except my mom. I'm not out running around. I work only two days a week.. the other times I'm here taking care of the house. What do I do.

2007-12-03 01:21:24 · 20 answers · asked by lissa034715 2

Is it right for a man to do the ironing or the mopping?

2007-12-03 01:19:52 · 32 answers · asked by AVGVSTVS 3

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2007-12-03 01:17:07 · 2 answers · asked by m.linzi 2

2007-12-03 01:17:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every Monday (as well as other days, but, more so on Mondays), I see many people state the problems they have with porn in their house being watched by the other spouse (usually on the computer). People should be making love to their spouses, not "getting off" to porn instead! My suggestion to those who have porn addicted spouses (men and women), is to get rid of the computer, no matter what! This includes those who are going into the chat rooms and talking to the opposite sex as well as performing other things on the computer that they should be doing w/ their spouse. Get rid of the computer. Then what will they do? lol! =)

2007-12-03 01:13:57 · 17 answers · asked by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6

So I have a loving a wonderful husband but it just happens that I have a job making more money than him. It took him a while to find a good job and now that he has one he has one more class to finish his BA and then his salary will go up. We also just started a dance school and it needs a lot of attention because we want that to be our main source of income in the future. Well I found out that I am pregnant and I teach dance during the day. It is becoming very difficult for me to do and I really don't have the time or energy to work on the business but we already have clients. I really want to go out on disability but I feel extremely guilty because I make the most money and I feel if I don't work we are really going to struggle I am only three months and I can't imagine later in the pregnancy. I also teach special needs children so they are very changeling. If I stay home I can work on the business and take better care of myself plus working on the business will be securing things for the future but am I being selfish to put the responsibility of the bills on him. Should I just stick it out but it is very hard

2007-12-03 01:01:13 · 16 answers · asked by juv 1

l love my husband ,but l go to bed thinking all night of my ex,l have dreams of us making love and all that,l dont know what is wrong with me,l have not see him since l married my husband,2 YRS now,but we do communicate on phone daily,he told me that he loves me and cannot carry on ever since l left,l tried not to see him all this while cos l know we love ourselves and seeing him we be dangerous,l dont want to cheat on my husband,l will see him this weekend cos l we be going to a friends birthday in the same building where he lives,l am stress because l dont know if l we be able to avoid the temptation thats is before me

2007-12-03 00:56:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents hit me sometimes. Always call me names threaten to hurt me. And I am even having trouble in school (Because the abuse has gotten so bad.) I had department of human services in my life many times but they do not work. I appreciate anyones help. Thanks!

2007-12-03 00:56:21 · 34 answers · asked by Nicole B 1

I just want opinions... please don't be nasty. It won't do any good. I was a stay at home mother for 2 1/2 years. My husband told me that if I got a part time job it would alleviate his stress level. So I did. I work a midnight shift throughout the week. I chose that shift so that my small amount of income wouldn't be taken by a daycare. It's an extremely physical job. So here's my dilema. As a stay at home mom I was able to keep the house tidy and the laundry done. Now that I don't get home until 4 in the morning I'm usually too tired to do anything the next day (which starts at 7am). So I was wondering if I should ask my hubby to pitch in with the housework ? We've been married 7 years and the most he's ever had to do was take out the garbage every now and then when asked. He works a 3 day weekend shift where all he does is stand around and push a button. I'm torn because I feel the house is the wife's duty, but I don't think it's fair that he expects so much from me. HELP ! Thanks !

2007-12-03 00:43:53 · 18 answers · asked by BigPmama 2

I gave up some years ago trying to meet girls in person. It just wasn't working and I live in a small town. After awhile I realized I met everyone that was single that was also of legal age. I really don't even try anymore but sometimes I'll get some girl trying to contact me online. We'll talk for a few days being funny or about something of similar interest. Everything seems to be going well until they ask me for my name. When I give them my name they always stop talking to me. Whats the deal with that?

2007-12-03 00:33:06 · 3 answers · asked by Higurb M 1

I haven't been divorced a year yet and I'm afraid that I would not be able to handle another heartbreak like the one I felt when my wife left me. I love this woman but am not sure if I should be feeling the way I do. Is it ok to fall for someone else so soon after my wife left?

2007-12-03 00:31:35 · 11 answers · asked by FinallySmiling 3

My Grandson is staying with me because of a marrige breakup
he wants to stay with me, but his mum say he has to go back with her , has he the right to say where he lives

2007-12-03 00:23:29 · 28 answers · asked by Candy S 1