Marriage & Divorce - 3 December 2007

why we love to a our partner more before marriage and less after marriage ?

2007-12-03 18:29:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for 10 years. In 2005 I was attacked at work. The guy worked there and he was arrested. After all the test and police and having to tell it over my husband seems different. When I bring it up he changes the subject. He doesn’t hold me on the couch. That was my favorite. He goes to sleep sometimes before I go to bed. Sex has been really scarce at best. I am okay. I have been to counseling. I am fine. We have had marriage counseling with no breakthrough. I have asked him but he doesn’t have an answer. He does call me more at home but the connection isn’t there. Is this common? How can I get him to love me like he used to?

2007-12-03 18:28:13 · 23 answers · asked by kewlkatty00 2

If you and your wife have seperated for a month and there are no divorce papers and your wife has already moved in with new boyfriend. Is that considered cheating ?

2007-12-03 18:21:09 · 20 answers · asked by vmaxrubicon 1

ok...so I just gave birth literally 4 weeks ago I was told by the dr. not to have sex for the next 6 weeks. problem is my husband is starting to feel neglected, even went so far as to say that men who are not married have the best sex and are so much better off than married men! then he went on to say that my ex boyfriend probably never had to deal with me not satisfying him (my exboyfriend).
Is this normal for husbands to feel neglected? Don't get me wrong, four days after delivering I went down on him, actually I've done that about 4 times since delivering.
So what the hell?! Are men that inconsiderate?
He's at a point where he saying he never wants to have sex with me b/c " i'm like most women who have babies; they stop having sex'
What do you suggest I do? It's not like I don't want to have sex, of course I do; I just can't!

2007-12-03 18:17:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

who has been verry accurate in all his predictions

2007-12-03 18:09:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 18:01:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

So you would have to live with her too?

2007-12-03 17:57:28 · 9 answers · asked by Pink Red 3

he had an affair for a yr 9 yrs ago.we have 2 girls 24.25. theyve never been happy with what he did but obviously because its ther dad they for gave him.they go out for meals etc with him and the woman goes along they dont like her and i think shes jealous of them.however the girls used to tell me all the gosip when they went out with them but now they keep things close to ther chest.they let things slip out.i own my own salon and he still comes into it for my daughter to colour and streak his hair when im not there and the shop is shut.now this really anoys me and iv put up with it for 9 yr.she uses my tint and i dont think she should.when iv asked him to supply his own he thinks im petty yet he wont do anything for me and has told me so.i dont want him in my shop and iv discussed this with my daughter but she said im mean cos its her dad. im happly remarried but i feel my ex is taking the mick.any advice?

2007-12-03 17:49:38 · 10 answers · asked by CURL & DYE 1

2007-12-03 17:45:57 · 29 answers · asked by the_young_bride 1

i am a smoker and have been for the past 10 yrs. and i am only 22 my soon to be husband hates it and so does his mother. see i smoke the same cigs his gma used to smoke and she passed away from smoking how can i quit should i quit and his mother has offered to pay for the patch should i accept that?

2007-12-03 17:43:59 · 16 answers · asked by J A 1

The parents wanted us to get married but they are always wanting him all by themselves, blaming me about every single thing, always interfere with our lives, wanting our money (they live an obnoxious life). Worst in-laws ever!!! How to deal with them?

2007-12-03 17:36:22 · 3 answers · asked by TurkeyManiac 1

do a guy have to have feelings or like a gurl to slepp with her, and is it hard to pass easy sex and is every chick the same or different...

2007-12-03 17:18:29 · 6 answers · asked by Sony 4

My now ex. boyfriend is now questioning me about making his ex's?
number show up on his phone. One night I was calling back to back trying to get him to pick up, and when he did answer he said, I don't know what kind of game you trying by making "N" is ex # show up on his caller ID, with a question mark behind it. Well 2 days ago I was talking to him and his ph kept beeping and he would click over, 1st he said it was his cousin then it was, two telemarketers. Finally he said to me I don't know what you're doing but some kind of way you making my ex's number show up and he hung up on me. Well he called back and said that she told him she hadn't called him. And he accused me of doing something to his phone I didn't. He broke up with me. What does this sound like? How can I make a number show up on his caller ID?

2007-12-03 17:08:56 · 5 answers · asked by single mami 2

In a society where divorce statistics are higher than most average high school math test scores, many children live in single parent homes, and people bounce from one sexual relationship to another -- a trend sometimes referred to as "Serial Monogamy," -- how can one justifiably condemn polygamy as immoral? In my opinion, "Serial Monogamy" is nothing more than Polygamy without responsibility, accountability or commitment. What do you think?

*** Let me clarify--Polygamy is Marriage between more than two people, so commitment to these people is inherent in the polygamous marriage.***

***"Serial Monogamy" is the act of moving from one monogamous relationship to another -- whether it be one marriage to another, or one sexual relationship to another.***

2007-12-03 17:02:04 · 12 answers · asked by PaRDeS 2

like makeing love, and hugs and getting dirty from time to time

2007-12-03 17:01:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in Tennessee. My husband didn't fully support the kids when he was living here, and then he moved abroad and stopped supporting us at all. Can I do anything? We are still married, though he's now got a girlfriend who he takes on extravagant holidays. I haven't received a penny from him during the last 2 years. If I divorce, will they ask him for back payments for this time? Is there anything else I can do? I don't want to divorce, I was planning to wait until the children left home, but really I have so little money I don't know what to do. I haven't claimed any welfare etc so far but it is hard to manage.

2007-12-03 16:59:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 16:48:16 · 5 answers · asked by alawadhi8282 1

If a women is 24 yrs old and u are 21 yrs old....and she loves u,but she is divorce and has 2 little kits..would u go out with her (be your girlfriend)???

2007-12-03 16:43:57 · 9 answers · asked by Lik U! 4

Honesty people please.
How much sex do you like to have when your married.
Just seeing if I was normal.
I hope to find someone who wants it as much as I do

2007-12-03 16:37:05 · 15 answers · asked by Kj 4

we are getting divorced

2007-12-03 16:29:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before we married my husband and i agreed we would have a family. now he says no way, not ever. I am almost 30 and want to start having kids. I do love him, but having children is important to me! I can not have an "accident" since we would need help to get pregnant from a medical professional. I have tried to ask him why he changed his mind, but never get a straight answer? Why do you think this is and what should i do?

2007-12-03 16:19:22 · 11 answers · asked by cuteandsassy78 1

but want to get thru this. I know marriage isn't all about sex, but it does help. I have a friendship with a co-worker (platonic), although probably too emotionally invested. He has made it clear he would be a friend with benefits, but he is not pushing. Would I be totally immoral to do this? I would never let my husband know or leave him (unfortunately his prognosis is not good, but he is up and down-cancer), but this is so hard.

2007-12-03 16:17:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

and seem settled. I know for a fact that one of them is and has been very unhappy and feels that their life was wasted by staying in the marriage all of this time. I personally have no relationship to speak of with one of them. To this day I feel that I might be a better person if I had better role models as a child.

So just how important is it to stay together for the children?

2007-12-03 16:10:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are married, and let's say your husband's brother marries a woman, they are your brother and sister-in-law..but they are married to each other. Isn't that weird?

2007-12-03 16:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

During i pregnant, my hubby didn't accompany me. He can't give me what i want and i can't feel his love to me. He always sadden me and i really disappointed. I lost my confident on him. Now i hate him so much and i won't have sex with him anymore. Because the pain i felt during i delivered and many other bitter memory i experienced really make me dare to love him anymore. I afraid to be hurt again. My hubby and i do not live together. My baby and I stay at my mum home. My hubby stay in his rent room. I am still studying. His salary not much and insufficient for me and baby. Luckily my mum always support me and baby even though my mum has quit her job and help me take care of my baby to let me continue focus on my study.

2007-12-03 16:00:23 · 3 answers · asked by yoyo 1

Okay, I know when my brother gets married the woman he marries will become my sister-in-law. And when I marry my fiance his brothers will become my brother-in-laws. So, will my brother-in-laws wives become my sister-in-laws? Or will they just be my brother-in-law's wives and nothing more? Also, are there anythings like cousin-in-law and aunt-in-law? Or what about grandmother-in-law, etc. Trying to cover all my bases here, thanks! :)

2007-12-03 15:51:59 · 9 answers · asked by Daisy 4

My ex-husband has convinced my son to move with hime to avoid paying child support. Should I have to pay child support if my son decides to leave on his own.

2007-12-03 15:40:57 · 17 answers · asked by Ex-Spouse 1

I have 2 kids, one is 3 another is 9 months, we have been married for almost 6 years, and I want to know how much I can expect from their father once we are seperated. I live in portland, Oregon.

2007-12-03 15:40:54 · 6 answers · asked by etrombetta41402 1

You feel your in a relationship just to take care of the kids and provide sevice. You are a safty net, a sure thing to stick around, don't have to worry about you straing of with another guy. How do you know if he loves you for you,and how you look after the kids, how can you tell.............

2007-12-03 15:40:25 · 11 answers · asked by Excelsior34 1

My wife and I are high school sweethearts and have been through it all. Got married , went through a death, had two kids bought a house . I work lots, bad job, busy industry in our town. Didn't listen to her. She cheated on me with my friend and neighbour (same guy) said she found something I was not giving her. Told me the first night it happened and the did it 2 more times before his wife found out. Moved out of that house got a new one, fixed it up , which took time we were busy. Said I worked too much. She then said she needed closure from this and phoned him to confront him because he lied about everything when she told every body the truth . she then tells me that we are done she doen't love me there are no more butterflies for me just him. She says he has changed because he is out of his bad marrige. She says we are breaking up over our own issues of me not listening, name calling , not being there, working too much. I never got over the hurt the first time 2 yrs ago

2007-12-03 15:31:12 · 25 answers · asked by GP 1