The parents wanted us to get married but they are always wanting him all by themselves, blaming me about every single thing, always interfere with our lives, wanting our money (they live an obnoxious life). Worst in-laws ever!!! How to deal with them?
2007-12-03 17:36:22 · 3 answers · asked by TurkeyManiac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move out of state.
2007-12-03 17:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband needs to get a backbone and tell his parents that he will now put up with this behavior from them, and that you are both adults and you will make the decisions in your own lives, if he cant do that then you either have to get out or shut up, if he refuses to back you up your life will be miserable, what he needs to do is set up some boundries for them to follow and he has to mean it, and it would also be a lot better after these boundries are set up for you and your husband to move away to reduce the conflict with having them too close
2007-12-03 17:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dale T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop enabling them.. don't give them money... don't do things for them... expect them to act their ages.. they are adults and need to take care of themselves.
If your husband wants to visit his parents, let him.. i'm sure you have other activities and interests to keep you occupied during those times....
Why let your in-laws control your emotions? Gather your dignity, act like a lady and ignore them... and stop giving
2007-12-03 18:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋