Define: "Caught up" In reference to a forbidden relationship?

Question

Me and this guy met at an out of state school (both were in bad relationships back home). Neither one of us was trying to meet anyone~ but ended up finding each other and hit it off in an extraordinary way right off the bat. A couple of months later he called me to tell me he's sorry but he got "caught up" unexpectedly with me and still needs to finish his divorce with his wife (since she was already suspecting something and making his life and the divorce hell). What do you think this meant?

Answer 1

It means just as it sounds, he got caught up in the heat of the moment. I'd just count your losses and move on. It doesn't mean that he won't come back around one day, but I wouldn't count on it.

Answer 2

The thing is.....

And I know, because I had a relationship with a man that was married but..."seperated".

We women...specially see these types of "relationships" as like you said....extraordinary. Men don't. Believe me they are good at showing that it is the best thing in this WORLD, when it really isn't...

It's just a....short escape (they get), he was caught up) for most of them, specially when they are married, or going through a divorce.

For us it means more. You can't expect more or nothing at all, from a man that's married and going through a Divorce. There is too much confusion, there minds are not straight. There for they can't make at the time, smart choices concerned with relationships.

You deserve more than....THAT.....just try and move on as much as possible, and keep yourself busy. There's more to come for you, and there's plenty of men out there that are worth the effort, and energy you are putting into this. You will have a meaningful relationship..

This was just not....it.

Good Luck,
Lucy

Answer 3

sounds like he dosen't want his wife to leave him, and you are plan B.

Answer 4

He's into you.