help please?

Question

hi there
thanks for reading this message
i am a mum of 3 young kids and i have been running a group for people surving abuse self harm and depression for the past 2 years
i am have been diagnosed as having severe anxiety disorder and cant be there as much as i want to be
if you could please give some time to help people please join at http://groups.msn.com/whispers05 i could really do with some help there while i get my life back on track and sort out my problems without worrying that my group needs me too
thank you so much for reading this post
take care and stay safe

Answer 1

I am a mom with 3 daughters myself and I found help with other help groups regarding abuse and my depression. Stick with the program, you are on the right track. Believe me when I say that your kids and you will be fine.

You always hear the phrase: time heals all wounds. But when you are the one who is wounded, it seems like time stands still. Believe me when I say: you will get stronger as you learn everything the help groups have to offer.

I went to a co-dependency group (for people in abusive relationships) and I learned alot about myself, what to watch out for, and what not to repeat. You need to find yourself all over again.

I forgot who I was because I was always trying to please my abusive husband. He used to say: maybe if you were this way or that way, nothing I did was ever right but thanks to the co-dependency group I am an improved me again, better and stronger. But please, do not rush, it takes time to heal; learn something new/positive about yourself each day.

I know it is hard raising 3 kids on your own but not impossible for a mother who loves her children. So, take good care of yourself, OK?

Answer 2

I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Good luck.