Marriage & Divorce - 25 November 2007

What would be the best way for me to let my husband know that I know he has been calling his ex without just saying I have been checking his phone records? I do not care for him talking to her or any other women but I just don't like it when he hides these things from me.

2007-11-25 17:33:23 · 7 answers · asked by ems_lover 1

Is the catchemout.com site legal in terms of divorce evidence?
My husband is on it :(

2007-11-25 17:31:14 · 3 answers · asked by Graham T 1

Married few months back, currently away from my husband for my job. My ex of 1 year or so calls me often. And we two feel so comfortable talking to each other. He is sorry for cheating and being rude to me. He is depressed. He never ask me to come back, just he wants me to be around him. Will this be cheating? I have not been able to say No to his calls. Somehow we two get talking and get peace out of it.

2007-11-25 17:24:17 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I asked a question yeesterday about my husband and step daughter.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Well,today I started to bring the subject up to him. He asked me what was wrong and I told him. "I need alittle help, I know you work, but I could even use a few hours a week to myself." I told him that its very hard to raise a colicky baby with severe Acid Reflux all by myself plus take care of your daughter who refuses to listen to me. And that I cant chase her around all day while the baby is screaming, vomiting and crying.When he does get home the first thing he does is crack open a beer. Which is fine but, then Im left to care for his daughter all weekend long.Im not her Mother, so it makes it hard for me to disapline her.She just wont listen and does nothing but disrespect me, and my family.I have my son to care for, if she refuses to listen to me, CONTINUED BELOW>

2007-11-25 17:17:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married, 15 years, last had sex the day my nine month old was conceived. Wife has a bit of a medical problem due to childbirth, so I can understand the last nine months although the first nine I can't. She tells me she's getting better, will be better soon, etc, but won't go to a doctor. Last excuse was that she would wait until after the first of the year and then get an appointment. At my wit's end, closest we've come to sex in 18 months is a kiss on the cheek. Just plain tired of it. Any suggestions, and yes I have tried romance, getaways, flowers, etc. She has no desire whatsoever and doesn't seem to care that I do, therefore no desire to do a little something for me occasionally even if we can't make love.

2007-11-25 17:17:22 · 12 answers · asked by doug k 1

My husband & I have a total of 5 kids. We both have 2 from previous marriages & a 1month old child together. We took the kids out of town to see my husband's mom this past week. My husband's kids, now 10 & 6 had not seen her since birth and my children had never met her. My husband & I have been together for 3 years & married for a year & a half. The first night we arrive she gives my husband an envelope with an order form in it. She tells him to take a picture of his kids and the baby (his biological kids) and send in the order form. Apparently a she's having a blanket made of her grandkids...but my children will nt be included. She had tons of gifts...a landslide of designer clothes for my huband's kids and the baby, but gave 2 pair of underwear for my 8 year old & apack of t shirts and underwear for my 5 year old.She also gave my huband's kids $30 each and gave my kids $10,which of course led to his kids bragging to my kids about getting more. We treat them the same why won't she?

2007-11-25 17:14:28 · 13 answers · asked by Fire Side Water Side 1

My former daughter-in-law is a crack addict. She was clean for 8 months and has relapsed twice in the last month. She and my son have 2 children together. Her most recent relapse has devastated us. My son did not run to her rescue for the first time since this has all begun after this most recent relapse. He is suffering so - he still loves her dearly but doesn't know what to do - none of us do. My husband thinks we should just tell her she's made her choice - the drugs over her family. I fear her children are being irrepairably (spelling??) damaged by all this. My son has a wonderful job and is always - always deep in debt! what should we do?

2007-11-25 17:05:43 · 10 answers · asked by babygirl 1

I have been married for eight years and just recently found out about my husbands second affair (that i know of) should i forgive him? because my husband is a good man he takes care of home and besides two affairs out of eight years of marriage isn't all that bad right because let's face it no man is completely faithful, are they?

2007-11-25 17:01:34 · 32 answers · asked by heyitisme 1

My husband and I have a good sex life, but my idea of foreplay and his are very different. I've tried to talk to him about this, but he really thinks as long as I have an "O", it's ok. I want more kissing and touching other areas, if you know what I mean. He seems to just go for it and I usually do have a "O", but if he would take a little more time, then it would be more intense and be multiple. I guess, I would like to be teased, touched, and made love to, instead of just "sex".

I know there are alot of wives/husbands that are not getting any, so am I being petty?

2007-11-25 16:50:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-25 16:46:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok! my husband is always busy working on the computer mostly works from home. goes to office for few hours. in the past year we have had sex 4 times and imean since last december up till now ! what does that mean ..everything is fine we have a 1 year old whom we adore and play with all the time. my husband does ignore me sometimes when i ask him something in general (something on news, something happend during the day) he will ignore or change topic or jsut wants to end the conversation asap. when i try to go close to him he always pushed me away. married for almost 4 yers i cant remember a time when he approached me and that hurts so much. i feel like i am not wanted.i lost all the baby weight look great ..very friendly always trying to stay positive but its so hard he doesnt understand how much i love him i guess. any suggestions .he is not cheating i know that coz he works from home ...sometimes i get the feeling he has someone else in his mind that he thinks about but i couldbewrng

2007-11-25 16:43:42 · 11 answers · asked by angel 1

2007-11-25 16:43:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of two years is not interested in being intimate with me due to my weight (thats his reasoning). This and the fact the everyday he is on some sort of website looking at pictures and videos of women and trying to communicate with them via email has hurt me very much. This hurts me so bad that my self-esteem is null. I have tried to explain to him that him doing this does not help the situation, that it makes me feel like I'm nothing special to him and that it's making me so resentful towards him. He told me that the only problem he see is that I am over weight and that if I would lose the weight we wouldn't have a problem. He wants me to lose weight but he won't give up the online women. I can't focus on me because I feel like I am wondering or worrying about who he is chatting with or looking at and if he might take it further and totally ruin are marriage. Has anyone else had this problem? Help!

2007-11-25 16:41:53 · 28 answers · asked by Lori 2

every thing i do im wrong when i tyr and do what she wants im wrong when i do it differnt im wrong i love her with all my heart and soul and she is close to stoping it all ive been a real *** hole in past and done thing that im not proud of and mess up a lot

2007-11-25 16:35:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-25 16:27:56 · 19 answers · asked by Pariah 5

whats the secret? how did you do it? I am a newly wed and it scares me to death that so many marriages fail. Mine can't be one of them. I love him too much.

2007-11-25 16:27:04 · 15 answers · asked by blah 3

wife wants divorce i dont , we also have two boys age 9 and 7 my 9 years old son givers her a hard time every time i bring him back home and she blames me. she tells me i never keep my promises, but i told her this time i mean it i swear first she says she was unhappy for 10 yrs then 6months then now 14yrs been married 10yrs. known each other fo 14yrs. is she doing this for payback and does not really want the divorce, is she confused. how can i prove to her i will alwas and forever make her happy in are marriage and will never brake that promise again

2007-11-25 16:21:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

He lately admitted that he's a married man. But he said, he is still single in status. His mother is still the sole beneficiary. He added that during the re-enlistment he will change the name of his beneficiary to my name and will acknowledge me to be his legal wife. Is this possible to military law? How about his first wife? Does she have the right to demand from him? They've been seperated for 3 years and agreed not to chase each other anymore. Thank you in advance for all your answers guys!

2007-11-25 16:21:10 · 15 answers · asked by Cheryl 1

wife wants divorce i dont , we also have two boys age 9 and 7 my 9 years old son givers her a hard time every time i bring him back home and she blames me. she tells me i never keep my promises, but i told her this time i mean it i swear first she says she was unhappy for 10 yrs the 6months then now 14yrs been married 10yrs known each other fo 14yrs. is she doing this for payback and does not really want the divorce, is she confused. how can i prove to her i will alwas and forever make her happy in are marriage and will never brake that promise again

2007-11-25 16:19:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in a serious relationship with a single mother for almost 2 years, we just broke up about 1 month ago - we had lived together and me and her son were inseperable - he thought I was his real father, he even called me daddy and thought the world of me, as I did of him, others referred to me as super dad. He just turned 3 years old. I was wondering if he will remember me down the road or will he forget me? he still asks about me everyday and it has been just over a month. The break-up was not my decision and I would never walk out on this child - but I have no choice. Will he forget me or will he remember me?

2007-11-25 16:17:45 · 15 answers · asked by J M 2

i have done wrong to him he is angry and do not wanna continue but dont wanna loose him what should i do

2007-11-25 16:16:41 · 4 answers · asked by Sonal S 1

My husband and I have been married for 4 years. We have very little intimacy in our marriage. He seems to be bothered by me showing affection to him in most ways. Sometimes, when I try to hug, kiss, or snuggle with him he will pull away from me. He also has a low sex drive and turns me down often. I feel like he just doesn't love me the way that I need to be loved. It hurts my feelings so much. I have tried over and over and over to explain how I feel and express that we need to work on our marriage. I honestly think that he is incapable of connecting with me on such a level. I think that I looked past all of this while we were dating. I think I thought that the intimacy would come with time. If we did not have children I know that we would divorce. I have overwhelming guilt when I think about divorce because he is a good man. I am also in the middle of college with two years left. I want to make the best decision regarding taking care of my two boys also. They come first.

2007-11-25 16:11:59 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sex life has gone down the drain. when my wife and i first got married it was good but now she wont even let me TRY to get her in the mood. i dont know if it is me or what. she says she just isnt horny anymore. she is f******g 20 years old. whats going on?

2007-11-25 16:03:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is going thru a huge change at work and now his ex-wife is taking him back to court and constantly calling with some dilemna which usually leads to arguing. After this happens, he usually calls me and asks me to come over. it usually ends up with sex but he's very quiet and really reserved. I'm trying not to take it personal and give him space and support but I guess I'm asking if men get quiet and moody when they have something weighing heavily on their minds. What do I do?

2007-11-25 16:01:35 · 15 answers · asked by Charleight 1

Him and his ex were never married, but they have a son together (who just turned 2). Every night she calls him, and he always (always!!) picks up the phone, saying "It could be about my child." She and their son live in a different state.

I asked him how come he didn't just marry her. He said she wasn't the right one. But he is always reminiscing about good times he had with her, it's so annoying. I tried to break up w/him the other day, but he convinced me that he doesnt love her, he is just concerned about their child. Riiiiight. I don't know what to do... [he's 30, she's 28, i'm 22]

2007-11-25 16:00:16 · 17 answers · asked by smile 2

we are married for 8yrs, every time we have a situation, we basically paper rock scissors it, or do what we want. But this is different, nit a night out, but a living thing. We have 3 children, 7,4,9mos. we own our home. I think the time is right. for 8yrs i've heard it's not the right time. Now i've seen a puppy at anti=cruelty that i really want, and she's against it. "we need to figure things out first" " How do we decide this, you want a dog, i dont. Who wins??? " How am i suppose to live my life when she always feels she's right, never wrong. and if she says no, it's no. AAANNNYYY HHHEEELLLPPP / advice is appreciated.

2007-11-25 15:55:28 · 15 answers · asked by sgbuyers 1

I am used to having a lot of sex...and i don't know why, but now I'm just not in the mood. My partner is incredible...but I just don't have a drive. please help!

2007-11-25 15:55:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

As there can be extra marritial affair if a women is left unsatisfied and I cant understand how they indicate their sexual satisfaction...

2007-11-25 15:40:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 20, in the Marine Corps, and married with 2 children. I dont know what my problem is. I just cant control my anger and have scared my wife and children with it. Even though I havent hurt anyone physically, i think i have mentally. My wife is threatening to leave me and I dont know what to do. Please, help me with my problem.

2007-11-25 15:28:47 · 41 answers · asked by sugars peanut 1

What is good about being married?
And what is bad?
Do u regret getting married and if you do why?
I will be getting married soon and i would like to know...
I am 21 years old she is 19 are we too young....Should we wait...

2007-11-25 15:28:26 · 24 answers · asked by SMILEY 2