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my sex life has gone down the drain. when my wife and i first got married it was good but now she wont even let me TRY to get her in the mood. i dont know if it is me or what. she says she just isnt horny anymore. she is f******g 20 years old. whats going on?

2007-11-25 16:03:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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be romantic with her. give her roses, massages, rub her feet, tell her what she means to you. take bubble baths together and wash each other. get some champagne after taking her to a wonderful dinner.

2007-11-25 16:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Ifeel sori for you but take heart what I know it is for a while, From your quesition above I think you did not clearly state the rate you would like to have it, ie like on a daily basis or three times a week ? Let me tell you, you can have sex daily but someone who has made love once a week is better because it will be like the first time you had it. Do you understand the diminshing marginal Utility in economics, What I suggest for you is change the place and if possible take her to romantic places and if that cant work then make you bedroom and bathroom romantic place as in when she is not around just light candles and put her best wine if does take it, try to do it anywhere not necessarily your bedroom. Again surprises her with gifts please dont wait for her birthday or anniversaries, if all that fail then contact a mariage counsellor.Good luck

2007-11-26 00:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by tunda 1 · 0 0

OK how have you been treating her? Been married for 24 yr and the only time my husband treats me with kindness is when he wants sex? Now that really gets me in the mood!!!!How about treating her like you did when you were dating her? Be nice to her, help her out with things, hold the door for her, compliment her often. And don't make her ask. Boy what I would change if I were 20. Good luck and may you have many more happy years of marriage.

2007-11-26 00:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by witchywoman 4 · 1 0

Talk to her, let her know that you are getting into your sexual peak, and you feel like she doesn't want you to be satisfied. Marriage is a joint thing, you both work together for the better of each other...That includes sexuality. My wife is going through the same thing, however hers is because we recently (seven months ago) had a baby. She has post partum depression, and is just starting to get out of it. Talk to her, if there is nothing obvious wrong, try to figure out what the unobvious thing is.

2007-11-26 00:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by zanilth1984 4 · 0 0

what else has changed in your relationship or jobs or etc? you won't know what is truly going on until you ask her. she may be upset about work or still mad about you leaving the seat up. who knows. try to be understanding and let her know that you love her. there are two people in this relationship and two sides to the story. see if you can find out why she is physically distant and see if there is a way to rectify the situation.

2007-11-26 00:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by alicia 2 · 0 0

In the beginning its always fun and exciting and great.Then when the dust settles, She may be thinking she doesn't like the way you kiss or touch her. You are going to have to talk to her to get her to tell you whats up.

2007-11-26 00:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by purplewaterhorse 3 · 0 0

hmmmm only 20 and not horny well yeah I'd be suspicious too if I were you but however... ask her if it is you that she's not attracted to anymore, or maybe also something may have happened to her try to get to the bottom of it beofre it ruins your marriage.

2007-11-26 00:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0 1

I think there needs to be a conversation about this...Ask her why her sexual appetite has changed so dramatically.

If she's caring enough, then she'll try to work with you on this, instead of constantly rejecting you.

2007-11-26 00:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 1 0

The marriage relationship is in urgent need of counseling! Immediately! The m/relshp has derailed........ don't deny it. Or you may be seeing a Divorce attourney soon.

2007-11-26 00:09:22 · answer #9 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0 1

women dont hit their peek until 30. Maybe she is stressed out and just needs to relax. Ask her.

2007-11-26 00:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by natasha 4 · 1 0

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