Marriage & Divorce - 25 November 2007

My mom is 40 she is getting married with a 20 year old guy.This is not all.This guy is my high school friend.I found out they were dating for last one year and now want to get married.

What should i do.I don't want to call him dad.It will be so not cool!

Help

2007-11-25 03:08:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My marraige life is not sucess. My husband name is Rajesh Rai his date of birth is 15.08.1976.

2007-11-25 03:03:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I separated from my husband and met someone a few months later. We've been together for 8 months. He caught his wife cheating on him. To add, she gambled and was in serious debt. this happened 5yrs before we met.He stuck around for his kids who were 2 & 6 at the time of the affair. He was afraid of losing his kids, and his money, to her. Law is always on the side of the mother. He's still living in the family home and has filed separation papers, which she is still to sign. He says if he stays away from home, for even 1 night, it's considered 'desertion' and he may lose his kids over this - is this true? Says he loves me & wants a life with me....but we're still no better off, than when we first met. I've given him an ultimatum and have decided not to see him until he resolves this separation. Is there a chance he's really working on it & and is he right about deserting his children, when he stays with me for 1 night????I do love him...but I'm sticking around to get hurt.

2007-11-25 02:59:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does the law consider them your stepfather?

2007-11-25 02:56:30 · 10 answers · asked by Thursday 1

My soon to be ex-husband had his weekend with the kids this weekend. I told him that I needed to have the kids back by 3pm today. He has told me that he will not give them back to me and that they are going to live over there with him, his gf and her husband. The 3 adults all sleep in the same bed and my 7yo knows all about it. I am worried about my kids being over there in that type of situation. We all live on an Army Base in the US. Nothing is written on paper to the visitation agreements. Is there anything I can do if he doesn't bring them home at 3pm? PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-11-25 02:55:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

All adults ages 23 through 28
wife is 28 husband 23 others femaes in between
He beleives in marrying four or more women but dont beleive in commiting a crime so he has one wife and four consented girlfriends
Wife beleives in making her husband happy and she beleives he should have more than one wife
Also dont want her husband in jail for bigamy
She voluntarily asked two of her girlfriends to be with her in marriage not legally
They get along fine
All agreed that only the actal wife will have babies
All other women had tttubessss tied
All children by wife will call them aunts
Husban enjoys all at once or seperately Wife loves thisIs this adultry anyway
I said they shoud find out the meaning of adultry
He said he would after everybody gets old and wrinkled
Wife said she didnt care.What do you think adultry or not

2007-11-25 02:15:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-25 02:14:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

a parent her mom is, and my parents have not gotten divorsed twice like her mom has, i dont know if it is worth it, all she does is yell and say i dont do this right and i do nthing i dont even know if she loves me or if she is just staying here to make it look good.

2007-11-25 02:03:01 · 13 answers · asked by jusmic80 2

Men, should I go for alimony???
*My husband wanted me to close my business to help him run his, he never paid me.
*In our 7yr relationship there have been other women - no I never returned the favor. One of them recent (22 yrs old)
*He controlled the money.
* He lied to me about how much $$ we had.
* He gambled away plenty & lied about that too.
* He didn't pay the bills so everything is gone
* He wouldn't watch his stepkids (good ones that call him Dad) in the evenings so that I could work
* He left us in a very rural area w/ no phone, car, $$, or food
* He didn't pay the mortgage on the house that my Mom gave us and the bank repo'd it 2 weeks ago.
* He won't even admit to all that he has done, tries to justify it instead
* He was only loving when he wanted something
* He never "made love" to me, only talk dirty kind of sex
Now I want a divorce, do I or do I not deserve alimony or something. His business is about belly up to and he is being sued by several clients.

2007-11-25 01:31:44 · 12 answers · asked by tonyer71 2

If you have full, love, trust and financial security in a relationship, why do you need to get married, if you have no particular strong belief in a religion?

I mean if we were to get married in a church it would be very hypocritical as neither of us have a religion.

And the register office thing just seems so 'business like'. Just kind of informing statistics that you are together

Taking a way the romantic side, is there really any reason to spend a lot of money on a piece of paper???

Is marriage just for insecure people who need reassurance that a divorce would be a big messy affair, and therefore their spouse is less likely to walk in times of trouble??

If my man walks, he can walk, hes a free man, I think not getting married and staying together through hard times is reconfirming your love, as you want to work at it, rather than being obliged by god or solicitors fees. Your thoughts please....

2007-11-25 01:10:06 · 16 answers · asked by gill 4

yet you will never her of a man changing his name? Well I do take that back I read about three months ago something like that took place what a stink it raised.

2007-11-25 01:08:39 · 19 answers · asked by Yogi 7

2007-11-25 00:56:00 · 20 answers · asked by Fancy You 6

Following a 9-year marriage that was very fulfilling sexually, as well as most other ways, our finished basement was flooded. It took me almost a year to put everything right. Huge job. I mostly worked alone. During this time, my wife and I argued a lot about me not being able to finish the basement sooner. This was due to my job responsibilities and kid's activities. During this year, she became more and more angry, saying things like I'm not a man, etc. It has been nearly two years since I completed the restoration of the basement. However, our sex life has not improved. We have brief sex maybe once every two months or so. She knows ow much this bothers me, but I do not push her at all. I keep thinking things will get better if I'm patient. However, I feel hurt and betrayed. I feel like my wife has broken her vows. I grow increasingly frustrated and down right angry. I work hard not to express those feelings. I know doing so will only cause an argument. Any suggestions? Divorce?

2007-11-25 00:50:13 · 14 answers · asked by Twister 2

Now we've been apart for 6 months and 1 month after our split he has a new relationship and is happy. I just don't get it. Was he looking for someone better the whole time. He kept making excuse after excuse why he would't commit. It was always something I had to change and then he would. The problem is we are going to be working together in the future and this is so hurtful. How do I deal with this. I don;t want to leave my job as the pay is higher than I can get elsewhere by quite a bit. I will never be able to look him the face. I feel so used and betrayed. He used to send the most beautiful cards and tell me I was the love of his life.

2007-11-25 00:48:45 · 8 answers · asked by lambie 2

2007-11-25 00:40:42 · 18 answers · asked by kimberly k 5

One lives in Sc the other in florida.We have only known each other about 2 months but have met in person twice and talk hours each day.His career is 28 years and has been established there he would not be able to move here.My son will not graduate highschool for 3 and half years and has very strong ties here family ,dad,friends.I will not move until he graduates from highschool.My son has never met him but we both know we want to get married and I would move there.Any advice or is it just wait it out ?We both know we were meant to be.

2007-11-25 00:20:37 · 12 answers · asked by eagle 1