Marriage & Divorce - 15 October 2007

My fren boyfriend want 2 marry her but the
problem is he doesn't want 2 introduce her
2 his family. He kept saying my fren marry 2 him
n not 2 his family. What kind of man is this?

2007-10-15 18:10:14 · 14 answers · asked by da da 1

because our computer doesnt work and my wifes does at work she posted this pic on her myspace account she told me she forgot the password to am i wrong for being upset?theres none of me because i dont have an account do you guys think she is up to no good i feel hurt by this?

2007-10-15 18:06:02 · 13 answers · asked by jd 3

I have tried to explain to her that many people use it as a marital aid and that there is nothing wrong with it. She refuses to watch it with me and I do not wish to hide it from her.She tries to make me feel guilty about watching it and I tell her that I think it is something we can both enjoy together.Am i wrong?

2007-10-15 17:56:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please review some of my questions and answers and come back to this question and tell me, am I interesting enough to date? Please, I'd prefer answers from women, but men have insight too, but I'm not into gay stuff.

2007-10-15 17:52:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met someone who worked at the same company as me, but at a different location. A few months later, we started seeing each other even though he is married. I knew it was wrong, but at the time, I didn't care. (just being honest) At this point, I have moved away, but I am in love with him. We still talk and we still want to be with each other. He says that he plans to divorce her, but I don't know if he is just using me or not. What should I do?

2007-10-15 17:51:08 · 17 answers · asked by S.A.B. 1

If your spouse cheated on you before and you gave them a second chance but you still catch them looking at people of the opposite sex or asking a co-worker of the opposite sex out (although they said it was harmless) and you feel insecure all the time, would you call it quits?? (serious answers only)....

2007-10-15 17:49:39 · 12 answers · asked by Sony 4

Iam feeling so sad and writing to you for some input on my problems…We are married for 7 years…My Husband my nature is serious and talks less(Really nice person, very brainy and stable in his job)Never hurts me in any way intentionally, but here are couple of things that hurts me:

1.I believe him and give him all the money I earn, but he never tells me where he is investing (If I ask he will tell me briefly) 2.Never surprises me with any gifts, even for first b’day and marriage day (If i ask or cry he will buy what ever I want) 3.He talks very less like his father and will only talk to answer my questions. 4.When we go to my in-laws home, he keeps talking will his parents and I feel like he is ignoring me. 5.Never touches me at home or talks romantic. 6.He likes to talk always abt some news or earth or universe, even for our first night( When I complain he talks romantic for some time) 7.He never displays his affection in public. 8.He never explains his parents, how hard we both have to work and take care of baby to earn in US. 9.How should a guy balance b/n wife and parents, so that all are happy?? 10.He rarely laughed and smiled during or after marriage…Until I cried after 10 days. 11.When I tell all these to my parents they say I should be happy that he is not drinking or cheating(should I be satisfied with just these?? In this generation??)

1.Iam sick and tired of constantly asking and asking again and again. 2.I feel like I should have married some one who is more mature for his age… 3.I feel like I deserve more. 4.He did change a lot in 7 years. But iam tired of shouting and pestering him to smile, talk, sit properly ect ect

I look beautiful, work and try to keep my home neat .. Please advise him or me on how to improve and be happy..I would like to show your responses to him and make him understand. Thanks in advance.

2007-10-15 17:28:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband sent me a IM ment for another woman. It said " I love you so so very MUCH and thank you so much for coming into my life, I love u" When confronted he finally admitted to talking to her but claimed it was just for pics or her and thats it, the words ment nothing. My trust is gone and he is doing anything in his power to convince me other wise...He is out of country. So help me please is it cheating ? This being the 2nd time he's lied about another woman do I stay or should I continue walking away?

2007-10-15 17:15:31 · 15 answers · asked by Katrina E 1

I am 50, my partner 47. The culmination of this difficulty was when, after having been brought to orgasm by me with hand stimulation, she was crying (no, not from an orgasmic reaction). She had stated on a couple of occassions before that she prefers penetration and mutual climax and even mutual masturbation..... but does not like it when I concentrate only on her. She has done it to me in this way and seems to find this ok sometimes. This is very frustrating to me because; - I do not always get totally hard anymore - I enjoy doing it to my partner this way anyway and for me it is a loving and just plain giving act that I desire to do for my partner.
Does anyone else feel like this? We have discussed this, including directly after the crying incident, and each time the response is that she just believes that full sex is a sharing act that involves an equality in experience. A short seperation period due to work is about to end and I have to talk to her. So, here I am, looking for help

2007-10-15 17:15:19 · 5 answers · asked by JoNee 2

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please my heart is so broken

2007-10-15 17:14:27 · 3 answers · asked by Ria B 3

My girlfriend and I are going to get married one day. And we are wanting to know what will be good and bad for birth control after we wed. Is there a better way. We don't want the hassle of condoms. A Christian perspective would be nice on this question but not required.

2007-10-15 17:11:47 · 6 answers · asked by monsoondell 1

I want you to describe to me your idea of a dissapointing husband.....not mean or abusive ....i don't mean that.....as far as just normal life and everyday things.....what could push you to the point of saying quits? mine says he loves me daily, plays with the kids, goes to work everyday, but he is a lazy a**hole in the purest sense of the word. i am not getting in to all that, i want your opinions, married people especially. thanks

2007-10-15 17:11:10 · 5 answers · asked by nascar_cr8zy 4

2007-10-15 17:10:57 · 9 answers · asked by biscuit_111 1

I am 29 & have a gorgeous, sweet husband. I have a beautiful 2 year old daughter and an amazing house. Why do I have such a negative outlook on life? I worry all the time and I'm so sad and have no patience with anyone. What is wrong with me???

2007-10-15 17:02:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love him but I am soffucated by his behaviour. He even locked me up at night, just to be sure that I wont leave the room while he is sleeping.

2007-10-15 16:57:35 · 16 answers · asked by Mtch* 1

my hubby seams like everything i care about dose not matter to him. in th past 2 years i have gave up so much. can you please tell me what you think? is it just me, or is he being very selfish?
1) i left b/h my family, my friends, most my animals & rescue work that i love to move far far away b/c he wanted to.

2) i gave away my 2 mixed dogs that i save from the streets so he could get 2 bulldogs. ofcourse i'm the one who has to take care of him.

3) i gave up going to an animal refuge on Sundays b/c he was getting mad for having to watch his son 3 days a week(sunday & my class that is 2 days for 2 hrs.

4) i am going to school for business. now he wants to open a fourwheeler shop instead of my dream business.

please tell me your opion on this. i will be 30 next month & i can't help to think the way things are going, my life will never amount to anything. thanks

2007-10-15 16:56:35 · 14 answers · asked by rblankenship_rblankenship 5

Ok, Im 26 my aunt is 49 (my moms sister) and im married w/3 kids,my own home, and new car. Im also a stay at home mom. My aunt is divorced w/2 adult children and just lost her home unfortuntly and living in my grandmas home(her mom), well she comes over and "observes" and then gathers her own opinions about my marriage what is usually bad just because im a homebody and i really dont care to hang out in the streets she says ive changed and i must be unhappy w/ my marraige and it is so not true!!. She tells other family members like my unhappy sister and then they call my house saying stuff like "I guess you cant talk on the phone because your husband dosent want you to." I love my family but misery loves company and they have to stay away. They even makes suggestions about me leaving my husband! because they dont like him. What would u do?

2007-10-15 16:49:25 · 16 answers · asked by domojj24 2

My fiancee and I became engaged February 7th of this year. I felt like I had kinda forced him into it-we had been dating for over two years and were living together. I kept mentioning marriage, and about how I wanted to become engaged. Finally he popped the question. The problem is now, he says he wants to get married, but won't decide on a date. He wants to get married outside at his parents' house (beautiful landscaped yard) but it being Washington, that is almost impossible until late July so that you can gaurantee a rain-free day. He refuses to get married anywhere else other than his parents' place. He also says he wants to have a stable well paying so he can support us. I understand this, but can't he find a job while we're married? I can't wait to become married, and the thought of waiting almost another year kills me! I really want to call him my husband and am not worried about his paycheck. What do you think about it? Is he afraid of commitment...or being reasonable?

2007-10-15 16:22:32 · 12 answers · asked by Happy. Finally. 3

We have been together 2 years and will get married, God has brought us together undoubtedly but I'm just asking for opinions.

2007-10-15 16:09:49 · 31 answers · asked by guitar_girl1988 2

In other words, is it possible to love a person although that person has never loved you back or never will either ?

2007-10-15 16:04:43 · 12 answers · asked by JustANiceGuyHere 4

2007-10-15 15:36:09 · 14 answers · asked by Nia 1

She is a wonderful woman that I want to spend the rest of my life with but her ex was unfaithful and she has children which are her first priority and I am totally understanding of that.

2007-10-15 15:26:51 · 33 answers · asked by mikemja316 2

2007-10-15 15:18:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are some women on here that have avatar names such as, His_Wifey, or JasonsWife, my all time favorite ArmyWIFE or some other crap about being someones wife. Doesn't that just scream co-dependent, needy, overzealous and can't think for yourself??? At least come up with a creative name and not just label yourself as someone's wife. I'm not a feminist by any means but COME ON.

~It really isn't any of my business what you name yourself on yahoo answers, but I would just LOVE to understand the reason you choose to do this. Please explain it.

2007-10-15 15:13:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf is going through a hard time and has went MIA. i have no clue if he's blowing me off, although he has no reason to, i called him yesterday and heard nothing back. before that i hadn't heard from him in 4 days. I text him an hour ago saying "should i send a search party?" and haven't heard anything. he's 35 yrs. old so i'd hope if he is blowing me off he'd just tell me. his "hard time" has nothing to do with me so i can't wrap my mind around why i'm being blown off. he lives 1/2 hr. from me and has no family around him and just his work friends. we both live by ourselves and had talked about what if something happened to one of us in our homes...no one would know for days maybe weeks. it was kind of a joking conversation but now i'm thinking what IFsomething happened to him and i'm thinking he is blowing me off. how do i find out?i know i could drive up there but what do isay if he's there and well? what do you think?i have a tendency to think way too much,maybe i'm making excuses

2007-10-15 15:08:10 · 10 answers · asked by Jax 3

we split up for 2 months because of this and now he is back and even worse. he still isnt working, stays up til 2pm and then goes to bed. he gets up and its time for me to go to bed. he then is on the computer looking at porn and playing poker. He promised hed stop smoking weed but he hasnt. If i say anything i am nagging. he is driving me crazy and i am a fool because i do love him but i am angry. He is 32 and says he needs the pot as medicine yet it keeps him from working b/c he cant pass a drug test to even get a job. when he stops for 1 day he is flying off the walls. I am working my *** off and its pissingme off. any suggestions for this man of mine. am i a nagging witch like he says. I am not happy but i love him and married him and want him. How do i stop letting him bother me ...anyone got any suggestions.

2007-10-15 14:54:20 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in a relationship with someone for 7 months now.we r from different cultures and at first there were some things that bothered me but now we r going pretty strong.
my parents totally dislike the fact that im dating him and so 2 months ago they introduced me to another guy whoz from my culture and religion.on my parents insistence i talked to this guy a few times and my boyfriend knew about it.the problem is that now this guy wants to marry me and my parents r pressurizing me cuz they think having one culture and religion solves alot of problems.plus this guy is an IT engineer with a 6 digit salary while my boyfriend is still doing his Phd (and Phds dont make alot of money).
I dont know what to do.on one hand I see my parents and understand their point that romance might end soon and then cultural diff make create problems.on the other hand my boyfriend has been talkin about marriage too and I do love him.
WHAT WOULD U DO?

2007-10-15 14:46:41 · 12 answers · asked by kera 2

I know divorce cost money. But I would like to know if someone had to let a person go and forget about the money they owe you. My ex has some screws missing in her head. I loaned her money, no papers signed but I can prove it in court. Now I can't stop thinking on her kids, while she in bars on weekedays and weekends, I feel like a hunter about to hunt a deer while is with her little deer next to her. None of them (kids) have heard about me, I was just a boyfriend of mom. But it's giving me a hard work to let the money go because of all I worked for that money (for what I can save per month, is a 1 year saving - not work, just saving of what I put on a side). My concern is if you let this kind of things go or you keep remembering. I know I have a winning case in court, but what did you end up doing?. Any advice?

2007-10-15 14:44:18 · 6 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3

This just goes to show that women are so complex that even the smartest man on the planet cannot figure them out. And you women get mad when the average joe has trouble understanding you.

2007-10-15 14:38:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-15 14:35:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous