Marriage & Divorce - 15 October 2007

Why is it that the other person is a home wrecker.

No one ever blames the cheating spouse. Its the home wrecker that apparently held a gun to their head and forced them to sleep with them and call them or whatever.
Or when a marriage is bad and both parties know it and they stay together for religious reasons but sleep with someone else, then that person is a home wrecker. I really dont get it at all.

And YES! I had a cheating husband. I left him. Pure and simple. It was his fault.

2007-10-15 10:13:19 · 31 answers · asked by ? 5

2007-10-15 10:11:17 · 4 answers · asked by princesslouey 1

And why is it that its always the husband who pay the wive during divorce??

2007-10-15 10:02:44 · 15 answers · asked by V 2

I gave up my apartment to travel and get over the loss of a love of 13 years, I thought it would help...now I have no idea where to start! How to I begin?

2007-10-15 09:59:09 · 8 answers · asked by neveragain 5

I've been friends with a guy who got divorced in April/no kids. I'm curious about his ex-wife/marriage but don't know what the best way is to ask. Any ideas?

2007-10-15 09:56:20 · 9 answers · asked by electra1978 2

We always hear things about kids feeling bad because their parents aren't together, but were you happy when your folks split up? I was, because I was sick of them arguing all the time and fighting over the dumbest BS ever. They are so much more effective as parents now that they aren't together. What about you?

2007-10-15 09:50:43 · 18 answers · asked by DumbBlondeNY 1

Is it wrong to fantasize about my 64 yr old co-worker. She's QUITE attractive for her age

2007-10-15 09:48:00 · 17 answers · asked by Joseph Stephen B 1

2007-10-15 09:46:53 · 3 answers · asked by Lorrie D 1

would you tell your ex if you were going to move to another country?

2007-10-15 09:46:34 · 17 answers · asked by zora 1

And all details were worked out. No strings attached

2007-10-15 09:42:41 · 32 answers · asked by iron1 1

2007-10-15 09:21:52 · 21 answers · asked by thegodfather7375 2

They actually got all the papers and stuff this time. My mom just told me she is going back to my dad. I cant tke this anymore! This has happended three times what makes her think this times going to be any different. I keep getting my life flipped up side down! When they were together my mom acted so depressed and my dad always yelled and told her to leave, they didnt even sleep in the same bed together.Me and my siblings were sad when she told us they were going to get a divorce and she said shes never going back and its over for real this time, i took it hard and sucked it up, i got used to our life now she throws this crap in my face! I cant take this much longer..im really hating my life right now. And all my aunts and uncles knew she was going to go back noone belived that this was real, i guess they were right.

2007-10-15 09:19:24 · 25 answers · asked by Summerrr [[<3]] 2

My boyfriend told me this, and it made me think. But it must be natural, what do you guys think?

2007-10-15 09:18:37 · 14 answers · asked by Nikita 1

When you let go and know that he is in a better place with his family? I mean honestly do you feel better?

2007-10-15 09:18:06 · 5 answers · asked by Francesca 5

We met once before and again yesterday and had a really nice time....ended up going back to my place and fooled around but didnt have sex coz i refused....slept for a while then he left. I feel terrible coz i want him to respect me and now i feel i've ruined all the chances for that..didnt even want to get physical that soon....what should i do? We are both in our 30s so we are mature.

2007-10-15 09:17:04 · 12 answers · asked by Boo 1

I am married to a woman who has never had a good relationship before me. She's attractive, smart(in college to be a nurse practitioner), and has a great personallity. Problem is that no matter what I do, she never feels good about herself. I can tell her she's beautiful and all she says is "whatever you're just being sweet." She's far from overweight, 145lbs and 5ft 5. Yet all I hear about is how fat she is. It's like no matter what I say, I can't get her past the ******* that told her crap just to bring her down. All her other bfs were all physically and emotionally abusive.
Anyway ladies, is there anyway to get her past all of their bs? Or is this something I'll be fighting the rest of my life?

2007-10-15 09:15:47 · 10 answers · asked by Paul 2

I've been with my husband for 7 years now and our sex life is great! but when we first started to have sex, just thought of going home and having sex would get me wet. Now that doesn't happen anymore. I'm still very attracted and turned on by him and as soon and he puts it in i get wet, so i don't have a problem with lubrication. But i always feel guitly when he's talking sexy on the phone and then ask me if i'm wet and i say yes even though im really turned on. So my question is why can't i get wet before we have sex anymore?

2007-10-15 09:05:47 · 19 answers · asked by something_exotic 1

Even when you are so obviously 100% right, and your partner is 100% WRONG!
How do you detach yourself from the disagreement, without kowtowing to them, and save face?
I shouldn't ALWAYS have to be the one to concede, though.

2007-10-15 09:05:14 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

For love or money, for economic security, to have a partner to raise children with...?
Tell me what motivates you/motivated you to get married.

2007-10-15 09:02:02 · 31 answers · asked by mccael01 1

My husband and I are currently in a long distant marriage although he plans on moving to where I am in a few months. He is not a bad guy, in fact there is more things that he does that is nice than bad. He is not perfect and neither am I. Here it the problem. I need advice on how to dea with his being so stubborn. Example, most times when him and I get into some type of disagreement he ends up hanging up on me, then refuses to take my calls. This hurts me as it feels as if I am being discarded and avoided. It has been 7 days now and he has not called me and I refuse to call him as I am getting tired of giving into his stubborness. Serious answeres please as I want advice on how to deal with this problem. I can add that one other time when this has happened I did not give in and call him and he eventually broke down and called me. Is this the right thing to do. I do not want to risk calling him on the chance that he will not answer or even return my call. Please advice.

2007-10-15 08:50:59 · 16 answers · asked by pictureshygirl 7

Should a husband allow his wife to have her intimate needs met outside of marriage if he is unable to do so due to heavy travelling demands on him stretching to several months in remote locations of underdeveloped countries on research projects.

What is your view ?

2007-10-15 08:49:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many husbands// wives cheat on their partners ?

Have you ever done it ? Would you ever do it ?

If you have, how has it changed you as a person.

2007-10-15 08:47:09 · 7 answers · asked by simpleminded 5

Please see my previous question from ~30 min ago if you need to....

I am not insecure with how my husband feels about me. My issue is basically that other women rave about my husband and men don't (as much) about me. Maybe this is no big deal.

If my husband was going to leave me for someone younger prettier etc he would have done it long ago, as he has had plenty of women who fit that bill. I have no worries that he belongs to anyone other than me. Seeing him with another woman don't bother me at all, as him seeing me with another man doesn't bother him.

Anyway - I understand the hostility many of you feel. I used to feel the same way. Oh and by the way I tend to be the driver with this lifestyle - my husband is just enjoying the ride. We've put it on hold before and he's never complained.

Maybe this helps? Or maybe you'll just repeat the same answers back at me. Maybe I just need to not worry about my performance and just go back to having a great time??

2007-10-15 08:46:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

but he emails me and says things like, do you miss me and you will always have a piece of my heart. We are both married. We both have said that we are just friends. So what is up with that. We are both 33 years old. Adults answer only. Please

2007-10-15 08:42:06 · 10 answers · asked by ReneeS 1

what i mean is that you get married before having a child?
what are the importants of doing so first?
what would you do?

n e other concerns and answers greatly appreciated! thanks

2007-10-15 08:38:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

my common law husband and i have discussed buying our own house for a long time. Now the time has come where we both want out of our neighbourhood. He likes the idea but lately he is turning on me telling me what i need to give up and what i need to stop doing in order to afford it. What about him we spend 200 a month on beer and I want cable that costs 60 is this fair. He is trying to control me and I don't know how to let him know that he is hurting and not letting me be my own person. I love him and don't want to leave but there are times when i don't know what else to do.

2007-10-15 08:36:24 · 14 answers · asked by jennbabe 2

who is most likely to cheat first......... is there any research on this

2007-10-15 08:28:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have stayed married for the 2-3 years for the children. Now, I am becoming increasingly irritable and really want to be free and unaccountable to anyone. I can forgive him for the past, emotional/verbal abuse, but not while still living with him. He doesn't want to separate. But i see no other options. What should i do?

2007-10-15 08:28:31 · 23 answers · asked by tired 1

Finally split up this weekend, after 23 years. He hasn't worked for 3 years and now he's not talking to me. I've done everything and continue to do it all. Why is he so mad?

2007-10-15 08:21:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

she threw me in jail on false stuff i have been with my husband for 6 yrs his daughter will be 8 next month .her mother still can't get over it . i am gonna have a nervous breakdown i can't deal with this anymore ...

2007-10-15 08:16:50 · 11 answers · asked by missprisss 1