Marriage & Divorce - 15 October 2007

My bf broke up with me after 4 years b/c he was suddenly unhappy and I took the break up badly. I also asked him back but he told me to not have hope, he wants to be single, and told me to find another man.

I haven't contacted him since and I just want to know if he might one day call back. In a way, I keep blaming myself that i drove him away when i kept pestering him to come back during those weeks after we broke up. I should've stopped contacting him the minute we broke, that way he may actually have time to clear his thoughts, I guess I kept wanting to know the final decision that it just made him seal the deal. I feel like it's all my fault. I am moving on but I just want to know if other people's ex's called back or wanted them back. I know i need to move but my question is has anyone experienced something similar whose ex said the exact same thing but ended up coming back? Thanks

2007-10-15 02:35:26 · 7 answers · asked by S S 1

I have been married for 18 years we don't have any kids.He met this woman a 1 year ago,he said that he didn't have sex with her he thinks that he loves her and they were talking about getting together for rest of their life.I found that on his cell phone .I asked him to end this with her ASAP.He said he need some time to think about it.he told me that he loves me and he wants to stay with me but still talks to her and didn't brake it off..
I don't know what to do I really love him and I want to stay with him...Please HELP !!!

2007-10-15 02:28:20 · 16 answers · asked by Sweet girl 2

I used my husband computer last night and saw that he is a member of an adult sex site that help you to find local discreet sexual encounters. I also saw a few XXX pictures of him on the site and in his computer that was taken at some chicks house, that he took himself in the mirror. He has his mail going to hi mothers house, passwords on everything. Never show me the checking account statements. The last time I saw his credit card statement, it was hotel charges, at least once per month. Then recently I found viagra in his glove compartment, and that is our biggest problem "lack of sex". I know I agreed to give him his privacy, but I think this is too much. I want to leave but we have 3 kids together, and just tired of having them to sacrafice. The crazy part about it all is, we have been through so much b/c of him that, this time I'm not even hurt, just tired and want a change in my life. What should I do?

2007-10-15 02:17:17 · 21 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

2007-10-15 02:13:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my fiance havent been getting along..all we do is fight lately so Saturday I told him to please leave and he spent the night at my wild brothers house and didnt bother to call...yesterday he called first thing and didnt admit to where he had gone his mom told me and also she told me some legal stuff hes involved in and he hasnt mentioned that to me...if i cant trust him should i allow him to come back or just move on...im not an ugly chick sooo i wont have a problem but i do still love him...should i give him another chance or not???

2007-10-15 02:08:02 · 11 answers · asked by gracey 6

Ok, my husband has this "friend" who I've never met. Before my husband and I got married he called this guy and asked him to come over so he could meet me. But this "friend" never returned the phone call. This was a long time ago. Now all of a sudden my husband accidentially forwarded an email to him, and all of a sudden this guy calls thinking nothing ever happened, with no explanation of anything and said they are going to get together to "hash things out"... what is there to hash out besides the fact he disrespected me and my husband and hasn't said a word in all this time? I'm mad as hell because my husband sucked right into it without even asking why he never called or never sent an email or nothing... I feel like my husband is getting used and that this person is not a true friend, but my husband doesn't want to think that. It was specifically said that "the wife" is NOT allowed to be around. Not a good way to make someone want to meet him in my book. What would u do or say now?

2007-10-15 02:01:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I started dating just over a year ago. He was still married at the time but very unhappy and his ex was cheating on him. They have a 16 year old daughter. she's been getting in trouble (using drugs and stealing things). Saturday her mother dropped her off at our apartment and told my bf that she found cocaine in their daughter's bag. And she was grounded for 3 weeks for stealing. He told me, but didn't say anything about it to his daughter. Yesterday morning she left, just took off. We went out looking for her but couldn't find her. My bf called his ex just to let her know. But about 2 hours later his ex called and yelled into the phone "you and Melissa need to come downstairs NOW" so we did. i get downstairs and she starts screaming at me. Saying that her daughter called her crying because I told her that her mom found cocaine in her bag and she was going to be in more trouble. I just walked away from her because that's the 3rd or 4th time she's done that to me.

2007-10-15 01:55:26 · 23 answers · asked by Melissa V 2

What do you think about this? Do you think there are senior citizens who have affairs with other senior citizens? LOL. Forbidden handicap sticker looove baby.

2007-10-15 01:43:32 · 21 answers · asked by im_always_drunk 2

to live a life WHERE EVERYTHING REVOLVES AROUND YOU.

2007-10-15 01:42:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my guy for 10 yrs, we have an active baby who i stay at home with all day.When he gets home i do the dinners then settle little one to bed.He then plays his xbox until 11pm & then we go bed.I feel shattered & just want to read, he is randy & wants sex.He says"Can i boink you?" & "wow your so stacked"(he's 38 not 17) & things like that, can't say it moves me to want to leap on him lol.Then when he realises im not in the mood he wants me to just sort him out & it is a bit cringy.Im not prudish, i enjoy sex, especially outdoors which he's not keen on, i just like passion & he lacks that completely.I know it takes 2 & im probably as much to blame but i want my body to be ravaged in pure , hot ,steamy passion fuelled sex.Not a "boinking" session.
Am looking forward to your replies lol

2007-10-15 01:39:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My stepdad ended up getting drunk and doing some stupid things. Do you now see why I was trying to get him out of my life. He even stole my mom's car, fortunatley we got it back. Next time you answer a question take the time to think about what a person's situation might be before you open your mouth to be cocky.

2007-10-15 01:23:27 · 16 answers · asked by AAA 2

Across the net on a MMMORPG i have a friend who lives in bhutan. She is married to 2 husbands and they both live in the house as her. She has 1 child to one of them(can't remmber which) and when i chatted to the child(he is learning english in school) he seems okay with it and he calls both his "fathers" dad.In bhutan polygamy/yandery is very rare but socially accepted and legal.I havent talked to the husbands but i have seen pictures of them(the game gives everyone a webpage with account)

I dont mind polyandery/gomy but what are your opinions? and why?

2007-10-15 01:07:19 · 18 answers · asked by possessed by insanity 3

mean in a relationship if you choose to wait for marriage to have sex what can you do to stick to that choice, Does it mean that you are not going to kiss and touch? Does it mean no more cuddling? what can be done exactly just to wait, because sometimes it is so hard that you feel like doing it , but then you have made a choice,
Please dont just read, Answer,

What can be done to stick to the choice of not having sex before marriage?
When you are together what can you do with him/her that wont make you think about it?

2007-10-15 00:23:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

We hear from people who are in the fantasy of a possible affair-- In short stories, did you marry yours? was it worth it? what was end result?

2007-10-15 00:01:07 · 8 answers · asked by skyward 4