but he emails me and says things like, do you miss me and you will always have a piece of my heart. We are both married. We both have said that we are just friends. So what is up with that. We are both 33 years old. Adults answer only. Please
2007-10-15 08:42:06 · 10 answers · asked by ReneeS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He might see you as his soulmate. You may never be together but will always be in each others heart. Its hard to explain. You both have moved on but there is a piece that hasn't and may never. Do you still have feelings, even if you wouldn't act on them? I know how it feels, I have a similar situation. We are both married for several years, but still know we have those feelings.
Its a difficult situation and very strange and confusing feelings. Just let him know your true feelings and intentions.. Be honest with him...
To help lighten the situation my sister always says we will be sitting in the nursing home as great grandpas and grandmas thinking the same thing and just understand each other.
He is my best friend I can talk to him about anything and vise versa.
I hope this helps
2007-10-15 09:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by Margaritaville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is one of those things that people call an emotional affair. Maybe you aren't participating, but he is, and it's wrong. I had an ex boyfriend who used to say things like that (usually of a more sexual nature), and I never said anything even remotely inappropriate back. I even showed my husband and he just said, "That guy is creepy, why do you bother keeping in touch?" I told him I'm not good about kicking people out of my life, and since we aren't really good friends (our contact is sporadic), I just ignore him when he says stupid stuff like that. I never lied to my husband and I didn't do anything wrong. Sometimes, I think maybe my ex was fishing to see if I was still interested. He doesn't say things like that anymore. I guess he got the hint.
Anyway, you should be careful. You don't want to upset your marriage because this guy doesn't know how to be appropriate.
2007-10-15 15:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dolyn 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't need a friend like that. He clearly does not respect you or your marriage. End the "friendship" right away, focus on your husband who deserves your full attention.
2007-10-15 15:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Someday you may come home to find a rabbit boiling in a pot on your stove.
2007-10-15 17:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by iasprout2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is still in love with you and wants you to know it. Probably to "keep his options" open in case his marriage goes south.
2007-10-15 15:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by Wayner 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is not JUST your friend.... You should break off this "friendship" before his wife finds out and blames you for things that have not happened.
2007-10-15 15:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Spring 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he misses you. Maybe he is is having a fight with his current relationship, so he is remembering the good times with you. He is just reminiscing.
2007-10-15 15:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by moto1361 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are playing with fire by remaining "just friends" with this ex of yours...sounds to me like he is wanting more than friendship.....End things with him...before your marriage may end....
2007-10-15 15:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't fall for the "just friends" label - one person always wants it to be more.
2007-10-15 15:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by banana6464 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Apparently he still has feelings for you.
All I can say is, *make it clear* you do not appreciate it - if in fact you don't.
2007-10-15 15:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by Infernal Disaster 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋