y don't i get wet before sex?

Question

I've been with my husband for 7 years now and our sex life is great! but when we first started to have sex, just thought of going home and having sex would get me wet. Now that doesn't happen anymore. I'm still very attracted and turned on by him and as soon and he puts it in i get wet, so i don't have a problem with lubrication. But i always feel guitly when he's talking sexy on the phone and then ask me if i'm wet and i say yes even though im really turned on. So my question is why can't i get wet before we have sex anymore?

Answer 1

u say as soon as he sticks it in u get wet, how come he dosen't go down on u and lick u up beautiful. sounds like he needs to be doing a little bit more to excite u now. the same thing over and over will make it a dull event. sounds like he really needs to start licking u everywhere to get those juices flowing again. good luck to u and i will keep u in my prayers.

Answer 2

Is he spending enough time pleasuring you before he "puts it in"? Could be a simple case of not enough foreplay on his side. Our bodies change with age - 7 years ago you were both younger and the body reacted differently to the way it does today.
Have your husband try different things and I'm sure you'll find yourself responding. Try playing sex scenes in your head before you even get to the bedroom, this will help warm things up a bit !!
Good luck - and don't feel guilty about something you can't always have control over !

Answer 3

It's called vaginal dryness.

It happens, and there can be all kinds of reasons.

Make an appointment to see your doctor, because they have things that can help.

Plus, you can always just tell your husband that you're having problems getting wet for some reason, and maybe you guys can start using some warming lubricant... your husband will probably be open to that because that stuff is awesome.

Answer 4

even though you are attracted to him, you might have something subconscious going on. Stress from work or family, loud home environment (constantly wondering if the kids are going to catch you), or any other outside factor could be to blame. It is so hard for women to quickly put everything out of their mind and have fun. I'd suggest a lot of foreplay. This will slowly cause every stress, worry, and problem to diminish and just leave thought of the present endeavor. good luck

Answer 5

Perhaps it's hormonal, or maybe a lack of newness in your relationship, maybe you want something different to turn you on. Being with the same person for a while even when we love them can lessen the excitement because we know what to expect.

Answer 6

It's nothing to feel bad about. Your body has changed. Have you had children, because that can make this kind of change. Don't be alarmed. Also if you have children then sometimes it can be hard to get into that mode until you are actually in the process. Things just change.

Answer 7

I have a similar problem but i thought that it may have been because I had a fibriod but when that was removed I found it was not. I too am very attracted to my husband but still have a very low libido or sexual drive.

Answer 8

As we age the body works differently. You need not feel guilty. It is a good idea to have a conversation with your doctor but this is probably just all normal.

Answer 9

i'll put it to u this way.....
u don't want the same bologna sandwich every day right?
spice it up a bit
movies, toys, sexy nighties, get some books read them together

Answer 10

Age. Tobacco. Alcohol. try kiegal exercises several times a day