Marriage & Divorce - 12 October 2007

2007-10-12 07:44:02 · 13 answers · asked by Pat P 1

In the beginning of our relationship I was the one who didn't care about us being together long term. Now it's almost 6 years later.. I have to innitiate everything.. sex, After we fight, I am the peace maker, I'm trying to make it work but it just seems so one sided. I am just tired of playing games, I'm ready to settle down and get married, start a family and he is just beating around the bush I'm 25 and he's 29. I think I'm going let him go.

2007-10-12 07:34:25 · 12 answers · asked by Tiffani 2

to ve sex a few times but he did not get erection...he is a very supportive , dependable and decent person who loves me , takes care of me ...should i stay married to him ?

2007-10-12 07:31:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to know how others would take the following info: My husband's lifelong best friend is a great guy, always giving hugs when you see him, to everyone. However last time I saw him, I caught him looking at me more, and touching my ribs if I was alone in a room. We were all talking and this friend mentioned that he saved a letter my husband wrote him about how my husband thought I was the one when he first met me. This letter is from 20 years ago and my husband's friend never responded to the letter but saved it. He compliments me on things like a ring that I was wearing that he liked. I just get a "feeling" from him. Am I reading to much into this? What do others think? I am afraid to say it outloud to anyone as I don't want any of our great friendships ruined.

2007-10-12 07:30:52 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-12 07:23:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seperated from my husband for a couple of months and we are getting a divorce. I started seeing this other guy, who is a PA at the doctor's office my daughter goes to, about a month ago. And my husband accused me of having an affair with him all the time and I know that his mom put that idea in his head because she thinks I'm a skank but that's not true though. My mom says I shouldn't be dating at all though because it doesn't make me look good in the divorce proceedings, but I'm not sure if that matters. I want to keep our daughter but he says he wants to fight for custody but will it really have an effect on that? And am I right to be dating again?

2007-10-12 07:19:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-12 07:18:40 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like one time I let my friend borrow money because I liked her a lot...... but then I found out she was taking me for granted, I told her about it and said I didn't appreciate it. Is a door mat someone who doesn't stick up for himself?

2007-10-12 06:59:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

It gets so frustrating. I am so tired of being rejected just cause she isnt in the mood. When we do have sex it is amazing. The next day after sex she is still happy from the night before. So I know she is being satisfied. Can anyone tell me what I can do to get her in the mood? Nothing to direct she gets upset if I come out and ask for it says its a turn off and then I get upset if I wait all night and dont get none when we go to bed. I have been thinking about just going down on her at night when she is relaxed but I dont know if she would get upset she has been working alot and I dont want to push her to far. What can I do please help me?

2007-10-12 06:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by Tim H 1

My husband is madly in love with me but I am not sure I feel the same way.. A few weeks ago I told him I wanted a separation and some how between him and my family I agreed to stay and try to work things out. Since then he has became a different man a great man. He is constantly pampering me and telling me how beautiful I am, doing spontanious things. He is trying really hard, but I am afaird that it is to late... I am not sure what to do b/c I dont want to hurt him at all.. What do I do???? Is there something I can do to change my feelings towards him??? Help!!!!

2007-10-12 06:53:33 · 11 answers · asked by amanda k 1

This world is crazy now....everything is done differently. Would it be weird to ask a guy to marry me? We have been together for 6 yrs. I am just kinda embarresed what other people would think? Like I am forcing him or what....LOL

2007-10-12 06:48:34 · 8 answers · asked by Sadbrowneyes13 4

2007-10-12 06:42:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife and i recently started playing domination and submissive role playing games. She is the dom.

while teasing and humiliating me, she began to mock and ridicule the size of my small peni3.

she was BRUTAL!!!! I know it was in role and part of the game, but it really hurt my feelings and self-esteem. Especially if maybe she thinks it's true.

Should I say something to her about it?

Thanks!

2007-10-12 06:36:07 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like let you borrow lots of money, give you jobs, give you compliments, and really look after you.

Kind of like a door mat but because he loves you :)

2007-10-12 06:35:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband talking to another woman on the phone. They have been coomunicating for about 2 weeks now. I found out by calling the number on his cell phone which he had under a male's name. She was very vague and said I had nothing to worry about and hung up. My husband said he just wanted to show me other women wanted him and I need to appreciate him more. I would have never found out if I didn't call. What to do.

2007-10-12 06:26:48 · 33 answers · asked by Putta Rat 2

2007-10-12 06:17:14 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is going on in out side life

2007-10-12 06:11:03 · 10 answers · asked by goofball 1

There's a cute guy on my Yahoo Personals match list, but some of his pictures show him being very overweight, while others show him slim. The photos aren't dated - so how can I find out what he looks like now?

2007-10-12 06:06:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married 6 years now and have been friends with my husband for over 11 years. For the first 4 years all he wanted to do was be with me. Then he started going out with his friend ocassionally, then often, then almost every night and day.I found out he was having an affair for over a year and confronted him. He just ignored me and allowed me to move out not caring what i did. He then went to be with her not wanting me to know. This happened in our house. I finally decide to let him go although wanting to save the marriage as we had a child now 3. He said he wanted to try and i moved back. I don't know if i can forgive him. I think about them all the time. Now he still doesnt want to stay home. Even in a storm. I feel so alone.

2007-10-12 06:01:02 · 20 answers · asked by minnie 1

for a while until he can get things straightend out with his ex wife and children. Since I have been with him she has gone non stop after me by spreading rumors among his family, friends, calling him non stop, she wants him back, however he doesn't want to go...they are apart 4 years when I met him. He also doesn't put a stop to her harrassment....one email this week to her, answering a nasy email about me from her, he stood up for me....his children bash me to my face every other weekend of my life, and he does nothing. I don't want to live like this any more. It puts strain on my job, my mental out look on life....it is making me spiritually unsound....I don't know what else to do....give him space to fix it or not....

2007-10-12 05:30:27 · 16 answers · asked by Rein 5

you can view my other question for more background info... Is it possible to continue a friendship with someone you truly, honest;y and whole-heartedly feel is a friend, even if your spouse feels otherwise (believes I had an emotional affair)? That is, if all communication was made available for the spouse so they could see exactly what was going on from this point on (as it always should have been)? Do you think my spouse should trust me to continue this friendship now knowing our boundaries of information sharing? I have never done anything to betray his trust before and really feel this person is just a friend... neither of us have any desire to go further than a friendship.

2007-10-12 05:30:00 · 12 answers · asked by girl 123 2

Is there any place in this world where women must have two husbands at the same time as a way of marriage style?Is this acceptable in your own mentality?

2007-10-12 05:23:40 · 10 answers · asked by E@rthGoddess 6

I tried a good counselling with him. Did not even nag him. I feel like leaving him because of this, my patience is almost over. He said he will stop but I catch him few times and I don't know what to do now. Pls. help.

2007-10-12 05:22:02 · 24 answers · asked by MJ B 1

I am a man in my 40's. How do I get me a young 22 year old to marry?

2007-10-12 05:21:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-12 05:17:02 · 21 answers · asked by Jay 1

ladies...how did you feel the first time you were intimate with someone after your divorce or breakup ???

guys.....how is being with someone who has already had kids .( not yours)..you know there body isn't the same anymore...

i'm not sure if i make sense ..but i'm currently going through a divorce and i just feel weird of the thought of someday being with some ...my body is not the same ofcourse as to when i didn't have kids...i mean i'm not fat i'm 114 ,4'11 but i'm so self conscious about my stomach ! pls help???????

2007-10-12 05:16:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend was married to a british guy and they have a kid and he now he is moving back to england with his wife,will my friend be able to get child support from him while he is there?!!!
damn men,they make babies and leave them like nothing happened

2007-10-12 05:13:35 · 5 answers · asked by mody a 1

We have been married 7 months. I am 25 and hes almost 27. I want it more but he always says hes tired or his stomach hurts. Like he has an excuse every time. If I never pursued him or asked to have sex we would go months with out. I dont understand bc I am an attractive woman and my boyfriends in the past always were wanting to have sex with me.
Ive talked to him about this many times..he knows i love sex and it makes me feel closer to him. He says ok im sorry and we will have sex that night or next day but then it goes right back to how it was b4. even when i kiss him he like backs away, he will kiss me but moves his heads backwards and not towards me. ive asked him if hes gay and that always pisses him off. he works as a production manager and is very stressed at work. helP!!!!

2007-10-12 05:13:13 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous

in my opinion, :love, trust ,respect, and always solve arguments before going to bed.. anything else?

2007-10-12 05:12:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My GF has a shady past and cheated on her ex husband. Now I found out, not from her, that this guy who is the brother of one of her best friends who she grew up with asked her out tonight for dinner and drinks and she had declined saying she was busy. Now another guy, who she cheated on her husband with, and recently came into her job, where he use to work and lives only 2 miles from her work, came in and told her he was moving to California. Now today is Friday, the same day that one guy asked her out, and she told me twice yesterday that she was going to a 3pm outing at a casual fine dining with her boss and some co workers to go over an upcoming event. Now she said they were gonna be drinking and some like finger food, and that she would have a light dinner later on with me. Is it possible that she could be seeing one of these 2 guys instead...

2007-10-12 05:09:42 · 32 answers · asked by hero 1