Marriage & Divorce - 12 October 2007

My husband works with a lot of college aged girls and I am a stay at home mom of two babies. For the past year on and off I have been feeling like he has or had been cheating on me. I confront him and he answers all of my questions trying to aleviate my fears. But I still can't stand him working with these girls. I just can't seem to get over that he goofs off with them. There is one instance that really bothers me. He kick a soccer ball inbetween a girls legs when she was laying on her back with her legs kind of open. And he says score. He said he did it on purpose just playing around. That just really hasn't set well with me since I have heard it. My husband puts up with my acusations and questions about him cheating or working with these girls. What should I do or what do I need to do to just accept the fact he does love me and get over this fear that I have?

2007-10-12 05:08:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-12 05:00:57 · 28 answers · asked by Bella 3

I work offshore for two weeks at a time. I pay my ex wife child support and alimony on the 1st and 15th of each month. I am working now and my ex wants to pick up my check today, forge my name on the back and cash it. I told her no. She is very upset and is making me feel guilty telling me she has no money left, and is getting my 7yr old daughter to call me and make me feel bad. She is only nice when she wants something...Am I wrong here?

2007-10-12 04:51:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or a hooker, or a prostitute? I think so but some of my friends disagree. What about a girl who jumps into bed with her boss to get a raise or a bonus? Isn't that same a hooking?

2007-10-12 04:50:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I saw this on an episode of House MD (the best medical drama show ever), two elderly people who were presumed to be married to each other, had different colored wedding rings of. It turns out that they were married to other people but they were hooking up with one another. One has gold, the other one either silver, platinum, white gold or something light. Is that true? Are married couples supposed to have matching wedding rings? I never knew this. I'd like to know before I get married & buy the wrong rings. Thanks for your answers.

2007-10-12 04:47:25 · 25 answers · asked by Razor Snake 5

My coworker states his wife does not like to go to social gatherings with him but he likes going out and always has. They do family things together, but he likes to go hang out with his friends on the weekends. They are argue about it all the time. He does stay out a little late, but has never given her a reason not to trust him. She tells him to go out but gets upset about it when he does, but when he doesn't go, she says you can go out. Is it fair that she doesn't let him go out just because she says she's grown up and doesn't feel the need to go out any more?

2007-10-12 04:46:35 · 12 answers · asked by Mona25 1

In Idaho, where do I get the forms? The courthouse? What all do I need? I want it to be Quick, Easy, and Cheap. this would be an uncontested divorce. We already know who gets what, so how do I get things going and do it ourselves?

2007-10-12 04:46:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently divorced after about 4 months now my ex-wife now wants to start hanging out. I am really not sure what her intentions are, but i thnk she wants to still have somekind of relationship. Now I am seeing someone else now and although that relationship isn't that serious yet, I don't want to have any kind of relationship other than a friendship. I think she may have gotten this idea, because her best friend is divorced and her and her ex mess around and they are with other people as well. This isn't for me, even if I was single.

I don't mind having contact with her, here and there, but the idea of us going out for a drink is out of the question. I haven't told her that I am seeing someone and I thought that she was seeing someone, so maybe that's over and she wants to have some part in my life. The divorce hurt me financially and emotionally and I want to move on, but I don't want to hurt her feelng either. What would be the best approach?????

2007-10-12 04:40:42 · 31 answers · asked by David 1

2007-10-12 04:37:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 7 weeks now. Both our spouse past away from cancer. my new husband has 3 daughters, 11yrs, 14 yrs, 171/2 year old. I have a daughter 17, and son 21. We went to a teacher parent conferance for my husband daughter,(17 1/2 year old) she is senior, but taking junior courses because she failed them last year. was informed last night she is not doing her homework and fail to pass in essay on college/ research. She also had to write and essay on Woodrow Wilson due today. When we arrived at home I asked her " how the woodrow wilson coming along" Well, that didn't go over to well , I was told i was stepping over my boundies. and don't confront erin anymore about her school work.this young lady is stubborn: selfish;lazy; on VERY, confertational. Irish blood I guess. Was I wrong for saying something? What ever I say to her she runs back to daddy and complains and argues with him. Should I say out of this area(school work) and let him handle it?

2007-10-12 04:36:43 · 37 answers · asked by Gracie H 1

The seller reduced the asking price to $90,000 today. The house has a foundation crack, with some damage to the bathroom walls. A repair inspection was done and the cost to repair the foundation totaled about $4,800 - $5,000.

Other than that, the house is in good condition, with original hardwood floors. I know the seller is anxious to sell the house.

2007-10-12 04:34:50 · 8 answers · asked by zone 3

2007-10-12 04:34:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-12 04:32:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

their mothers attitude about your relationship.....if your new wife was good and kind to them....would you leave in order to have a better relationship with your kids?

2007-10-12 04:30:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am having some serious problems in my marriage and need some third party advice. I have just about had it with my husbands behavior, our living situation and financial situation. I stay at home with our 10 month old and since my husband won't work with me as far as taking care of the baby while I work, I'm unable to get a job. He refuses to agree with daycare also. Since he is the only one bringing in income we live with his family. His mother, father, sister and her two 18 year old sons. They are all out of control alcoholics, drug addicts, slobs and big mouths. They have no respect or care for anyone but themselves and they are constantly making my life more difficult. They wake the baby all hours of the night, leave disgusting messes that I have to either clean up or risk my baby getting sick or hurt from it. My husband is very unhelpful. He won't get a second job, let me get any time to myself worth talking about or get his **** together with the bills.

2007-10-12 04:24:10 · 13 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3

i just answered a q?, and it seemed interesting to keep asking about this matter.
lets say the child has misbehaved, and the step parent has punished him, what would you do? the child is crying at this point and is yelling " ur not my mom/dad" would u back ur spouse, and tell the child to to his room or would u under mined what ur spouse said and let the child off the hook?

mature answers please!

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2007-10-12 04:19:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I decided to divorce a few days ago.
This morning he handed me a w4 and told me to change
it to single claiming my kids.
Should I change it yet. no papers have been filed
for anything....seperation or divorce.
Will this mess up my child support?

2007-10-12 04:18:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is an awful question, but I can't get it off my mind. I dated a guy for a couple years and was head over heels in love, I believed with my heart and soul that he was the one. He hurt me really bad by walking out on us when it got tough, it bothered me that he wasn't willing to work on things/fix them with me.... I knew what we were throwing away and he didn't at the time. 10 months later he is writing me emails, telling me he believes we are soulmates and belong together, etc. I feel the same.

Trouble is I am with someone else. I like this person a lot, but I don't know if it's love. He treats me well and has all the qualities to make us last. I'm not nearly as attracted to him (he's on the skinny side) and I don't think I'm quite his type physically either. I am pregnant (unplan) with his child and therefore want to make it work, plus he is a good man and more mature. What's going on with me? I can't even bring myself to be intimate with him anymore. I am so mad at myself.

2007-10-12 04:17:49 · 12 answers · asked by Betty 4

and if you do, do you reread them sometimes.i saw my bb had some postcards from his pass relationship and when i read them i felt so confuse, because it was really nice loving ones . so i wonder if he sometimes read them and old feelings come bk . ps he was married for 12yrs.

2007-10-12 04:15:42 · 7 answers · asked by ms attitude 2

Would a female tell the truth about this? Are there female that really perfer phone sex over the real thing?

2007-10-12 04:10:04 · 9 answers · asked by Tim 1

Do you think that God has created someone special for you or would you rather just marry anyone who may end up divorcing you? Like what do you think?

2007-10-12 04:08:54 · 33 answers · asked by ~Living4HIM~ 4

My GF has a shady past and cheated on her ex husband. Now I found out, not from her, that this guy who is the brother of one of her best friends who she grew up with asked her out tonight for dinner and drinks and she had declined saying she was busy. Now another guy, who she cheated on her husband with, and recently came into her job, where he use to work and lives only 2 miles from her work, came in and told her he was moving to California. Now today is Friday, the same day that one guy asked her out, and she told me twice yesterday that she was going to a 3pm outing at a casual fine dining with her boss and some co workers to go over an upcoming event. Now she said they were gonna be drinking and some like finger food, and that she would have a light dinner later on with me. Is it possible that she could be seeing one of these 2 guys instead.

2007-10-12 04:07:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe my partner and I should have talked about his more before we actually got married, maybe not. He knows that I've been cheated on and grew up in a house where my dad cheated on my mom constantly. So he knows I have trust issue. He does to. But lately and maybe its just where I'm pregnant b/c before the pregnancy horomones hit, I never had a problem with him chatting with girls on line (nothing to bad or for to long) hanging out with co-workers. But since I got pregnant I"ve been really jealous and yes he has crossed the line a couple of times (see other question).
I don't want to push him away from me, our children need thier father. We have a nine year old together as well, but have only been married a few months.

Does anyone have any advice about how I can learn to trust more?

2007-10-12 04:03:48 · 19 answers · asked by his wife 4

What would you do? Leave it alone or press charges? The point is not the amount of the check but that she signed my name and who knows what else she has put my name on. -Indiana-

2007-10-12 03:56:25 · 33 answers · asked by B 1

My husband is no where near as interested as me. He was when we were dating. NO I haven't gotten fat. He can't get turned on if you know what I mean and I am going crazy. He is absolutly the sexiest man I have ever known and I can't have him enough. I figure can't beat them join them. So How do I reduce my libido?

2007-10-12 03:55:00 · 16 answers · asked by Beth 2

2007-10-12 03:52:44 · 41 answers · asked by Janice 1

Her husband is not the father of her children and he cannot stand her children. He makes it known to their mother that he does not care for them. Yet, she still loves him and wants to be with him. Is it right? Would it be right for her kids to do away with their mother if she stays with him? Why would they want to accept their mother if she wants to be with someone that cannot accept her own flesh and blood? SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!!!

2007-10-12 03:50:24 · 30 answers · asked by spee11 2

how do i get my 14 year old daughter to talk to me again?she as not spoke to me in over a week.i think its something my soon to be ex -wife as said.please help its killing me.

2007-10-12 03:45:55 · 25 answers · asked by i love anne 5

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2007-10-12 03:45:38 · 10 answers · asked by Shedia S 1

I only dated MaryJane once, back in 1991. I will never date her again. She is way too wild and crazy. lol hahaha Thanks guys!

2007-10-12 03:45:37 · 7 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2