My husband is no where near as interested as me. He was when we were dating. NO I haven't gotten fat. He can't get turned on if you know what I mean and I am going crazy. He is absolutly the sexiest man I have ever known and I can't have him enough. I figure can't beat them join them. So How do I reduce my libido?
2007-10-12 03:55:00 · 16 answers · asked by Beth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have the toys do masterbate. Give me the other answer
2007-10-12 03:59:49 · update #1
Never turns me down just can't.
Works alot
No on the porn he doesn't have time
want it 4 to 5 times a week
Maybe ED
I don't know
2007-10-12 04:21:20 · update #2
No it has never been this bad
Booze? Humm. Doesn't work.What kind of quantity
2007-10-12 05:16:33 · update #3
Not asking for 6 times a day maybe just once for sure and twice on occasion Three well now I think that might be greedy
2007-10-12 09:32:49 · update #4
Don't reduce yours just have him raise his.....sex is like anything else if you don't use it , ya lose it
Try this website and tell him to get these
http://www.testosteroneformula.com/
Its worth a try and it worked for my husband and i
Good luck
2007-10-12 04:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can't have him enough? Are you trying to get him to perform 6 or more times a day? That could be a challenge.
If you're talking about something in the "normal" (whatever that means these days) category, two-three times a week or so and he cannot 'perform' even though he's willing, it certainly sounds like a ED problem. With all the ads on TV for ED products we have to believe that it's a fairly common issue among men these days. If your husband is really a willing but unable partner he should be happy to try anyone of the many drugs available to see if it helps. I always get a kick out of the warning on those ads about an erection lasting for more than four hours. Who knows....maybe you'll get lucky. If he's unwilling to try, something else is wrong. If he tries the drugs and nothing works, he should consult a physician. If still no solution he may need to see a therapist to unlock the mystery.
2007-10-12 06:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by nevit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should reduce your libido because your husband is not in the mood. Why not just pleasure yourself on the nights when he isnt in the mood. I'm not sure how old you all are but why does he have such a decrease in his libido? Does he work alot of hours? Have you asked him why is he not in the mood? How many times are you wanting to have sex in a weeks span? Do you work outside the home? Could he be watching porn and taking care of himself? Does he still find you attractive? Have you talked with him? Does he have Erectile Dysfunction? How often is he turning you down? Could he be cheating?
2007-10-12 04:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sugastack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is this stuff call, "Viagra" Since when have men become so slack that they won't even pop a pill to keep up with their women? Unless, its medical. Then I don't know what to tell you. Have a child, if possible? I haven't been as sexual as I was prior to having my daughter.
Sex play is another good one.
2007-10-12 04:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age you may be experiencing the common phenomenon of the 30's. Women reach their sexual peak then, and men drop off. I think you need to do something to excite your husband instead of expecting him to just perform. I would suggest alittle bondage and sexual control. I don't think it matters who's the Top, and you both can play at it. Expand your horizons.
2007-10-12 04:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to reduce it? Mix it up and seduce him. There are a lot of men out there that love their women to be full figured and curvy.
2007-10-12 04:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
loosen up. And lotsa chilly showers. And psychiatric help, you're obsessing compulsively, you fairly DO pick professional help. Google "anaphrodisiacs", i be attentive to saltpeter is reputed to be good for that yet uncertain of others. reward on your adventure!
2016-10-20 06:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what his fantasies are that could be a line in for more of the fun stuff take him to a doctor and see if they can help caus ea woman in your condition is just wrong
2007-10-12 04:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by the_orc_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont reduce it. My only advice would be get your Hubby in the mood more often, I'm sure you have ideas.
2007-10-12 04:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by Kev's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, you use your vibrator 3 times a day and give him what he wants and when to satisfy him without giving up what you want. Promote playtime that is focused solely on you...
2007-10-12 03:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋