Marriage & Divorce - 12 October 2007

My wife have been flirting with a female friend and now they have agreed to have a threesome. It sounds fine to me, however, and as it would be the first time for all; I would like some advise how to handle better the session in bed to come. Just want to make sure I secure pleasure for all of us and I have to admit that all XXX films that deal with that kind of situation would not be the right model to follow as there are no nerves involved and they are not first timers, are they? ;-)

-please only serious answers, I need all the advise-

2007-10-12 12:40:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-12 12:36:20 · 12 answers · asked by Kiome_274 1

2007-10-12 11:55:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found a bigger house for us to rent. My husband said just get it that he didn't need to look at it. Well he looked at it anyway and he liked it. Today, he said it was too far from the freeway for him to go to work as he works in different locations and that we need to save 3 grand before we move and it isn't going to happen until december( he has said this before by the way)
We are in very cramped quarters and i started a promising full time job so i can help pay alot of the rent. I got a little upset cause he acted like he wanted to move in november... was i wrong to get a little upset?

2007-10-12 11:44:56 · 7 answers · asked by cristelle R 6

2007-10-12 11:29:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my husband for 4 years we have a child together. He is a ok guy doesn't go out does cheat on me doesn't abuse me but we don't get along. Our personalities don't mix we fight constantly and always talk about divorce. I love him but I can't live like this. My question is can you live with someone and not love them and just do it for the sake of the child?

2007-10-12 11:03:54 · 27 answers · asked by Janice 1

I'm 30 and engaged to a great guy. We don't often have the desire to go out to bars or socializing much anymore. We go out to dinner weekly and visit friends a few times a month, but other than that we don't go "out, out" anymore. No drinking, hanging out in clubs etc....is this a normal progression? Or are we being anti-social?

2007-10-12 11:01:19 · 14 answers · asked by Why? 5

2 years ago my husbadn cheated on me with another women he had a son with her and the way i found out is becuase he video tapes it and showed to me. I was not with him at the time I was having my baby in the hospitol and he was in the hospitol I forgave him and we got back together. Then I got him papers and he treats me really bad, I have four kids with him I do everything for him I cook everyniht clean and iron his clothes make his lunch everything and I still have sex with him even though I am tired. He calls me fat when I only weigh 145 I just had a baby in april he says I am a good for nothing and that he can get a better women. What should I do my head tells me to stay becuase of our kids and that I did not get married to get divorced I have been suffering for some many years and know I feel that no one will ever want me that is why I need him.

2007-10-12 10:29:40 · 13 answers · asked by Lost 4

i love him, don't get me wrong, but everything lately is driving me nuts. im starting to think i don't respect him much or that my hormones are just CRAZY...
just had a baby and im nursing, plus im the breadwinner, my job just pays more, and i don't want to put out. darn it.
he is a dork though.
im not leaving him, but do you ever find yourself feeling like your partner is annoying you?
what do you do?
oh and one more part....our car broke down, so maybe im just stressed.

2007-10-12 10:20:36 · 34 answers · asked by diana g 3

So I asked the other day about a romantic gift for our 10th anniversary. I was told that guys don't 'do' romance. I received a lot of 'sexual' answers.

OK, I get it.

So, after thinking about it for a day or so I remebered something my husband said. We were watching Death Proof the other week and when "Butterfly" did her lap dance, he said.. "You know, you look like her!".

We are staying at one of those themed hotels, and I thought I'd surprise him with that lap dance.

Think he'll like it????

If you haven't seen it, here's the link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L57k3gn9UKY&mode=related&search=

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2007-10-12 10:18:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex dumped me for his co-worker and he told me he never coming back that he is in love and when i asked him if he will make this relationship work, he replied we'll see.
I am so hurt and deep down i wish him no bad luck , I am just trying to find some comfort for the moment.
what are your experiences or thoughts?

2007-10-12 10:02:03 · 21 answers · asked by maria s 2

my boss is much older then me (i'm 27) but he is sooo handsome. He always has women hitting on him. well, i'm attracted to him ..and i know he digs me too cuz he'll make comments here and there. the thing is....we are both married. he has an open marriage. idont. i'm really attracted to him...and want him soooo bad. but I know its VERY wrong. what do i do?

oh, couple days ago...we had drinks after work. i was really tipsy. when he walked me to my car. he gave me a kiss on the lips...a little peck. the next day everytying was a blur to me. when i came into work i asked him if we had kissed cuz i thought we had. he said yes. but it was innocent....just a good bye kiss.

does he want more?

2007-10-12 09:57:45 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband does not dance and just wondering if it appropriate to slow dance with another guy? Just a friend, nothing more.

2007-10-12 09:40:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

divorce? I got involved with him 3 yrs ago, he told me he was already divorced, with no kids. I found out 3 mos later that he had a5 yr. old daughter with his ex, then 2mos after that, found out he was still married to her. I accepted it, continued the relationship, from that point on, his ex has been unbearable. Talking bad about me to their daughter, not allowing him to pickup his daghter if i was with him in my own car so on and so on. As you can guess he left her and she wants him back. We broke up for 2 weeks in July but we were still hanging out.One day while we were together, his ex calls me saying that he was back with her (during this split) and they were trying to work it out, and that he was just making sure I was "set up" and ok, thats why he had been hanging out with me while we were split. When I askedhim about this, he said he was just trying to sweet talk her into finally signing the divorce papers, cause she had been prolonging it for over 2 yrs.What do you think?

2007-10-12 09:34:58 · 14 answers · asked by dnk0717 3

i was looking on the computer and saw in the search window adult friend finder, girl on girl action and alot of other things. well i asked my husband and he said that he didnt know about the friend finder but he typed in the other sites to look at different positions and learn how to do oral. i was disgusted and long story short threw his clothes outside slapped him and threatened divorce. it hurts so bad. what should i do, should i believe him?

2007-10-12 09:32:22 · 20 answers · asked by neli 2

obviously this means different things to different people.

2007-10-12 09:31:07 · 16 answers · asked by Lily 3

2007-10-12 09:13:19 · 22 answers · asked by sky2slayer 2

2007-10-12 09:10:25 · 58 answers · asked by peanutmunchkin 2

Does a man have the right to try and take his partner to court to obtain full custody of children instead of joint custody?

2007-10-12 08:57:37 · 13 answers · asked by Miss J 1

What do you think? Have you or would you do it for your SO?

2007-10-12 08:55:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

is not sexually satisfying?

2007-10-12 08:49:06 · 27 answers · asked by Lioness 6

2007-10-12 08:34:56 · 15 answers · asked by Malcolm S 1

2007-10-12 08:33:57 · 25 answers · asked by Dear Whoever 1

My husband and I had a baby a month ago. For the past few weeks he has been stressed out about work and spends most of his time in the evening on computer games instead of spending time with myself and our new baby. I don't feel like I am getting the support I need, but worried that I may be being too demanding...

2007-10-12 08:20:36 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous

all you older people on here, we all love out little fledglings,(kids) but be honest now,,, are you a little pleased now that they have flewn the nest....

2007-10-12 08:19:47 · 18 answers · asked by linseybaby 3

what do u think should i think about becoming a sex guru?

no, im just kidding. i just need friends!!!!!

just friends to whom i would like to share my experiences about everything, sex,kids, spouse etc.......

2007-10-12 08:17:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

The problem is that i have an evil stepmother, (i'm 21 , Florida) .
My father has a medical condition that is getting worse and worse, he owns a house and money from his business.
If he dies , does her wife gets everything . I mean everything.
his wife has a 5 year old boy with my dad.

I dont want to sound like i want his money or anything like that , but i just want to know if she is going to get everything, i think she does not deserve it , i know she is just with him for his money, she knows how much he has.... ( its a long story ) . I just want it to be fair when my father dies. i wish all his money would go to donations or whatever except her getting all of it. How can i prepare for a legal battle in the future if she decides to get everything my dad has.

2007-10-12 07:59:30 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-12 07:58:44 · 37 answers · asked by LordVader 4

My ex & I had been 2gether 7 yrs. & 2 kids besides my oldest daughter who is not his but who he raised since 2 yrs. old. He pretty much don't have anything to do w/ her since our split, I can't tell you how many times I heard "she's not my kid, I told her she could call me if she wants to visit", well now she hates him & doesn't want me back w/ him. Everyone I know hates him & wonders why I seem to always fall into his traps. I still luv him so much but he's an awful person. He won't even help me support his 2 kids, he only pays 250 a month daycare becuz he says he can't afford anymore. I look at him & know he's not what I want, we are on different paths, completely different ppl & mind sets. Honestly how do I really kick him to the curb?? I can name off a million irrogant, selfish, mean things about him but why can't I stop luving him. somone has come into my life willing to marry me 2morrow if I let him, he's a great guy & is great to my kids. He really would be a great husband

2007-10-12 07:56:17 · 16 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2

I really want a separation at the very least, but he is unwilling to do so. I am so very unhappy and also have my children to consider. Regardless of the emotional abuse from the past, he has received help and treats me wonderfully now. It is simply too late.
Am I being selfish?

2007-10-12 07:46:22 · 19 answers · asked by tired 1