i found a bigger house for us to rent. My husband said just get it that he didn't need to look at it. Well he looked at it anyway and he liked it. Today, he said it was too far from the freeway for him to go to work as he works in different locations and that we need to save 3 grand before we move and it isn't going to happen until december( he has said this before by the way)
We are in very cramped quarters and i started a promising full time job so i can help pay alot of the rent. I got a little upset cause he acted like he wanted to move in november... was i wrong to get a little upset?
2007-10-12 11:44:56 · 7 answers · asked by cristelle R 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i don't know if we will be moving this stuff happens alot when i find a house for u s..plus we rent a storage space and the heating in this place is high cause of it being old and bad insulation... we would spend what we are spending now in a larger place to be exact
2007-10-12 11:54:22 · update #1
He did tell you to get it and you didn't you should have taken the bull by the horns and gotten the house like he said when he said like this it was on him. Know you will have to wait for one more opportunity like the one he threw at when he told you to get he house.
You shouldn't be a little upset because he has done this before so you should have seized the opportunity when you had it. To know him is to know what your next step should have been.
2007-10-12 12:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had every right to be upset. But...stuff happens and that's what marriage is all about. Sometimes you gotta suck it up and forget about it. December will be here soon enough. Also...what I have learned is everything happens for a reason. The next house I bet will be even more perfect!
2007-10-12 11:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by DesignDiva1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to discuss the core issue, it's probably not about the house.
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2007-10-12 11:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by lovehealer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is sending mixed messages. Come December, and the 3 grand, see what he says. If he has another excuse, then find out what the real reason is.
2007-10-12 11:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50% of me says yes and the other50 no. Rome wasn't built in a day and having the money for your new place might take that bit longer. Hang in there as i'm sure you'll get your dream soon.
2007-10-12 11:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would too.
Why did he say it was ok and then changed his mind?
Do you think it was because he didn't want you to disappointe you at first but then came back to his senses after looking at your money situation or has something happened?
You should still talk to him about it. Just to know why the yes, and then No.
2007-10-12 11:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you still moving out? then you shoudn't be upset, be patient, good things take their time...
take a chill pill
;)
2007-10-12 11:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋