My husband works with a lot of college aged girls and I am a stay at home mom of two babies. For the past year on and off I have been feeling like he has or had been cheating on me. I confront him and he answers all of my questions trying to aleviate my fears. But I still can't stand him working with these girls. I just can't seem to get over that he goofs off with them. There is one instance that really bothers me. He kick a soccer ball inbetween a girls legs when she was laying on her back with her legs kind of open. And he says score. He said he did it on purpose just playing around. That just really hasn't set well with me since I have heard it. My husband puts up with my acusations and questions about him cheating or working with these girls. What should I do or what do I need to do to just accept the fact he does love me and get over this fear that I have?
2007-10-12 05:08:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He works with these girls at photo shoots. He does sports photography. And they are they to help pose the kids or are coordinators or photographers. They play around when they are waiting for a team to get there. He isn't that much older than these girls either. He is 25 and I am 22.
2007-10-12 05:28:50 · update #1
He also loves this job and I have never seen him like a job. So I don't want to ask him to change jobs, because I want him to enjoy working.
2007-10-12 05:30:15 · update #2
Not at all! One who works with young people can not be too cautious these days. For safety all around, he needs to be very cautious with his actions and words. He can get himself into a lot of legal issues if things are interpreted in a manner not intended.
2007-10-12 05:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I hope that he is not cheating on you. Second, if you feel in your heart that something is wrong then you have to investigate and get answers. Sometimes when you got out to get answers it is not always what you hoped it to be. Third, don,t nag him about it but all the time pay close attention to his body language. Ask yourself these questions. Is your sex life the same or has he changed? Is he coming home smelling like a woman or sex smell? I don,t want you to think that I am crazy or anything but sometimes you have to watch your guard.
2007-10-12 12:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by KUANA J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would a girl be lying on her back, with her legs open in a work situation? It sounds a little fishy to me, but I would need more information. What kind of business is it? Does he spend time alone with these girls? Is is possible for your husband to work somewhere else?
2007-10-12 12:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he should get another job i would be very worried for the college girls by the he plays with them but then again he could end up losing his job any way
2007-10-13 07:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he did, if it were in your presence what's more, was really disrespectful and I'd say that if he behaves like that in front of you, Gosh, what must he do in your back?!
It wouldn't sit well with me either.
I wouldn't trust him. I am not sure what to advise you.
At least, you're not the only one who think that he's at it.
Now, it's up to you to decide what you want to do about it.
2007-10-12 12:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE AN ISSUE AND IT IS HIS ISSUE ALSO NOW. YOU ARE A UNIT. IT IS HIS JOB TO MAKE YOU COMFORTABLE WITH HIS WORK ENVIRONMENT. WHAT TYPE OF WORK INVOLVES LAYING DOWN WITH YOUR LEGS SLIGHTLY PARTED? WHAT TYPE OF JOB ALLOWS GOOFING AROUND PHYSICALLY? KEEP YOUR EYES AND EARS WIDE OPEN.
2007-10-12 12:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋