Marriage & Divorce - 11 October 2007

I've asked some pretty personal questions. Many reguarding female things and my husband has the need to go throught every one of my question. I feel violated! I don't want to know about his jock itch and I hope that If I have something going on that he'd repsect my privacy. So I just want to delete my account all together. I've tried to set my questions to private, but for some reason He's been able to read them

2007-10-11 16:52:38 · 15 answers · asked by in COGNITO * 4

I try so hard.. I love on her and feel on her. And just want the same in return. Im not always wanting sex. I just want to be noticed. But she can just sleep and ignore all the attention.. I think she is hoping I will fall asleep or go away.

But she says she loves my guts..... Im so confused..

2007-10-11 16:52:06 · 10 answers · asked by zerk_078 1

i had a 9 month old baby with my boyfriend ,my daughter is runnin a high fever,i had some medicine but im not givin it to her because of the recall,my cousin call me earlier we talked for a minute,the bastard gets jealous,so anyways i decided to call my older cousin and ask her if she know of any home remedy that i can use to make my baby feels better.....the beast take the battery out of the phone.....and take it to work with him.....i feel like snapped ,but for the sake of my daughter ill do something else.....how to get rid of him .....im going nuts

2007-10-11 16:43:32 · 7 answers · asked by sunshine 1

... if I would pay for groceries the next 2 weeks, on top of giving him $800, and then pay $200 of the $1400 mortgage...

and I'm ticked off because I just gave him $200... paid out $800 plus $300 in other bills, and now he wants this from me? The man has 150k in his own bank account, and gets $1900/mo in s.s. diability.. and THEN his father is oging to give him his check too.

Do I have a reason to be upset? I mean, when I left him this summer he accused me of leaving him without an income.. then when I came back, he asks me for all of this, and never once paid me back for things he said he would.. I'm irritated. (this is of course the short version of the story)

2007-10-11 16:03:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been married for about 2 years and it's been a struggle to stay married. My husband takes everything to his heart and keep everything in his mind that didn't go well between us. It has been piling up in his mind and now he's gets extremely mad over any little thing. He says very hurtful things that I didn't used to take seriously. I thought he doesn't mean it and he is just mad at the moment. He used to show me he loves me and care so much. But things has been changing and at a point where we don't even talk to each other much. We pretend everything is okay. Recently I sent an concern email and got a response that "we are done" "i dont love" and don't know what to do at this time.

Other stuff he wrote: "see only dark things in our future.
i realized it too late that we are not compatible and can never be.
what we want/wanted in life is/was different. our goals are different. so different that even when we tried to change each other , that wasnt enough . finally here we are frustrate

2007-10-11 15:49:35 · 28 answers · asked by sadlilindian 1

i was on the birthcontrol pill and it didnt work i got pregnant my husband wasnt so happy with the news he told me to get an abortion i told him that i wouldnt , so he told me to choose between him and the baby i said the baby now he wants a divorce he got really mad he told me that he was going to hit me in my stomach so i can loose the baby now hes telling me that he wants me out of his house and that he wants a divorce hes tells me his not going to help me with the baby , he only wants to take responsability with our first child shes 4 yrs old what can i do hes being really mean telling me that hes going to hit me. the house is under his name so gave me a month to go some where else what can i do. he told me to wait for the divorce papers.

2007-10-11 15:48:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married 10 months. My husband has hit me twice before our marriage. Each time he said that he would never do it again. After we've been married, he has hit me twice again, and I have feared for my life. He said he would kill me, and he caused bruises. I know it sounds bad, but all the time, I kept thinking that I provoked him and it's my fault. I threatened to leave and go to the police, but I couldn't, I was scared. I had faith that we could work it out. I told my parents a week ago about everything. They are beside themselves and I am an emotional wreck. I want a separation, I am 25 years old, a graduate student with a future, no kids involved. My husband is 34. I care for him as a person but I don't think that we were ever meant to be together. Our relationship is empty and I am tired of pretending to love him. Our relationship has made me depressed, unable to function. I want out, but I care for him and am afraid to be alone and find a new apartment.

2007-10-11 15:43:01 · 10 answers · asked by Confused.... 1

I said that I want A, B, and C and I got it...but I still don't feel like I have enough. Men please keep your answers to yourselves....unless you are serious

2007-10-11 15:38:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 49 and have been with this man for 18 years total. He's been having what he calls "a friendship" with a woman at work, a woman I have known (and been friendly with) for about 10 yrs. He travels for work extensively, they have talked day and night (more than he and I) since late last year. They were originally using office 800 and main numbers to keep me from seeing their calls on OUR cell ph bill. Now I find he's even changed travel plans to get back in town early to see her, yet he swears they have not had sex and are only friends. He wants a divorce so he can "find himself". They don't hide the numbers anymore cause they think I can't see it, but they start calling or texting each other at 5AM or so and go all day and night! He wants out, but had no plan as far as how we would separate and we can't afford to rent another place for one of us, so we're also stuck living in the same house. I'm devastated - I also get angrier than I knew possible, but the hurt is crushing me.

2007-10-11 15:38:24 · 6 answers · asked by abigal s 1

Last 3yr we are in court, X party Sec-9 order given to her. Both family perents fights, She was tried marry my friend by chopping relationship legaly by false 498 to obtain Divoce & abstract money. She is asking setlment of cases & returing matrimonial for child. Judgement is expected M.A. to child Rs.3000/- per month. (1)498A. 125 will withdron if I
(1)share shop title with son. (2) Purchase Flat on joint name (3) Son & wife not keep any reletion with my perents in future.

2007-10-11 15:31:21 · 3 answers · asked by Sadanand 1

2007-10-11 15:29:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Being pleasant is one thing, but he goes over the top with his foolish flirty behaviour which is embarrassing me, since this is a small town and he has a high profile job.

2007-10-11 15:18:47 · 11 answers · asked by kip 3

If she went from 130 when you married to 290 after having your baby. Would you treat her different? Would you stop sleeping with her?

2007-10-11 15:08:20 · 25 answers · asked by ... 1

I want a job at the state fair that is here for 2 weeks just for a temporary thing since i never had a job before. my bf said no he wants to take care of me and really dosent want me working at the fair and he said so many things happen at the fair (like shootings) and he dosent want me there

I just want a job to see how i like it.

he is only my bf and not my husband. I do plan on spending the rest of my life with him but things dont always work that way so i need to experiance work. But he says just concentrate on school right now and he will buy me what i need.

2007-10-11 15:00:40 · 18 answers · asked by bitemenow90210 1

2007-10-11 14:59:24 · 12 answers · asked by nick c 2

My ex and I split in July after 2 years. I'm preggo and due anyday. He told me when I was 6 1/2 mos that he wasn't ready, we couldn't have it, etc.. I'm 34, independent, good job, support and I can take care of this baby on my own. He even said he didn't want me coming around for help (from him or his family) and didn't want to know if the baby was sick. So I told him, get out. Then I found out he was cheating on me. He hasn't called or anything to check on me and now I am past all the emotional hell I went thru these last few months. I am focusing on me and the baby. I want nothing to do with him, he is irresponsible, immature and I can't believe he totally abandoned me. I feel he would not be a good role model anyway. If he decided to come around later, should I let him see our son. Again, I want nothing from him. I will never understand how someone could just do this to someone who loved them and their child. What would you do? FYI, he has been abusive when drinking.

2007-10-11 14:43:47 · 15 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4

there is no protection orders against me. i pay my childsupport monthly and i know that my exwife has remarried. can i make the agancy supply me with this information

2007-10-11 14:41:47 · 7 answers · asked by luvmydoghunter 1

2007-10-11 14:39:09 · 12 answers · asked by alex123 1

Husband and I have been married for 2 years, I have kids he does not. He really never has anything nice to say to the kids, he calles them stupid and retarted all the time.....HE does not ever talk to me, treats me more like a buddy instead of a wife. When I get home from work he gets on the phone and talks to various people like his friends and/or parents. I feel like I am not getting what I need from this relationship, I am not happy and I am sure he is not happy.......do not recomend talking, he dosen't talk to me at all....we have not had a talk since we have been married.

2007-10-11 14:36:21 · 20 answers · asked by sad_lonley_wife 1

2007-10-11 14:35:19 · 38 answers · asked by Joel S 1

Because all they're supposed to do is stay at home with the kids and keep the house clean?

2007-10-11 14:33:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would you do if you found out the guy u are with is married and has two sons. He is in the army and you have been with him for 6 months and had no idea. You hang out with his friends everyday and they never told you he was married. His wife ups and calls you one day wanting to know how u know him. She has moved back to her home town like 16 hours away. She moved back there about 8 months ago and she has a 4 year old by him and a 4 month old. And here is the bad news you are pregnant. He just lefted for iraq for the 2nd time and u tell him online that u are pregnant by him. He is cool with it until he finds out his wife has called me and knows everything. He writes me back telling me he wants me to have a abortion. His reason is that i am going to mess up his family if i have this kid. I told him i was not going to have a abortion i was going to have the kid. I told him not to worry about me because I will do this on my own if i have to and he dont have to do sh*t for me or the...

2007-10-11 14:33:25 · 9 answers · asked by More then one on this account 2

I think that a real man will support his child anyway, and the child's mother will just squander the money. The mother should only get half of her entitlement for coming between a marriage and family.

2007-10-11 14:28:51 · 19 answers · asked by Lelar 6

we are like a team when we are together and we always keep a smile on our face. He told me the about a month ago that he wanted to spoil me and can sees us together and gettin married one day he is 29 and i am 22. Then when we was in the moment he says i want you to have my child lol i was like whattttttt u have losted ur mind. Well now it is like he wants to be with me but he dont he is keeping things from me now that we use to beable to talk about. Did i do something wrong i told him i just need sometime on the baby thing because i dont want just a baby daddy i want a husband then a kid. How can i fix this? I dont know if i even can??!!

2007-10-11 14:19:22 · 46 answers · asked by More then one on this account 2

2007-10-11 14:08:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an online friend who is going through something similar in his life that I am in mine. We're both going through separation from our spouses. We've never met, and we don't ever intend to, so why am I bothered that he's jumping into a relationship right away since he's left his wife?
This is not sitting well with me at all.

2007-10-11 14:08:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-11 14:06:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had try to talk to her but she get mad every time i try and i do
want to ask her to make my self to feel better and maybe she
can tell me something that is not what i thinking but she dont let me she had change with me and she had gime lots of reason that she make me think wrong about her

2007-10-11 14:05:33 · 4 answers · asked by ANTONIOAGUILERA 1

Were you satisfy?..honestly!

2007-10-11 14:01:23 · 5 answers · asked by Bibi 5

Hi all. This isn't the right category but I felt I could get better answers from people here rather than in 'singles and dating'.

I'm 21, been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years, and I'm hesitant to have sex.

I have a dad that cheats on my mum regularly. It's disgusting, and I see my mum suffer a lot from it. I really wish my relationship doesn't become like my parents. And so I equate not having sex as being safe from that.

Has anyone been in the same situation? Will I ever let go? Should I let my bf go and explore what I dare not?

2007-10-11 14:00:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous