I try so hard.. I love on her and feel on her. And just want the same in return. Im not always wanting sex. I just want to be noticed. But she can just sleep and ignore all the attention.. I think she is hoping I will fall asleep or go away.
But she says she loves my guts..... Im so confused..
2007-10-11 16:52:06 · 10 answers · asked by zerk_078 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont know, Either she is gay or just real low sex drive. I dont think she will cheat. She is hot as hell.. She told me before she doesnt like to have sex because she doesnt like her boobs.. She had a issue with that.. I got her some implants and it never changed..
I think im good looking, but she can beat your self esteme down.. So right now im unsure.. I work out at a gym and try to take care of myself. But I cant talk to any other ladies because my self esteme is ruined.
2007-10-11 17:06:59 · update #1
I must add. When I lay with her.. I will feel all over her. Not sexual.. I will feel her legs and back, stomach and arms.. I will kiss, lick and rub.. And I get nothing but a limp body.. She either ignores me or is a really deep sleeper. I have lived with her for 13 years. I have even hugged on her and felt on every inch of her body... Including licking her all over and kissing her but.. With no response what so ever.. Its a let down so hard. I dont know what else to do..
2007-10-11 17:19:56 · update #2
Well she has been like this ever since I known her... 13 Years or so.. I was hoping it would get better.. Or she would hit her prime.. But its really tearing me apart.. I dont think love is suppose to be like this.
2007-10-11 17:34:32 · update #3
Well she has been like this ever since I known her... 13 Years or so.. I was hoping it would get better.. Or she would hit her prime.. But its really tearing me apart.. I dont think love is suppose to be like this.
2007-10-11 17:34:33 · update #4
I am in the same boat. **** it lets go to vegas.
2007-10-12 15:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by rainbow johnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hon, it's not you. She already said that she's self-conscience about her body. Tell her how beautiful she really is to you and stop at nothing to prove it to her. I would suggest that you give her a sensuous massage, exploring every muscle she has. If she prefers to use a sheet, all the better! Just be sure to add a dose of that Wicked Cinnamon stuff when massaging you-know-where. BTW, leave other women out of the equation. That is such a turn-off and most women can sense that. Now, go in peace & do as I say. It's after midnight now.
2007-10-11 17:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Chiksita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she truly loves you she will show it, anyone can say I love you and punch you in the face right after saying it.
Some times she's hoping for you to fall a sleep.
You should ask her does she find you attractive any more or why wont she love you anymore or just tell her you want to please her. Maybe then she will come around if not then tell her that you don't like how she's treating you.
2007-10-11 16:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by kim w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pal there something very wrong here and it is with your wife from your typing you staged you think she wouldnt cheat. you just might want to opn up your eyes on that women can do that and never act no different but the bottom line is she aint going to show it till you catch her fact. a woman dont change that fast except when another man is in her life fact. my honest opion?
2007-10-11 17:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 20 and my wife is 32, i got about the same problem.
2007-10-11 20:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by burning275 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her by looking straight into her eyes and say ' honey,u are the sexiest and the most caring women in my life '
2007-10-11 16:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is lying
love is action
divorce her
it is NOT going to get better
if anything she will cheat eventually
2007-10-11 17:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not physically interested in you but like your companionship. or she's mad about something that needs to be resolved.
2007-10-11 16:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE MUST BE REALLY PISSED AT YOU AND HOLDING OUT.....FIND OUT WHAT IS WRONG!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-10-11 16:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by justbcuzitzfun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see a counsellor.....
only this will help you
2007-10-11 17:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by back to life and enjoying 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋