2007-10-11 14:39:09 · 12 answers · asked by alex123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-10-11 14:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is there to question...if he is mentally abusive and a gambler then why are you with him?!? There is a man out there that isn't like that. It is hard as he!! to leave someone but you deserve better.
2007-10-11 22:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine was always mentaly abusive when he wasnt he was physically abusive didnt gamble but was a heavy drinker...best thing u can do ,but its the hardest thing 2 do but the obvious thing is......get out of it leave him...u ll thank your lucky stars u did after a while n your recover n rewaken the real you.some times though when he was on 1 i wished held just hit me and then its over ...mental drives u mental n hurts so much more glglgl with it n tc
2007-10-11 21:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is to leave him. Any one who is mentally abusive can easily become physically abusive as well for any of many reasons. Get out while you can or if you have children see an attorney so that you can throw him out and keep the house.
2007-10-11 21:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, seek out a therapist for yourself. (A victim of mental abuse myself, a good therapist helped me become strong enough to be able to confront him.) Then ask him to come with you to therapy and try to get it all aired out there. If he staunchly refuses, the most important thing you can do is save yourself by getting out of the marriage.
Long term mental abuse can destroy your self-esteem. His gambling can put your credit rating in jeopardy, which can also severely impair your self-esteem. You are the best asset that you have, protect yourself - especially if you have children. You don't want them to think that your husbands actions are acceptable.
2007-10-11 21:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Patti P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself 2 questions.
What kind of life do you have living with someone with the problems your husband has.
Will he go for professional help....he has 2 very serious problems.
If you don't like the answers you come up with....you need to leave.
2007-10-11 21:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like A bad habbit...you could get caught up in it (gambling) and NO ONE DESERVES TO BE ABUSED MENTALY OR PHYSICALLY!!! :~)
2007-10-11 21:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by shastacat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clean out the bank account and move on and file for divorce. Good luck!
2007-10-11 21:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by Left Wing kool aid stops here 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he is mentally abusive now...there is a good chance he will later be physically abusive....get out!!! you do NOT deserve to be treated like ****! love yourself...get out....best wishes
2007-10-11 21:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by aguilar_laurita 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
devorce him before it gets bad u could be in danger!
2007-10-11 21:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Oakie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmmmm WHAT ARE YOU DOING STILL BEING THERE?.
Hello!!!!!!! isn't it time you left?.
2007-10-11 21:49:50 · answer #11 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋