Marriage & Divorce - 11 October 2007

And at the same time keep her from making the moves on my husband ? She might move into the apt. complex. I want to be a Christian witness to her but I do see attempts by her to flirt with my husband.

2007-10-11 05:26:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got unemployed, I am bearely sustaining myself rightnow, but currently working for a job,. but I have a court order saying that I have to pay 1500 a month., what should I do to get it deducted? where am i going to get money from to pay the child support when i bearly have to eat. when i find a job, my job wont be paying me as much as i was making before, and wont be able to afford such a big amount of child support. what should i do?

2007-10-11 05:25:19 · 20 answers · asked by SG 2 1

Now, those of you who are familiar with my questions will know the situation between me and my husband Albert. He's insane and has been carted off to the menagerie this afternoon.

Now, my question is thus: Do i go and visit him tonight with the obligatory bunch of grapes, or do i put my feet up infront of the telly with a glass of wine, box of chocs, and watch Eastenders?

2007-10-11 05:14:14 · 14 answers · asked by . 7

My Wife has a male "best friend" she met at work years ago and last year I started getting jealous and suspicious of their relationship. Our relationship was going through some hard times, I was working too hard and was depressed about an illness I found out I had and then, once I started having these feelings of jealousy I started to distance myself from her instead of talking to her like I should of.

Well my suspicions did end up being correct, my wife had a relationship with this "best friend". It was an on and off thing for about 5 months and was not an intentional affair. She would meet him and cry about how bad her relationship at home was and they ended up kissing. They both said they regretted it after it happened, but then it happened multiple times in that 5 month period. I started to spy on her email and found out that they chatted and emailed back and forth a lot, I don't know if they even believed they were having an affair, but it was painfully obvious too me.

She finally confessed it to me back in May, I think she wanted to tell me and couldn't, but I also told her I found the emails and she had no choice but to tell me.

We had some pretty big blowouts, but have agreed to work on our marriage. The biggest thing that bothers me is that she wants to stay friends with this guy. I asked her, and she agreed not too see him or talk to him for a while. But every now and then she has these breakdowns that she doesn't get to talk to her friend, it always ends in tears and I give a small concession and let her email him at work for professional reasons only, then I say it's Ok to ask how he is, but nothing too detailed. I am feeling like a doormat. I want her to realize that having this guy still around is like leaving the knife still in my chest, but she says she doesn't have any other friends and she feels so lonely with out him around.

She says she loves me more than anything and it's not a competition between us, but I am afraid to ask "him or me" because I shouldn't have to give her an ultimatum and she is not a child and should be able to make her own decisions
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I know the affair was a stupid mistake and I believe she regrets it, but am I wrong to think she should let this guy go forever? Should I be stronger and let them rebuild their trust with me? We have three small children and I don't want to give up what we have, but at the same time I need to do something to stop feeling the way I do right now.

2007-10-11 05:10:20 · 47 answers · asked by qwerty0987623 1

1. they are saying that the girl is of different religion and caste]
2. we love each other so much that we can't live without eachother.

2007-10-11 05:09:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-11 05:07:04 · 18 answers · asked by red monk 1

I made Albert a Greek Salad for his tea tonight. He suggested that the feta cheese should have been crumbled and not sliced. I became upset with his obvious displeasure of it, and inadvertently accused him of having a bit of "hows yer father" with the big barmaid from the Star & Garter. We rowed for about three hours and the old boy upstairs from us became annoyed and started hammering down on the floor. Albert is now in the huff and not talking to me. I feel upset as i went to the trouble of making him the Greek Salad in the first place. Geoffrey says i do too much for him already and that he's an ungrateful tit towards me. He's just gone out now down the Star & Garter and taken wee Pongo with him. I'm worried that big Betty will be working tonight. I bet she makes better Greek Salad than i do. What should i do please? Thanks in advance. I'm terribly upset.

2007-10-11 05:06:26 · 22 answers · asked by . 7

after a divorce, the person wants to marry again? Isn't a one-time bad thing enough to last a lifetime? Why subject yourself to that possibility again?
Wouldn't peace of mind be better? Being alone doesn't always mean being lonely!
Can I get some opinions on this please!

2007-10-11 04:55:12 · 11 answers · asked by sugarbee 7

2007-10-11 04:49:38 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1

What kind of dirty gross bathroom things do you do infront of your spouse, or your spouse does infront of you?

#1, #2, menstrual stuff.....etc....anything.

please tell me are you the husband / wife, how long you've been married or together, and how the other feels about seeing you do those kind of things.............

2007-10-11 04:44:52 · 23 answers · asked by alcmena 4

where do you work in canada

2007-10-11 04:41:25 · 9 answers · asked by Alfred Kenyi J 1

I am seperated from my husband and we getting a divorce soon. I left him 9 months ago because of his drinking and it was starting to affect our daughters lives. I left him wanting him to change and get better but I guess he didn't want that cause he is with someone else and she is 6 months pregnant. It is hard for me because I didn't want it to turn out this way. How do I act towards this innocent baby? I know I need to act mature because this is my daughters half sister. Do I need to act a certain way towards this child and the mother? There is just so much hate towards my husband. Has anyone been in this situation?Thanks!

2007-10-11 04:35:22 · 23 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1

I am in the middle of a divorce and my husband is going around slandering my name to everyone that will listen. He tells them i have left him for another man and have had an affair. I have not..i divorced him becuase he is a terrible man! He can't face that and is making out he is the poor soul..i don't mind as i know the truth as do my friends but he is hurting my 25 year old son. What can i do?

2007-10-11 04:30:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and in those 5 years i really wanted it to work.i do my part and get no response.no kisses,no conversation,no touches,cuddles,no hugs,there are times i wish i was the xbox 360 or his best friend.now i am leaving after 5 years and now all of a sudden he wants to cuddle and hug me and starts conversations and tells me he loves me...im confused.will he start this and stop or what?do i leave ladies?

2007-10-11 04:24:59 · 14 answers · asked by syreatha2004 1

My ex-mother-in-law is breaking her own granddaughter's heart by refusing to go to her wedding because I will be there. (I'm her mother) I am shocked over her behavior, I don't like her and she doesn't like me, but I would go anywhere my granddaughter invited me proudly. It wouldn't matter who was there. I would want to be at her wedding. This is causing strain on me, it makes me feel so bad for my daughter. I don't know what to do. My ex-husband refuses to ever speak to me so I can't go that route. I'm afraid he won't show to keep his Mommie happy. This is pathetic.

The ex-mother-in-law is a real witch to do this to my daughter. I never did anything to this devil woman, and her loser son has thrown more fuel onto the fire running and only telling his side of the story. This idiot needs to grow up and figure out how to deal with me on his own. He is 60 years old now!!!I don't know what kind of advise someone can give me, it's a pretty hopeless situation.

2007-10-11 04:19:07 · 25 answers · asked by janelle p 1

my car is in my name and my husbands name. The title says MR.****** OR Mrs.*****. My husband took my car from me and has it hid somewhere. We got my car from his father. we still owe his father and we had a verbal agreement of payments. the payments were not specific. nothing in writing. and his father backed out of the agreement when i left my husband and said that i needed to get a loan in a week just because they were all mad that i left. well i couldn't do that. i was a stay at home mother. my husband was the money maker. and he knew that i wouldn't be able to. I have the title to the car. I want my car back because he has 3 different vehicles and that was my only car. We have a 2 year old together and she is in my custody. I need transportation for me and my child. What is my rights with getting my car back?

2007-10-11 04:09:48 · 22 answers · asked by susan 1

In those very intense moments i get a little too excited I do stuff I have never dreamed about doing. My question is...is it sexuall bliss or taking it too far...

2007-10-11 04:07:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

You know how we are guys. We see cleavage and we just have to stare for a few seconds. I don't think it's disrespectful because the women who show their cleavage want us to look. I admit it....I love looking at cleavage.

2007-10-11 03:59:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a newly married man and want my wife always happy..but i can't give her expencive gifts on her b'day....

2007-10-11 03:52:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend has been married twice and has divorced the same man twice. They have a child together. She talks about him allot. I do understand it is normal to talk about ex’s to a point, but it seems a bit excessive. He shows up at her house unannounced and one of her other friends has described her house as Home Base for this guy. They have a long history and at times I get the feeling that their relationship doesn’t have the closure you would think. I love this woman with all of my heart and I know she loves me. I want to ask her to marry me and our relationship is right at that point. Should I be concerned about this or should I just trust her heart?

2007-10-11 03:51:33 · 17 answers · asked by Twigits 3

....Ok I'm flattered with that....but the thing is that guys think that I'm not fun at all and somehow they expect to be like that a really good girl....

2007-10-11 03:51:01 · 9 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5

2007-10-11 03:32:58 · 10 answers · asked by tcbgwennap 1

Why do I find a WOMAN in general to be very extremely important in my life??? Is it just me as a male? Am I the only GUY/MAN in this world, that finds a woman so extremely important in my life??? Are there any guys/men out there that also just like me, in finding a woman in general to be important in their lives just as well? Also, is there any Women out there, that also CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT A MAN IN GENERAL????

2007-10-11 03:32:16 · 10 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

Me and my mom have had a rocky relationship for the past couple months and it's been getting worst. Yesturday we got in this huge arguemnt and i called her a b****. I would have never in a million yrs think i would call her something like that and i just want to show her i never meant to disrespect her like that but i don't want to suck uo to her either. We have not talked for the past 2 days and my mom is really stubborn. what should i do

2007-10-11 03:20:21 · 31 answers · asked by ? 5

I want out and this his just another control tactic.
What should be my next move?

2007-10-11 03:04:10 · 21 answers · asked by mrs O 6

I have a guy friend that I'm in love with. I know he really likes me but we live in different states. We stay in contact but I would love to know if I can influence him in any way to make him feel for me the way I feel for him. Any ideas would really help me. I cannot stop thinking of him. We got together once but now we just chat ...like friends. I invited him to visit..he said he will but that the prob is that its difficult to get me there...and that's true as I'm usually travelling. I dont want to be pushy, Im not the type. I feel he would be more proactive if he were in a position to date seriously. He's studying heavily. Can a long term good friend become a lover one day? Or am I living in dreamland? We havnt discussed our feelings and I cant bring myself to bring this up.

2007-10-11 02:55:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-11 02:31:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

im putting together a scrapbook type book for my husband who is getting ready to deploy. i want to include some quotes but i cant find anygood ones. anything to do with love, missing him, things like that. also if anyone has any good ideas of other things i should include i would really appreciate it. it was supposed to include letters from our entire extended family but they r too lazy to help!!

2007-10-11 02:30:53 · 8 answers · asked by daisycm 5

He ruined our finances, blaming it on me. Told most of his friends, coworkers, family and church members that I had borderline personality disorder and now none of them will talk to me, destroying my support network. Told me I was crazy and paranoid that I suspected a change in people's attitude toward me. He was cruel, screaming and spitting in my face that he wished my then newborn daughter was never born when I breastfed her. He insisted that I was a burden and wanted me to leave a lot so the family would have peace. Going out I was attacked more. I yelled a lot in resistance. He said it is in the past and I shouldn't be upset. He told be about wanting me to kill myself less than a week ago. He is known to be the nicest guy ever to others. I don't know what to do, think, feel, etc. Any suggestions would help.

2007-10-11 02:30:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

he just put soem things anywhere then forget where he placed them ! how can i make him be organized on things?

2007-10-11 02:18:11 · 16 answers · asked by shy girl 1