Marriage & Divorce - 11 October 2007

Or just given the day off without pay?

2007-10-11 02:16:06 · 31 answers · asked by Kev L 6

How do you deal with your ex husband that his wife and him talk about you when you see him to exchange the kid's.

I'm not asking about how to exchange the kids, I only want to know how to deal with it.

2007-10-11 02:03:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have hard time dealing with a 4 year old boy. To understand this boy, his parents are not together. The mother is with another man. Later on, the 4yr old boy told me that the boyfriend of her mom was gone for a compitation in far country. Who knows if today is the story and tomorrow will be another story. This child is just frustrated and angry for the family situation.

2007-10-11 01:49:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

In follow up to other questions.
Seems i managed to marry a controling man - how do I manage him? I don't want to control him back or emotionally blackmail him. In a mature adult way how do i get some self respect back and quit him having this power over me?

Divorce is not an option.

2007-10-11 01:43:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriedn and i love each other toomuch.We had a 7 months old child together but we are not yet married and havent agree on when are we going to get married yet.The time my baby was two weeks his family come to my family and said that they want to marry me as soon as possible.I was so surprised because i havent agree with him yet, and when i ask him about this he said he knows nothing.Last week they went to my family agian same story, i am so angry with him because he dont want to tell me what exactly is going on.I think hi sfamily is taking decisions for him.We are both working and live far from home.Is his family going to marry me for him, but we will do it when it i sthe right timebut what if they pay lobola for him?.Please help

2007-10-11 01:33:24 · 11 answers · asked by mmmmmmmmmm 1

Since we've been going through this arguement for the past three days, I don't know how she's feeling.For those who don't know, this is regarding the last two questions I asked that everyone may read.Every morning I'll call home to see how she and my son are doing.I leave earlier in the morning so I'm not sure if they're running late or just to say good morning.Now she hasn't called me since we got into the arguement.I had another child with another woman a few years ago and that happened just as my wife and I started dating, officially.I didn't find out until almost 1 year later.So she feels that I cheated on her.I would never do that but I guess I did.Now she uses that, and I guess she can, against me.Since then we've held on to each other.I can't lose her over things like my families life choices or other things I may not have control over.We've been through so much together and had plenty of good times.But still what can I do to convince her that we can still make things work?

2007-10-11 01:25:14 · 8 answers · asked by aaronf_8212 1

2007-10-11 00:47:17 · 5 answers · asked by wariorjj 1

2007-10-11 00:16:15 · 26 answers · asked by ? 7