Marriage & Divorce - 10 October 2007

what u guys love in a women!!! and best bday gift
Question Details: well my wife is creole she is beautiful i mean big boobs and everything smart, a complite lady in public but a freak in bed. she can cook the hell outta everything she dont nag a lot unless im wrong i swear my friend love to come over for her foods i loves having football nights cause of her caracter and cooking.
well its her bday saturday but the army is sending me somewhere ill be back the next day what can i get her in a hurry to say your the best and i love you so much. and i really appreciate you.

2007-10-10 13:39:39 · 3 answers · asked by john c 1

When it rains she wants me to take her to school instead of standing at the bus stop. She tells me to meet her at the bus stop instead of the house. She told me her mom does not want her to go with me. I told her to ask her and that is what she said. I told her to ask her out of consideration. I believe I am not breaking any law by picking her up. I have been told that when the children request being with me that denying them this time is not in the best interests of the kids. I had mentioned earlier that I have approval to bring my concerns in front of a judge and this is one of them. I just know my ex will tell my kids "daddy is taking mommy to court" and make me look like the evil one. As my kids get older they are wanting to decide who to spend time with and the court needs to know. Anyone have some more insight?

2007-10-10 13:38:23 · 10 answers · asked by paco 1

One of my neurotic male co-workers said that it is really not cheating if you decide to have relations with someone other thatn your spouse only one time. It's only cheating if it's a ongoing affair. I say they are both cheating,what about you ?

2007-10-10 13:25:34 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-10 13:19:53 · 13 answers · asked by pennypincher 1

I'm writing a paper and want to get others point of veiw. I'm having trouble coming up with an introduction. Anything will help. Thanks.

2007-10-10 13:18:25 · 32 answers · asked by prettyvegascutie 1

I was just wondering what other people thought of contract marriages. For example of the marriages Im talking about , say a guy is in the military and he wants to get married so he will get paid more, get out of the barricks. And the female gets medical insurance and a cut of the money every month.What do you think?

2007-10-10 13:13:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf and i recently broke up. We had a live-in set up for many years. he was the one who initiated the break up. I moved out. there was a third party. but after just a few days he sends me txt messages saying that he misses me, and he thinks he loves me even more now. he asked me if i would take him back. but he still has a relationship with the girl. i told him i would have to decide about that once he breaks up with the girl. He tol me he's willing to break up with the girl. But it seems that its taking him too long to decide.I tol him not to call or text me anymore. That my doors are closed completely. Now he always calls me but I don't answer the phone. I still love him but I don't trust him anymore.

2007-10-10 13:10:47 · 20 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3

They hate me because their daughter and I may get divorced. I don't like them either but they are going to be in my life if I decide to reconcile my wife. Am I married to them too?

2007-10-10 13:08:25 · 7 answers · asked by airmandan10 2

I can't understand why men are unfaithfull, even if they are inlove with a woman, it's not a good reason to stop being unfaithfull I hate them all

2007-10-10 12:52:09 · 28 answers · asked by ARACELI 2

Is it possible to be friends with an ex ?

2007-10-10 12:51:43 · 39 answers · asked by Tony 1

OK heres my situation, I have been patient but now I am at my wits end and want to know if he will ever change...
I have been with a guy for 2 years, we've been living together(with my parents) for a year.
He drinks too much and smokes. I hate him smoking... We broke up for a few months in the first year and he quit smoking then, we got back together and he started again.
I wanna buy a house soon but I'm dont wanna be with him if he's smoking, he says he's trying, most of the time he will only smoke when he drinks but thats not good enough for me.
WHat can I do to make him quit or is it not possible... Thanks for your help

2007-10-10 12:27:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is currently being harassed by his crazy ex wife. They have been divorced for 2 years and share two children ages 17 and 18. She constantly calls his cell phone numerous times if he does not answer (today was 20x by 11am) and then calls his work. Can he get a restraining order against her even though they do need to communicate for some things regarding their one child that still lives with her mother? If so, how do you go about getting a retraining order in Ontario?

2007-10-10 12:17:59 · 20 answers · asked by Emerick 2

This is just to weird. So this is the situation, my husband works in an office with a lot of females, I don't worry about him cheating or anything we have a really good relashionship. We talk about things all the time and many people have commented on how we hardly ever fight. The only problem is that in the last few months I guess some of his co-workers have told him that he is a really good man (which he is) they tell him to tell me how lucky I am, so he comes home and tells me. I just look at him and say I know I am lucky. It was okay I guess the first few times but know he will call me at work out of the blue to metion that what someone has said. The problem is I know I am lucky, but he is lucky too and he never mentions that. It just feels like he is rubbing it in my face and I don't know what he wants me to say to that. Maybe I am over reacting because these women don't see him at home. Do I feel this way because I think he is treating his co-workers better than me? :(

2007-10-10 12:11:22 · 16 answers · asked by Crazy Train 2

I am in my thirties. I have had only one "O" from intercourse in my life. I know, sad. I really want to figure this out as it is depressing. It makes me feel horrible that my boyfriend can't get me to, trust me, it's not him. And I know it makes him feel horrible. It's me, I just don't know why. I am so jealous of my friends that don't seem to have this problem. Serious, mature answers only, please. thanks

2007-10-10 12:03:02 · 9 answers · asked by biscuit 3

I filed for divorce last October; He moved out in February to live with another woman; it's one year later and he is still not in a hurry to have this settled. He is supposed to pay the mortgage and I pay the utilities and live in the house until our divorce is final. Now an inspector wants to come to see our property due to lack of payment. If I pay the mortgage for the months it's late, I will have to borrow money...I can't believe it's one year since I filed already. Is there ever a deadline as to how long these things can go on? We live in New York State.

2007-10-10 11:59:41 · 11 answers · asked by P K 2

I thought Gay Marriage was supposed destroy the "sanctity" of marriage? Judging from these states it's done the exact opposite? Shouldn't they have the highest divorce rate? For that matter, why are the top 10 states with highest divorce rates red, and the 9 lowest blue? I thought Republicans were trying to protect the "sanctity" of marriage? Well, it looks like they failed. Heck, it looks like the whole idea of marriage being destroyed by Gay Marriage has been crushed.

How can you possibly continue to hold the stance that Gay Marriage hurts the sanctity of marriage? If you say, well that's just Massachusetts. Then you need to explain Spain, Belgium, the Netherlands, and Canada, which have also survived perfectly fine.

2007-10-10 11:40:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it ok to date a man who has been married 4 times and plans to marry again?

2007-10-10 11:26:09 · 39 answers · asked by classy1 1

married for 2 years. Hubby is pretty reserved and shy. I have to initiate everything and I am tired. He won't even touch me unless I do. My ex husband couldn't get his hands off me and my hubby of 2 years won't even touch me. What would you do in my situation???

PS: I am attractive, 5"7, 130 pounds so before you say loose weight, etc..... looks is not the issue here.

2007-10-10 11:13:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want a relationship for life and will put everything into it.

2007-10-10 11:07:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin who is 42 years of age, very pretty, talented, and with a good personality and of decent reputation is always in church praying and praying for others. When I introduce her to men, she always says: "I want a man with a good pure heart with good intentions not just anyone."
My family especial has been trying to set her up with a lot of dates. She is not picky, but just too religious, and too virtuous.

What are your suggestions?

2007-10-10 11:04:53 · 9 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5

evertime we argue she calls the police .and has had me aresed on flase charges nothing seems to work. now we are getting divoce I love her but i cant take any .sence i been out she doesnt call.seening my 2year old isnt happening eather.

2007-10-10 11:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by slowdown 1

He was at his mother in-law house, he put his head at his mother lap, usually she would give him a massage to his head, if their body are so closed to each other,would you believed they also do sex too if no one in the house? he had fantasies have sex with the mother in-law every time he see her,right after he married to his wife?do any one believed they did not have sex also?

2007-10-10 10:31:41 · 16 answers · asked by sska 1

when they have a sexual desire what do they do, do they

go out to various clubs and bars, and actively seek men, sleep with different men, until one sticks with them?

is the sexual part inside their brain and body, dead?

since they feel it is wrong for men to watch porn to relieve sexual tension, I am curious to hear what they do with theirs?

and what makes their actions morally superior to a man viewing porn?

2007-10-10 10:29:50 · 8 answers · asked by animosity 3

My husband of 2 years has been talking to girl online since before we were married. I didn't know until a few monthes after we were married. He has promised me over and over that it wouldn't happen again and he just keeps doing it. I'm really overweight and he has admited that the weight is a major issue to him and he has also admited that if something better came along, he'd be gone. He also admited that he married me originally for money. A couple days later he says that it's not the way he feels anymore. I told him that your feelings don't change that easily and that quickly! I have a fear he's still cheating on me online. I don't know if I can't ever truely trust him again and plus we have been fighting quite a bit! He's in the military and he was talking to one of the other soldiers wives and the soldier found out about it. She cut off all ties when she found out that I he was not telling me what he was saying. I don't know what to do anymore. Someone please help!!

2007-10-10 10:14:35 · 44 answers · asked by Heartbroken 1

okay it seems like after having my baby me n my bf fight more even over some dumb things.how can we stop?

2007-10-10 10:13:47 · 30 answers · asked by lilsexymexi 1

I really can't take this cat anymore?
So... from the minute my husband adopted this cat its been nothing but trouble.

He has been biting and scratching my daughter from the first day he was here she has scars on her arms and legs. He shits and pisses in my house.scratches my couch.has ruined countless items. I really can't take it anymore.

My daughter hates the cat (she wants nothing to do with him) my husband won't part with getting rid of the damn thing because"hes part of the family".

My husband is on a business trip and I really want to get rid of the cat. Is it a little harsh to take it to the vet? how else do i get my husband to get this animal out of my life?

2007-10-10 10:07:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have been married for a little over three years. We have just grown apart and will probably be getting a divorce soon.

When we first got married her credit was horrible, so most things are in my name only. Her credit has now improved and she can probably get a loan.

Both cars are in my name only, title and loan. The house loan is in my name only. The house deed is in both names. The credit card debt is in my name. Her school loans are in her name only.

When we seperate I would like to keep the house, the car I drive, and I'll pay for the credit card debt, it's less than $3000. She will have to pay her student loans herself. I would be willing to let her keep the car she drives as long as she got a loan to pay off what is owed in her name only.

What are the chances of me being able to keep the house? And getting her to get a loan to payoff the car that she drives?

2007-10-10 09:57:48 · 7 answers · asked by jtojtojto 1

my bf asked me to marry him (im 19 hes 24)
do you think its a good idea to get married young or not? specific reasons please

2007-10-10 09:56:31 · 23 answers · asked by jelly bean 1

he says I'm so fat, I can't even dodge responsibility

should I be mad?

2007-10-10 09:54:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

and that you should know as little as possible the defects of the person you are to marry?

2007-10-10 09:52:52 · 9 answers · asked by bananapuddin 1