One of my neurotic male co-workers said that it is really not cheating if you decide to have relations with someone other thatn your spouse only one time. It's only cheating if it's a ongoing affair. I say they are both cheating,what about you ?
2007-10-10 13:25:34 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Funny you say that,the first thing I thought of was good ol' Bill Clinton when he said that.lol
2007-10-10 14:51:45 · update #1
i'm gonna have to take a walk to RI...to have a face off with you about my clinton...you know he is an honorary panameno...cause he walks the walk and talks the talk...
trust me, that guy knows it's cheating...who doesn't know this...if you ask the question in reverse check to see what he will answer..if his wife was to sleep with some dude just one time, would he be ok with it since it's not cheating?
people always tend to minimize their actions just so they can avoid dealing with true consequences...
2007-10-10 18:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by la21unica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is ABSOLUTELY ridiculous! It's especially bad if you choose to have a one-nighter, because you are then lying to, and using, TWO people...totally unfair!
Even if you think about another person when you are with someone else, you have committed adultery in your heart...still cheating!
I would tell the co-worker's SO to get tested for STDs.....
because he is obviously not only neurotic, but a pig as well.
2007-10-10 14:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inform your neurotic male co-worker that even a 1 night stand constitutes cheating , it's amazing how people try to justify their inability to stay monogomous to their chosen spouse isnt it .
Tell him if his wife doesnt catch him in his lies , she'll definetly catch him in his STD's when he finally passes 1 on to her because condoms do not protect against ALL STD's.
He's a jerk.
2007-10-10 13:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating.How u feel when ur husband does the same thing did u feel cheated or not.In the sameway ur Husband feels.So, before doing this think atleast twice bcze after tht u lost the right to say something if ur husbad does the same thing.
2007-10-10 13:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by jahanvie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just say he is not guilty so he can feel better 4 his self.. of course its cheating.... ask him: What if u start with someone 4 one night stand n then turns to b an affair? things like that happen every day..
2007-10-10 14:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by napoli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating in my eyes is even if you look at another person and allow your self to think about them for more then a min even 30 seconds . now I know there are a lot of attractive people so people will catch your eye.but if you think about it to long there must be problems in your relationship.
If it wasn't cheating then your could have one night stands everyday. Its is cheating.
2007-10-10 13:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by foxy lady 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, both cheating! It's like telling a little white lie, a cheat is a cheat a lie is a lie.
2007-10-10 13:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by kazbian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is almost as stupid as Bill Clinton saying oral sex is not really sex. Even if you have a fantasy about cheating, you have already cheated in your heart. There is NEVER an acceptable reason to cheat.
2007-10-10 13:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
I think it was a typical male answer. Of course its cheating. Give the man a slap
2007-10-10 19:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by JanJan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are cheating, none of this "elastic" interpretation for those who think a one time shag isn't. Twenty-five one night stands or a four month affair, it involves sex with other people.
2007-10-10 21:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋