and that you should know as little as possible the defects of the person you are to marry?
2007-10-10 09:52:52 · 9 answers · asked by bananapuddin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's a gamble#
2007-10-10 10:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A matter of chance? No, meeting your partner is a matter of chance. Happiness should come before marriage- If you are not happy now (single or couple) chances are you will bring that into marriage- all though your partner can create hard days for ya- but that doesn't have to stop your happiness- You should watch "The Secret" on video-
And you will never know all your partners defects- Example- what may be a defect to you may not be a defect to her-
O.k, let me break that down a liitle further- She or he may tell you their defects- but what if they do something, not thinking it is a defect- but you do- now thats a matter of chance-
2007-10-10 10:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by artclasspaint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A happy marriage takes alot of work,patience,understanding
compromise and love.You should know as much as you can about their defects and accept them with their defects .you should both work on your imperfections together.
2007-10-10 11:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course not... While chance does play a role in relationships (i.e., very often you meet people by chance), a lot depends on the personalities, compatibility, wisdom and life experience of the partners.
2007-10-10 10:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No No No No No No No no......
Your meeting was chance. From there it all has to do with attention to the relationship.
Eyes wide open and guarded heart seems to work.
The day you forget to be attentive and affectionate your relationship takes a turn for the worse.
2007-10-10 10:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Happiness in any relationship comes from working at communicating, understanding and compromise, and also not entering into a committed relationship with someone who does not have the qualities you are looking for (like kindness, understanding, etc.)
2007-10-10 10:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!! I believe that informed choices are the way to go and not rushing into anything (especially marriage). WHy would one leave anything this important to chance??
2007-10-10 10:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by that judi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, not at all. A happy marriage is due to common interests, trust, love, understanding and acceptance. Going in blind is just foolish.
2007-10-10 09:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, if u saw ur partner in their worse , and u still want them so thats soo good .
happiness depend on ur understanding , caring , sharing and loving to each other, their are things that r so silly to fight on, of course u can argue and fight but all of that happen but always be sure that u and ur partner r for each other, and u belong together and u r already each others partner.
good luck.
2007-10-10 10:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋