Marriage & Divorce - 10 October 2007

See my husband is a mailman too and they know each other. I really want to boink the mailman and he wants to boink me too. Should I boink the mailman anyway or change my mind, as we have already planned a playdate.

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2007-10-10 07:25:52 · 49 answers · asked by Lesson Learned 2

I am currently married to a wonderful man. I love him and he loves me. We get along well....EXCEPT for when it comes to his children. He has 3 children and I have 2. His children have always had behavioral problems. They visit therapists weekly and we are working with them as much as we can. However, two of the three are simply out of control. His daughter is completely disrespectful to me, and his son has fits of rage. I need to add that the "mother" is in and out of the picture. She visits with her children only when it is convenient for her. This seems to contribute to the childrens behavior problems. The problem is...I simply can't stand his kids. I have tried and tried to treat them like my own, but I always end up frustrated and feeling horrible about the way I feel for them. Lately the problems at home have gotten so bad, I don't even want to go home. What can I do? I hate feeling the way I do, but I don't know how to change it. Am I headed for divorce?

2007-10-10 07:14:42 · 12 answers · asked by THE RESCUE LLAMA!!! 3

2007-10-10 07:13:25 · 21 answers · asked by Wisdom Seeker 3

If your suppose to be best friend , came to you and told you she had been sleeping with your hysband for almost a year , but when you went to your husband he denied it and told you nothing would ever make him give me up?

2007-10-10 07:12:33 · 9 answers · asked by angel 2

Its not me, its my fiancee. She seems so uninterested. Like she doesnt want to experiment. She doesnt say no when i try things, but she never initiates. She says everything is ok, and she likes it. I try to please her in that way. You know, by "going down". Hoping she would take the hint. But none the less, no go. She also says, since that our realtionship means so much to her(and it does to me too) that its harder for her. What does that mean? I dont know what to do. I love her to death and would do anything for her.

2007-10-10 07:04:41 · 20 answers · asked by Eric Preece 2

When is enough, enough?

2007-10-10 06:53:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My child is 13 and me and this mother are divorced and have been since he was five it was a bad break up no good terms at all and is still tense at times. He has asked me the question I dread why did we get a divorce? I am not to sure if I should be frank with him or kinda sugar coat it a little for his sake
Please Help?

2007-10-10 06:49:56 · 14 answers · asked by FOXY 2

I have been living with one man for 27 years and now I've met another man who I adore. But I''m not sure if this 2nd man will keep close to me if I leave my first man?

2007-10-10 06:42:14 · 14 answers · asked by Angel 2

is it possible to support a family and move out of the parent's house on the salary that a medical resident makes. I hear they make very little, the max and min being 30,000 and 15,000 respectivly. also do residency programs allow time off for the wedding and honeymoons?

2007-10-10 06:39:05 · 2 answers · asked by sovietwarhawk 1

My husband and I were best friends for 10 years before we got married. We were both married before. Last night I learned what I already figured out. He cheated on his last wife more than once. I cheated on my Ex more than once. Our previous marriages were awful. For him no sex for 6 months or more at a time. His wife was very degrading to him. As for me I was resented for his business failing and no emotional support even when I was pregnant. It wasn't right I know. I can't imagine EVER cheating on my best friend and new husband, but will he cheat on me. We have a great relationship and we love each other more than we EVER did our Ex's. I want the answer to be no he won't cheat on me. I don't know how I could handle it if he did. I don't want to share him with anyone, not ever.

2007-10-10 06:22:42 · 12 answers · asked by Beth 2

2007-10-10 06:18:06 · 22 answers · asked by temmy G 2

What is your preference,, and why,,,,,,,,??????

2007-10-10 06:16:14 · 17 answers · asked by tommy C 1

We've had the 'men's version' so what do women wish their man would do sexually?

2007-10-10 06:13:58 · 9 answers · asked by coca cola 3

Been married 7 years and now after the third kid. He's 5 months old she can't have a multiple orgasm. She says she can't relax. Never had this problem before so maybe someone can help.

Do I give her time or is there a way I can help get her relaxed? tried massages, candle lit baths etc.

2007-10-10 06:04:31 · 20 answers · asked by crustedfilth 2

My Ex doesnt want to sign the birth certificate because he thinks he is not the father(which he is) so what do i do. i want him to sign it but it looks like im ganna end up giving my child my last name but if i do that can i still get chilkd support

2007-10-10 05:56:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have read so many bio's where these girls victims of their own stupidity and are now seeking some American to save them. They have been liars, cheaters, opportunist and now they want someone to save them. What makes them think anyone wants them now?

2007-10-10 05:52:00 · 8 answers · asked by Charles O 1

My husband was married and had a son- he is now 13 and they are divorced. He continued to pay her with money orders but she wasn't reporting the payment because she was also receiving the state assistance money- if she reported his payments she would've been unable to receive both.
I believe him because he still has the money order receipts-he tried to fight it but b/c he didn't write child support in the for column she said they were just gifts and the court chose her side.
Anyway it's been years and she has grown up. We have paid the child support payments monthly but haven't quite caught up with the back support yet. It was supposed to be spread until the child turned 18 and we pay a little more each month.
My problem is that yesterday the child support division seized our bank acct. It had all our bill money in it and pretty much nothing more. They said it will be seized until it's paid in full.
There is more but I ran out of room- read the detail portion, please...

2007-10-10 05:50:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!!
I have been married for 5 years. Everything was wonderful until my husband had an adjustment disorder after the death of his friend and hurt me in the worst way possible (before this, we never fought, rarely argued, and had NO problems at all). It has been a year and I still can't move past it. Everything has become even better than before, but the thought is still there, it still crosses my mind, some days are better than others. I know I have forgiven him, but I can't forget. Sometimes I wonder if it's worth it. How long did it take you to let go?

2007-10-10 05:25:36 · 17 answers · asked by SuperGurl78 3

just curious.. need lots of answers!

2007-10-10 05:25:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thanks for the good advice. Husband left me for a women who lives down the street and he lives down the street so I see them all of the time. Your good advice was to ignore them and let it go.
OK.
What next? How do I start a life here, in this neighborhood, in which they are both well known and invited to every social event. ( No, I don't talk and cry and complain to people in the neighborhood (only my mother) but they seem to have taken his side because of the power that they both yield, politically and socially). A woman ina couple that we were friends with and she and I used to go shopping and also walk for execise twice a week dropped me because her husband wanted to stay friends with my husband and OW. People volunteer that it must be hard for me, given that it is in my face. Whenever they ask about him, I stay neutral or say something positive. Is this the wrong approach? We do have two little kids that I don't want to suffer.

How do I start my own life? Thanks.

2007-10-10 05:17:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-10 05:10:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-10 05:09:23 · 14 answers · asked by firecracker 4

When we first hooked up, I work for three years before we had our first baby, after she was born i wanted to go back to work or go back to school, he said i should stay home since he grew up without his mom being at home (she worked) and he wanted his kids to have that. Well, 2years later we had another baby and i kept telling him i wanted to go to school because the kids would eventually go to school and i would be alone at home. again he said the kids needed me and i should stop being selfish! four years later we had another baby and to make a long story short, they are all in school now and during the years we opened a home based business that has done quite well over the years, but now with gas prices going up and the cost of living rising, and not to mention our kids wanting more expensive toys -2 r teenagers now! we r have a hard time keeping up with all the bills! NOW he wants me to go to work! is he crazy? i have no real skills and he says i am too dumb ! what should i do?

2007-10-10 05:03:52 · 14 answers · asked by gurlynmgurl 4

2007-10-10 05:00:46 · 24 answers · asked by Zeus 1

Tell me what did you do on that special day?

2007-10-10 04:48:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

so yesterday he came home from work and said.."hey,don't cook anything tomorow i am going out with my friends." i said okay and asked who is he going out to eat with? he got mad and said why do ukeep on asking me? and i was like i was just curious that it.

after this happened he went to workout and while he was out he got this IM ( i was on his account to change some internet settings)..that said " r u ready for tommorow?..Sarah( a girl!!)"
when he got home ..we talked...fooled around and i asked him again "hubby,who r u going out with?" and he goes " i told you." i said no so he says he is going out with mike.( a guy).

why would he lie to me?
is he cheating on me?

2007-10-10 04:38:34 · 26 answers · asked by Just another gal 3

I'm a wife and mother of 2 kids. My husband and I are having huge issues and they are mostly from myself. Ever since I became pregnant with my first baby, I've totally focused on that part of my life. I think it was because I was young (21 yrs). My husband says that I am neglecting him. I never even tried to be that way. I stay home with the kids now and am not working. I think part of it is because I need to be with people and work. So what can I do to change my ways besides working, which I am planning on doing?

2007-10-10 04:37:54 · 9 answers · asked by Jenn 2

I lost my husband 2 years ago and know that I don't want a serious relationship with anyone. The only man I've been with says he's cool with me not wanting a serious relationship but I don't truly think he is. I know that makes me sound horrible but if you have desires shouldn't you be w/someone you trust instead of a perfect stranger?

2007-10-10 04:03:45 · 21 answers · asked by Kristin H 1

If u have read my last questions u might have got my situation and now i donno what to do and how to teach him a lesson plz helpme where do i need to go to get him punished and how can i get divorce and also get some money also as my whole life would b ruined after that ... I m in trouble i donno anything plzz plzz help me!!!

2007-10-10 04:00:00 · 35 answers · asked by honey 2

just doing some general comparing. Would like to know from daughter-in-laws, how often do your in-laws visit your home?
Thanks.

2007-10-10 03:58:38 · 17 answers · asked by veronicazombie 2