When is enough, enough?
2007-10-10 06:53:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you feel indifferent. The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference.
2007-10-10 07:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In marriage you should try to work things out. You have ups and downs. Make it through tough times.
Enough is enough, if your other was to cheat on you, or abuse you.
Why get married in the first place if you are just going into the marriage thinking you are going to get a divorce? Doesn't make sense to me. Might as well just date and break up. It's much easier.
2007-10-10 14:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal & Steve *Muah* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a shame that so many people today marry with the attitude that if it does not work out I can always get a divorce.
What happened to "till death do us part". You should work out your problems. Get married with the idea it is forever and you have to find ways to work out each and every problem because it is forever.
If you are wondering at what stage you should get a divorce then you should have never married and you might as well end it. I feel sorry for you though because your relationship never stood a chance.
Good luck to you whatever you decide.
2007-10-10 14:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by mn lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try counseling. If that doesn't work and you are truly unhappy then leave. You should not stay in an environment if you are unhappy. Physical abuse is not the only thing that can be detrimental to your well being. Unhealthy relationships that cause stress can be just as devastaing to your life. Don't just abandon ship without trying to sort out your problems, but if communication and couseling aren't enough then it's probably time to call it quits and move on with your life.
2007-10-10 14:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have not spent time in marriage counseling yet then that needs to be the next step, it helps getting the advice of a 3rd party
2007-10-10 14:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.DaSilva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the lord's eyes never because you took a vow before him to love, honor, cherish, and obey no matter what until death do you part. This is what your going to have to answer to honey! That is the problem with people nowadays always looking for the easy way out(DIVORCE)....Stick it out and seek counseling...DAMN
2007-10-10 14:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by Flyyasever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention enough what, but if a spouse is cheating, the first time is enough and the same holds true for domestic violence
2007-10-10 14:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need to get divorced, you shouldnt have gotten married to begin with. Maybe you should have considered what you were doing a bit more before making such a commitment
2007-10-10 13:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you have tried everything, and I mean EVERYTHING to make it work (counseling, compromise, etc.) and nothing helps.
Divorce is never easy and each person has their own tolerance to things. There is no set answer. It depends on the situation.
2007-10-10 14:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it really hurts you physically and emotionally, and there is no more sex, conversation or love involved etc. Good luck!!
2007-10-10 13:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by hershey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋